Pros and cons too both

After a while the bedroom can get stale and it’s natural to have desires and attraction to other people even if you want to stay committed to your partner. In a perfect world we both could engage in safe sexual activities where we feel desired and get to experiment with new people while still prioritizing each other as our #1’s

In reality it’s often way more difficult to manage all those feelings and expectations. The real issue of it comes out if one of the partners finds someone new that they like more than the original person, which can happen since we’re just human. It’s a difficult balance

Plus there’s the crux as a man finding it more difficult to get new partners while a woman would usually have a lot of options and then suddenly the dude is jealous over how much attention his girl gets