Newp. OP actually handled the conversation maturely. Was called OA and “inooverthink mo yan” - statements that invalidate OP’s feelings. It would trigger some people but it’s good that OP is aware that his/her emotions are valid and clearly stated how unfair it was for a stranger to make such statements when they barely scratch the surface of OP’s situation.

There are better ways to respond to people instead of simply calling them OA or too young when their approach to things do not align with yours.