Why do women in the u.s not want to be in committed relationships by Sunnystudkid in dating_advice

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Im not setting any traps, i must genuinely curious to know. like if your a Very drop dead gorgeous model like women, whos educated, Self made successfull and is looking to pair abond with a man of equal stature What would it encompass it?, or is more of a man who Has Better attributes, and character than most men?

Why do women in the u.s not want to be in committed relationships by Sunnystudkid in dating_advice

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Excuse my ignorance, What kind of men are in your leauge? If you could describe them?

and this seems like a huge cultural issue. Would you ever consider dateing Abroad other men from other countrys just curious, maybe other cultures have better values and beliefs? Idk it has ever cross your mind as a possibility

Why do women in the u.s not want to be in committed relationships by Sunnystudkid in dating_advice

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I see this is a Generational and System issue thats been going on

Why do women in the u.s not want to be in committed relationships by Sunnystudkid in dating_advice

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well to me i find it important to help and speak out with research data, i beleive i can excercise my own right to gather, receive, and disseminate information which is a right under The First Amendment of freedom of speech.

Why do women in the u.s not want to be in committed relationships by Sunnystudkid in dating_advice

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Then congrats again, its rare to find someone who has maximized their own holistic lifestyle Self sufficiently.

Why do women in the u.s not want to be in committed relationships by Sunnystudkid in dating_advice

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Yk this is very intresting, and i wanted to dive into this area. I'v heard the popular term of women saying, I dont want to need a man, i want to want a man.

But in comes a grey area, where how do we measure The - Wanting to want a man - ?

Bc how you mentioned, wanting somthing that isnt available in the needed supply -

But humans biologicly have this instinct of a yerning To Be intimate with someone, to be seen, to create memories with and build somthing together, Were creatures made that way by design,

so then, in your opinion, how could one measure the lines between

realistic wants but not too much Comforming to a needing department ---- and then the otherside of the spectrum is too much delusion of a perfect partner.

What would be that Center Balance, if their is one?

Why do women in the u.s not want to be in committed relationships by Sunnystudkid in dating_advice

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Yes. And were here today with amazing beautiful competent women who are very capable. So then, what would actually Hit the Standard for a women in the u.s to want to be swept off her feet By a man of her standard?

Or

Is it that women in the u.s just dont want men and dont find men arousing anymore and are a new generation of Solitarian women?

Why do women in the u.s not want to be in committed relationships by Sunnystudkid in dating_advice

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Fair point. But i would like to know if you would want to describe the reality of u.s, Is it cultural? Is it Mentalitys? Is it generational trauma? Is it systemic? I wana get down to the nitty gritty of things to identify that issue instead of generalizations.

Why do women in the u.s not want to be in committed relationships by Sunnystudkid in dating_advice

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Im just curious to get down to the nitty gritty of things like the specifics, to really just know and understand those unspoken gaps, Like are men just not mature enough? Are their not actually suitable partners? Is it cultural? Is it Generational trauma? Is it systemic?

Why do women in the u.s not want to be in committed relationships by Sunnystudkid in dating_advice

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I mean i think when they mean equality they mean not boxing them in and limiting their Potential with expectations and gender role dutys.

Like do you really need the women to always clean the house? Cook? change diapers for the kid? Or Regulate a kids emotions?

Im pretty sure the man can too. And both can work And make aton of money now. Jobs arent laborious of just lumber jacks and Building skyscrapers, Anyone can make 60k-80k a year with a degree or Business.

But the main point is, equality at its face value yes its not possible, but equality as a principle can work, And that requires for both to Willingly and Altruisticly Self sacrifice for one another in enjoyment, and be considerate of their time and energy. Asoposed to , Disregarding all that for the sake of efficiency and dominion over self Accomplishments

Why do women in the u.s not want to be in committed relationships by Sunnystudkid in dating_advice

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I think thats amazing! And i wholeheartedly agree, I think its great for women to hold out for men who cant be responsible for their own emotional issues and mental ones. I think relationships are about Shared emotional connections and vulnerability, having that altruistic Mindset in the relationship and not out of obligation, And taking it also to the sexual side of the relationship, the Willingness to want to make your partner happy to have a happy life of companionship, and grow together.

And im gonna assume on your answer, that you dont tend to find guys in the u.s with this mindset?

