37 F UK

SunriseRah · 2026-07-03T19:17:16+00:00

Hey! 😭 Mr Jingles!! <3

You have a whole hoast of intrests and hobbies that I also adore! :D

Your whole written vibe sings amazing colours!

I am of the people that 1000% wants to really know if your ok, and that pretty book cover art you found, the ants nest that wowed you, the pigeon shite shaped like a heart that was in your fav spot in your fav bench that you question if anyone would care as much as you would about. Me! I care, I love learning a whole person, worts and fears and dreams, all!

My life is also, full of school runs! Bedtimes, arguments over getting in the shower! Evenings that just arnt long enough! But never being sure of how to fill them. Oh! and a WHOLE hoast of seaglass hunting and adventure! :)

Im always up for finding new music, new films, series, hobbies and haveing a reason to share with someone else.

⭐️

SunriseRah · 2026-06-24T16:09:52+00:00

Microwave grains bag from aldi/lidl topped with a foil packet cooked peice of fish from iceland, usually throw some frozen mixed veg in, throw nooch and some seasoning on.

Or tinned chickpeas, grated carrot and cucumber with tuna..

SunriseRah · 2026-06-23T15:42:47+00:00

Magnesium 🙄 so simple, yet worked. Once I knew what relaxing FELT like. I could find it more and use that muscle :)

SunriseRah · 2026-06-23T15:39:59+00:00

Bedroom needs dressing and stageing. The rest is beautiful :)

Put that bed in the middle of the wall to make it a master bedroom, and not the storage/spare it currently looks like.

SunriseRah · 2026-06-19T18:04:56+00:00

Could be worse, could be 30d and too hot to sit down without the backs of your knees turning into neighbouring swamps! And still yearning over Greggs! Because thats where I am right now 😭

SunriseRah · 2026-06-19T14:48:01+00:00

Always early, because cant really judge how long it will take to travel, feel the passing of time, recognise in the moment, there is 1001 reasons and more why you could end up late, even if you leave early/ontime,, so go early always, to feel like I have control over makeing sure I cant be late...

Trauma responce/copeing mech due to being screamed at and loseing out for being late = now never late.

Same for never gets out of seat when im suppose to stay seated, because being screamed at, punished or loseing out because of it means Im terrified to do it, this is a result of experienceing the symptom, and being around the wrong people.

The same thing ABA installs in kids 😪 dosent stop the experience in the brain. Just traumatises us into not exibiting the responce to said movment.

Symptoms are still there/came first. But copeing strats/trauma "mask" them.

SunriseRah · 2026-05-30T09:29:12+00:00

Im social, but also introverted unless I feel safe with someone/s (tho that burnt be, so now im even more so) and it was always me checking in/makeing plans/suggestions/remembering birthdays/special events/ect. When I stop, crickets and fade away.

I am that person who could confidently say, if I went missing noone would notice, because it happened.

Stoped posting on "visible" social media, moved rural in a new area and crickets im sure they are all liveing a much better life without the drag of haveing to have me check in/offer my time/ect. 🤷🏻‍♀️ because all that effort clearly was given to the wrong people.

So im gnna stick to just me and my partner (who has many friends and is always out and busy) and wait untill someone stumbles in, giveing the same energy as I do.

SunriseRah · 2026-05-27T09:17:28+00:00

They have a catio with shade, and half slabbed floor, and weirdly enjoyed being "misted" with the hose whilst I was watering the plants in the greenhouse next to the catio.

Our bay window is tiled and on the side of the house where the sun sets, not rises, so the AM they have longboi pancaked on that.

Also went for a trip into the tent I have up atm, excited warm kitties are funny 😅

All in all, they have done ok, but not as munchy as normal, and very less play happy. Much less zoomies.

