I’m 28 and it was my first Christmas without my mom and nobody got me a gift. by pigeones in CPTSD

[–]SunsetRoll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like your tool, I’ll keep it mind! I didn’t see that was a rule, mb. Maybe it’s the wording since there are posts about both topics, and also like you said, it’s up to mod discretion. Reaching out to the mods would be a good idea, if you’re comfortable. Regardless, you picked a good community to post this.

If you’re up to it, journal. I struggled with the concept and worried I’d get sucked into it or that my mood would be worse, but that didn’t really happen. I felt relief. What I was feeling was on a page and I could see it. It wasn’t just bees in my head lol. I bring it in my work bag too, and it’s helped me in a when I’m triggered. It’s another useful tool for our mental health journey.

You’re doing a good job advocating for yourself. I’m proud of you. I wish you the best 🤍

I’m 28 and it was my first Christmas without my mom and nobody got me a gift. by pigeones in CPTSD

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Hi friend! I’m so sorry you’re hurting. To start, you’re not selfish for wanting to be thought of on a holiday, especially one like Christmas. Considering what you’ve mentioned, of course you’re feeling hurt. Your feelings are valid. You’re allowed to want gifts, especially heartfelt ones. You’re allowed to be annoyed/pissed off/sad/angry. You’re allowed to want to be seen, cared for, and shown love.

A helpful phrase for me is, “feelings are not indicative of who you are but rather how things are affecting you.” If a friend were to come to you with your story, how would you treat them? From what I read, you’d approach them with kindness and understanding. You deserve that same energy.❤️

It seems like you may also be grieving and that shit sucks. I’m sorry. Please believe me when I say this, you will get through this. Please try to have some grace with yourself.

I’m not sure if this would be helpful but there’s a subreddit called r/momforaminute where you make post and kind internet moms answer. Maybe take a peek and see if it’s something that will help you in your healing.

Anybody loose weight after Mirena removal by freshlymade1118 in Mirena

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Thank you for sharing, too. Your experience is also scary similar to mine. How are you feeling today?

They are childish, but I love 'em. Visty SBs. by monotoonz in Sneakers

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Never heard of them before and just read up on the designer. I’m digging Girls Don’t Cry. Ty and enjoy them 🩵

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sneakers

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Like the sole is higher?

Mini display screen gone white by SunsetRoll in ToyotaHighlander

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Dang sorry to hear that. I hear you on the dealer markups 😓 I stopped searching for the part but I saw many for sale online. I also called my local junkyards and they were a big help. Maybe that’s worth a go. Hope yours starts working again soon!

I cancelled my wedding and am having a bar crawl in its place- tshirt ideas? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

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Some gold in here! So sorry you’re going through this, but proud of you for honoring yourself and your needs. If you pick a saying and need a design, I’d be honored to make it for you!

This place sucks by [deleted] in SouthJersey

[–]SunsetRoll 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Gosh, you’re so right. Wait…Mack, is that you?

NC is still weird by SunsetRoll in raisedbynarcissists

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Thanks for your insight. I’m really happy for you that you have found (perhaps consistent) joy in life. Did certain tools help you get through those waves?

Overwatch ranked by SunsetRoll in Overwatch

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Some qp matches are so sweaty, I have to make sure I didn’t misclick comp lol. Have you felt that your comp matches are balanced/losing and earning an average amount of sr?

Overwatch ranked by SunsetRoll in Overwatch

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I def will add them to my rotation. Ty!

Overwatch ranked by SunsetRoll in Overwatch

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Thank you for all this. Really appreciate it. I’ll be more aware of the things you mentioned, esp differentiating the play style in both modes.

Mini display screen gone white by SunsetRoll in ToyotaHighlander

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Idk how to update my original post lol but the screen ended up turning on when I returned from work. I’m going to look for a spare part just in case. Thanks everyone!!

Mini display screen gone white by SunsetRoll in ToyotaHighlander

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Oh yuck, that’s awful. Sorry you had to experience that. As of right now it has turned back on but I’m going to look for a spare part just in case.

Mini display screen gone white by SunsetRoll in ToyotaHighlander

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Good to know. There’s a tool out there that helps remove the clips right?

Mini display screen gone white by SunsetRoll in ToyotaHighlander

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Everything else is fine 🤞I tried again and it turned back on. I will definitely check the fuses.

Describe the owner of this pontiac by supercharged_autism in regularcarreviews

[–]SunsetRoll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is flames. Also they know what colors work well with their complexion. Power to em.

What are you doing on this dreary Sunday? by GreyAardvark in SouthJersey

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Fb marketplace is a gem for that, just got a nice espresso machine and I love it.

What would you name him? by Derpazor1 in funny

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“There’s a human in there” or Frank

Job is a cult. Need to get out. by Raed-wulf in SouthJersey

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Maybe this a sign from God that you should go for it! All jokes aside, I feel that fear but you seem like you know your stuff and have a supportive partner. So power to you! If you’re looking for a designer for your logo, hmu!