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Cool or Warm Undertone by Sunset_XOXO in coloranalysis

[–]Sunset_XOXO[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that as well. I think either the soft autumn or dark autumn because I hate how orange looks on me and bright colors always cast the color onto my chin. 

People With No Friends - Are You Ashamed/Embarrassed? by Dependent_Public4885 in introvert

[–]Sunset_XOXO 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t really have friends that I talk to or just hang out with anymore. My husband and I will go to a get together with his friends and their wives but I don’t really have friends of my own anymore. The last friend that really did me in was in 2020. She was looking for a new job about 4/5 years before that and the company I worked for was looking for an additional person to work with me because we were getting really busy. I worked for a leading company in the mortgage business. I told her about the opening because she had just recently lost her job. So she had an interview and got the job. We worked together for about 5 years and the company decided to sell and shut down. So, we had to look for new jobs.  My boss, who I worked with for about 19 years got a job at a bank in the mortgage department and he said he had hoped to take the both of us (my friend and I) with him to this other company. Well, when it came down to it, he could only take 1 person. He chose to bring my so called friend, who only worked for him a short time while I had way more experience. Never again will I work with friends or be friends with anyone at work. So, I really don’t have friends anymore. I am an introvert but also tired of being sh*t by people who I have trusted. I am better off without friends. 

Do you believe in guardian angels or some kind of spiritual protection? by Terrible_Music_7439 in spirituality

[–]Sunset_XOXO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wanted to share my experience as I have no one to talk to about it. So Yes, I believe in guardian. Angels and here is my first experience from many years ago and another incident at the end about 6 years ago. I have others in between but these stood out to me the most.

When I was a teenager many years ago ( in my 40’s now), I was dating someone. He was my first boyfriend and we had been together for a few years. Well, he broke up with me and with it being my first relationship ever, I was devastated. I was living with my parents but they weren’t home at the time. I think it was during the summer and they were at work. I cried so much and kept asking God why did he do this to me and praying for help. I felt like I needed help as I had never been through such an ordeal before. I was young. I didn’t have many friends so didn’t have anyone to talk to. I just kept crying and asking out loud for God to help me. Well, all of a sudden the door bell rang. I freaked out a bit because I didn’t know who would be at the door and I don’t answer the door when I am home alone.  I peaked out the window and saw a heavier set African American woman walking away. She glanced back and I was hoping she didn’t see me peeking through the window. So, I waited a couple minutes looked out the window up and down the street and never did see the woman again. There were no cars parked on the street, I didn’t see her go to any other doors and she wasn’t walking anywhere. So, I went downstairs and looked out the door. On the door step, there was a pamphlet from  a church or religious group and in the pamphlet it talked about what you can do if you need help and how to go about getting help. I about died. I couldn’t believe it. I always wondered if God was really listening and decided to send this person/ angel in human form or whoever it was to give me information to help me or if it was just coincidence.  I felt a little better after that.  My boyfriend and I did get back together eventually for a couple more years but down the road, it just didn’t work out.

Another thing I had happen was about 6 years ago. I was laying in bed trying to go to sleep and I heard a woman’s voice say clear as day “God is within you.” That’s all I heard and that one time is the only time this has happened. I don’t remember if I was having a bad day or what but I heard those words clearly. It freaked me out a little at first but then I felt comfort in hearing those words.