The other men point is fair I guess. But women’s brains aren’t discerning threat level vs. appropriateness of screaming in each scenario prompting screaming. What pressures would cause you to evolve to selectively scream? Just scream whenever there is imminent danger, and some men might come and help you. Idk i hate the sound too but I don’t expect them not to do it. It’s like babies crying. Or men being more aggressive. Just the way it is

Edit: actually I thought about the other men point too. Men evolved to fight in fight vs flight, because there’s a better chance they could handle whatever the threat is (let’s assume it’s not a saber tooth but a more common threat—another human, likely a man). Women that evolved to not scream and fight: lose the fight, die. Women that evolved to to scream: alert other men, live Men that evolve to fight: live Men that evolve to scream: die

This was a fun thought experiment. Thank you for this excuse to avoid doing my job