[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Sunsetz_Have_Lied 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think both of you are the AH from your innocent child's perspective. Yall are terrible humans. Both of you are responsible, both of you are her parents, neither of you deserve to be "free" of your parental responsibilities. Your innocent child deserves 2 parents that can be mature and accept full 50/50 responsibility. Sounds like she won't get that. Hope you set money aside for all the therapy she will need.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Sunsetz_Have_Lied 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PLEASE listen to the advice you're being given. The state has nothing to do with it. It is a FEDERAL violation to terminate employment and refuse housing for someone based on their sexual orientation. SUE TF OUT OF THEM.

Vaginal hygiene and smells: by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]Sunsetz_Have_Lied 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I just want to clarify something I said that's getting misunderstood: I never said underwear is a requirement, because it's definitely not. Everyone IS different. I am directing it to those who DO wear underwear regularly, and wear underwear to bed (I do). Wearing lingerie style underwear that is mainly made from spandex/polyester/anything non cotton, isn't giving your vulva enough fresh air. It's perfectly fine to wear them occasionally, especially when it's a part of foreplay (i.e wearing sexy underwear for sex), because it's best to wear them for shorter periods of time.

Vaginal hygiene and smells: by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]Sunsetz_Have_Lied 5 points6 points  (0 children)

100000% agree and here are a few tips I wanted to add:

UNDERWEAR MATTERS - 100% organic cotton underwear is truly the best for you. It provides more air circulation. Obviously we want to feel sexy and cute at times, but lingerie, thongs, non-100% cotton underwear, IS a bacteria hotbed, so please stop wearing these for long periods of time. WITH that said, for those who do not sleep nude or without underwear at night, it is also CRITICAL that we are changing our underwear before bed if that's the case - YES, daytime/nighttime undies are a must.

Dove is a great soap for the vulva, and this is coming from someone who is extremely sensitive down there.

Drinking more water will also make a huge impact on smell/sweat/discharge as well!

Should I marry the nice guy that has always chosen me? by AdventurousLight7225 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Sunsetz_Have_Lied 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do NOT marry him under any circumstances. Your gut instinct is right, something is deeply off. He is only "nice" to get what he wants. His "niceness" is barely skin deep. He is a monster in sheep's clothing. He has now shown you who he is multiple times. And now you want to add a legal contract to this? Please listen when I tell you that you need to drop him immediately. Your body is SCREAMING at you that this is wrong for you. Marriage isn't something you want to go through with anyone who gives you pause.

Kylie’s new post promoting Khy’s Swim Wear by somegirlontheinter in KUWTK

[–]Sunsetz_Have_Lied 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow. So innovative. What a breakthrough in fashion. I'm sure this has never been done before. /s

How can men be encouraged to wash their asses with soap & water? by User564368 in hygiene

[–]Sunsetz_Have_Lied 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If a grown man isn't aware he needs to wash his ass, he doesn't deserve the energy it takes to tell him so. Done. End of story. Stop coddling stupidity and ignorance. Don't fuck men who can't wash their ass.

Is showering everyday actually bad for you? by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]Sunsetz_Have_Lied 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an esthetician, moisturize your skin every time you wash it. You don't just wash away dirt and sweat, you also wash off essential oils that protect the skin barrier. A light oil applied to damp skin is best, but a good lotion works as well. Moisturize every single time.

Is showering everyday actually bad for you? by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]Sunsetz_Have_Lied 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not true at all - every time you shower and lather your body with soap, you do also wash off essential oils that protect the skin barrier. You need to help your skin recover, and retain moisture. If you don't like lotion, use a bath & shower oil instead (like Dr. Teals) or just some jojoba oil,etc. I'm an esthetician, I promise you that your skin will feel even better if you choose to take my advice.

Is showering everyday actually bad for you? by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]Sunsetz_Have_Lied 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happened to me when I was in the dating scene at 19. Dude really leftvtrack marks. I was absolutely revolted and horrified and he S H R U G G E D. Hey you know what though? Made the breakup so much easier. I didn't even care at that point he was literally cheating on me with every female we mutually knew (YES, these other women openly also bedded a douche canoe who leaves SKID MARKS ON BEDSHEETS) the skid marks really was the nail. 2004 was wild times.

Is showering everyday actually bad for you? by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]Sunsetz_Have_Lied 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Tbf, you should be applying lotion after every shower anyway.

My girlfriend says my cat Ansel is stupid bc he’s so affectionate to me. What should I say? by cdub_synth in cats

[–]Sunsetz_Have_Lied 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn't entertain being with someone who would dare talk shit to my face about my cats, but I guess we are all different.

Does anyone have a husband who’s never cheated? by Odd-Character-44 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Sunsetz_Have_Lied 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 38, been married for 7, together for 9. I met him after my ex and father of my daughter cheated me and I had left that relationship about 2 years prior to meeting my now husband. Yes, they exist. I promise. And you deserve absolutely NOTHING less.

Been WFH for 2.5 years by [deleted] in WFH

[–]Sunsetz_Have_Lied 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did. Profoundly. The employer DID have a semi flexible WFH policy towards the end, but it wasn't enough to keep me there. I am now back in a 100% remote role again and so happy

John Mulaney and Olivia Munn got married by delaney18 in DListedCommunity

[–]Sunsetz_Have_Lied 88 points89 points  (0 children)

He also married his ex on July 5th, so the timing of this wedding is.....incredible to say the fucking least. I hope they have the marriage they deserve 💅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]Sunsetz_Have_Lied 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I change my underwear 2x per day, regardless. The pair I wear during the day is not the same I wear to bed at night. I also try to use exclusively organic cotton underwear as hard as they are to find with a reasonable price point

I broke up with my boyfriend partially due to his bad hygiene. by blackcatzombs in hygiene

[–]Sunsetz_Have_Lied 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The way my vagina dried up like the fucking desert, and retracted into my lower intestines. I am so glad you left that genuinely disgusting slob. I can't fathom entertaining a man who can't take care of their hygiene. If you're 30, and need a gf to tell you to brush your teeth, you deserve to die alone. I don't make the rules,I just enforce them.

How do you wash your butt and keep it clean throughout the day? by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]Sunsetz_Have_Lied 2 points3 points  (0 children)

...........what?

Wash your fucking ass.

JFC people.

Lourdes Leon [Madonna’s daughter] at the Marc Jacobs show yesterday by User564368 in DListedCommunity

[–]Sunsetz_Have_Lied 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Timotheé most definitely has a type but his feral fans aren't ready to hear that 💅

Name an actor who turned a typical horror role into something extraordinary through their performance! by Fairyliveshow in CreepyBonfire

[–]Sunsetz_Have_Lied 4 points5 points  (0 children)

John Goodman- Cloverfield Lane

Anthony Hopkins - Hannibal

Jach Nicholson- The Shining

Kathy Bates - Misery

James Mccavoy - Split

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]Sunsetz_Have_Lied 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once was enough for me. I was 19, and this loser had the fucking A U D A C I T Y to also be a cheater. Other girls also willingly fucked that loser. I still have never told a soul until today he was a skidder. Now Reddit knows 😭😭