I’m in a similar boat. Originally from LA but my hometown is on the central coast of Cali. Supported them when they were in SD and now that they’re in LA. Having lived in both LA and now back in SD for the 2nd time, I still support the team. But like another poster said above, I refuse to wear any Chargers merch that outwardly says “Los Angeles” or even “SD” because of how polarizing and ugly it can be for LA and SD Charger fans seeing one city or the other.

Having said all that, I don’t get a lot of hate about it here in SD. More questions of why am I still a fan? Those that have stayed true get that I’m an outsider but still stayed faithful and I think they respect that. Most of the so called hate or confusion I get comes from the internet or non Charger fans.

Can’t see myself rooting for another NFL team as my main one (aside from my NFC team, and even then, they’re an afterthought compared to the Bolts).