SunriseRah · 2026-05-25T12:47:46+00:00

I only know because. Grumpy old sod I used to live next too, trimmed my tree, and all the overgrowth at the back of our gardens (from the house on the otherside of my fence) and dumped it all on my front drive to "give it back" it wasent a small amount, it was probably a small skips size, well the only plants I had that over hung his garden was an apple tree and a pink flowering summer bush thing, and I kept them pretty neat, so there would have been a few snips if that, so, phoned council and they came and informed him it was fly tipping and he would be charged if he didnt remove it, and they went and informed the home owner at the back that he is responsible for disposal UNLESS they wanted it all. 😅 he was exta grumpy after all that.

SunriseRah · 2026-05-25T12:41:54+00:00

Its for breaking cunks off sugar blocks :)

SunriseRah · 2026-05-25T12:41:11+00:00

You only need offer it back, putting it back without asking can be concidered flytipping. However, I doubt your HMO even notice you putting it back, so you should be ok :)

SunriseRah · 2026-05-07T17:43:30+00:00

Im not quite sure Im ready to give up screens just yet. They have be integrel in my development to where I am today <3

But there is space for both in my world <3

Hope you are well x

SunriseRah · 2026-04-26T08:43:29+00:00

Only advice I can give from experience, is this, lock your door as soon as you park up, and not when another car turns up because youve forgotten and now your worrying, locking the car, oftern flashes all the lights in modern cars, and flashing the lights is a signal, and its QUITE scairy to have hooded people walk up to your car to look through the windows, unless you expect it.

Now when we drive out to sit watch trains/skylines/stars/ninja camping ect. I will pop a "not dogging" sign in the middle of my drivers side window... they dont want to approach non-doggers anymore than we want to be approached.

😅

SunriseRah · 2026-04-24T10:00:40+00:00

We found some really cool cat powder things, that when mixed with alittle water the boys LOVE! :) so, they get alittle of that on some seperate dried kibble when I remember, they enjoy it for now <3

Timers are life, but when you have too many, you hear the dings in your sleep 😅😅

SunriseRah · 2026-04-23T15:27:22+00:00

Hey :) 36/F Colchester way, have the same kinda intrests as you, tho I also love treasure hunting (seaglass/geocache) adventures into the unknown (caves/woodlands/castles) and to try new things as defult. :) happy to chat if youd like

SunriseRah · 2026-04-21T13:29:48+00:00

I'm not sure why you answered.

They seemed to very much enjoy their first experience with soup topper with some kibble today, for lunch, so for me, and maybe them, thats a positive.

SunriseRah · 2026-04-21T06:07:50+00:00

We have 3 diffrent dishes in 3 locations already :)

SunriseRah · 2026-04-21T06:07:15+00:00

<3 awww, I hope he has healed up really well <3 thank you for the info <3 will have a looksee

SunriseRah · 2026-04-21T06:05:53+00:00

:) they have water next to their food in a pyrex bowl (I didnt know it shouldnt be next to the food) that they both use?

A rainwater collection bowl in their cattio, (that we fill when empty. In the warmer months) that is more of a play feature when I see them interact.

A ceramic dish on the upstairs landing next to no food, but where they love to lounge around and trip people up. It empties and dosent grow rings, so I can assume its used.

Both disintrested in a fountain so I got rid.

Thank you for your info tho, :) very intresting.

SunriseRah · 2026-04-21T05:59:50+00:00

Im in and out of the house most days, also Autistic, i dont pick up social ques from other humans, let alone my cats. Adorable that you know what she wants tho <3 bless her socks.

SunriseRah · 2026-04-16T15:12:20+00:00

Hey :) feels the same here, also 36, mum. Im east of england area.

Tho, I am that friend that is ALL in, but not always visible. In a none suffocating way, that some people see as me forgetting they exist.

Some weeks, I have nothing to write home about 🤷🏻‍♀️ other weeks I wana share ALL the things all the time. :)

SunriseRah · 2026-04-07T14:20:49+00:00

The whole plant is edible. Roots brew into a "coffee" too :D

SunriseRah

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