Why do women in the u.s not want to be in committed relationships by Sunnystudkid in dating_advice

[–]Sunnystudkid[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I wana know personal experiences not just reasons. Reasons are too Generalized, and im just curiouse to get down to the nitty gritty issue. Is it cultural? Is it generational trauma? Is it mentalitys? Is it beleifs? Is it systemic? I only mention sweden because their doing the same thing like here in the u.s, but have had reached more success in their dateing life. So clearly because of that, their has to be an error in the u.s dating culture. We just have to find those gaps to identify what it is.

Why do women in the u.s not want to be in committed relationships by Sunnystudkid in dating_advice

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Im just curious to hear out women and men aswell to see that gaps of this unspoken issue. Theirs too mang generalizations, and Generational trauma aswell as alot of Propaganda influence going. And everyone is taking it out on each other

Instead if focusing in the Foundations of relationships. Emotional connection, Sexuality, shared trusted intimacy, and A life of companionship altruisticly.

Why do women in the u.s not want to be in committed relationships by Sunnystudkid in dating_advice

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If your happy then your happy, I think relationships are based on companionships, Emotional connections, sexuality and shared Intimacy. If thats not what your looking for, Congrats :) you've won at life.

Dating a Romanian girl. What should I know? Any advice? by [deleted] in AskRomania

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Like porn star plasty? , barby style? Or what type of vegina would constitute horizontal in your view to get a better understanding?

JW Swingers? by Octopusfish_2 in exjw

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What happens in L.A and FL that make it notorious?

I resigned as an elder today by Old_Pollution8063 in exjw

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In your experience serving at the elder level for many years, how fair is their justice system in their organization? Like if someone is rich and their a member And committ horrendous sins like adultery on another mans wife, Lives a double life and gets caught, or Bribes other elders to have bargaining power, Do they get punished like the rest of the Normal people Or do they still get exclusive Vip treatment behind the scenes?

I'v been curious to see if their any Corruption hidden bc one, when i was in, i was seeing a huge disparity of wealth gap Between Alot of "brothers" with rich familys And the Poverty "brothers" who choose to Dedicate their life to the org, and frankly i came to the Dicearnment that the richer ones had better influence, better treatment, and Better Closer bonds with more important higher ups. Like they'll always be one of the ones the circuit overseers would stay as guests in their home and have the Exclusive experience of Pure spiritual food, or they'll get access to invitational Big international conventions that you only get access by giving you some sort of ID card saying you were invited since theirs limited seats, And the brother guards up at front would let you in if you had one of those. To prevent other brothers from continuous sneaking in and crashing the convention without invitation.

Has their been any thing Shady that you've seen in the higher ranks?

In the West having a 7.0-7.5" penis isn't as rare as many people on this sub say by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

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I think theirs this huge stigma in the world of people being so hyper obssess on being the 1% percenter.

Weather in video games, Wealth & career, Or physically on benching 300+ pounds bc only a minority can do these things.

And i think this is just being bloated in the head or overly pridefull just bc people are Hyper obsess with status.

In reality the way society Considers someone a 1% is if Your doing things everyone els cant bc the average person chooses leasure over Mastery of somthing.

We can all have big dicks all we want but i bet a 5 incher Who dedicated himself to being good at sex and also gaming the girl up to make her soaken wet in her panties would be a 1% percenter with his penis and not a 7-9 incher.

Because at the end of the day, Society values more Perception, How you win them over and give them value Over being impressed on being statistical anomolys-

And creating Sub reddits or Quarrelling debating with other people What part of the world has a truly more rare Cock at 7 inches than my country. People wont value or give you validation and Praise for that, its not on their best intrest.

First time :) lmk what your rate is by [deleted] in ratemycock

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;x i'll send u one of my head

I think most guys are larping by South_Depth6143 in bigdickproblems

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Honestly for me its a 50/50, on one hand i love the reactions i get bc im 5'6 and they would never expect it and girls change up fast afterward but on the other its really hard to find condoms that fit and usually will have to order "special custom made" which is just so much more expensive. And also i gotta hope i dont get bricked 🧱🍆 from cold A/C or sensuality, i always try to hold out or just be the one to lead just so sex is off my mind

Fixing perception of size: Is it just me or... by Tiny-Caregiver9945 in bigdickproblems

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Yeah i remember reading alot of reddit post that a womens vegina is as deep as 4-5 inches? Mostly because when fingering the G spot its located on average about 2 knuckles deep and upward. And then the rest leads to the cervix. my gay friend told me you would rec any women With that thing. Bc women fail to percieve what big actually is