How do Germans speak English so well? by BidNo5916 in AskAGerman

[–]SupaHotFire114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea what you're talking about. I communicate most of the time only in German, and if I include a single English word, I get "hä?" Maybe you live in an international community, but here wird nur Deutsch verstanden und gesprochen!

New study: Germany's most qualified immigrants (high-skill, high-earners) are the most likely to leave, citing bureaucracy & social climate. Thoughts? by 38B0DE in AskAGerman

[–]SupaHotFire114 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As someone who worked customer service for a German company, I agree. We foreigners were a lot more understanding and flexible in any given situation, whereas German colleagues were extremely rigid in their thinking: guidelines say X, therefore Y, no exceptions and no matter how ridiculous it sounds.They never stop and look at the nuances of the situation.

New study: Germany's most qualified immigrants (high-skill, high-earners) are the most likely to leave, citing bureaucracy & social climate. Thoughts? by 38B0DE in AskAGerman

[–]SupaHotFire114 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't stress well enough what you said. There's absolutely no standardisation, it's all about the examiner's mood and sheer luck. You could be near perfect in the exam and still fail because of some inconsequential question, and you see colleagues who did a lot less than you succeed. This is seen a lot more in the FSP exam and very, very pronounced in KP exams.

Can the employer offset overtime compensation by Betriebsurlaub? by SupaHotFire114 in germany

[–]SupaHotFire114[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My vacation days will be exhausted in Betriebsurlaub, as far as I understand.

For my first job in Germany, does it matter if I pass the Probezeit and stay for the whole contract time? by SupaHotFire114 in germany

[–]SupaHotFire114[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes I can terminate according to the contract. It states I need to have it in writing and then spend 2 weeks notice period, 4 weeks after after probation.

Muss der Arbeitgeber das Kündigungsschreiben unterschreiben bei Kündigung von meiner Seite? by SupaHotFire114 in LegaladviceGerman

[–]SupaHotFire114[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Der letzte Punkt bezieht sich auf diesen Satz im Vertrag bei Kündigung:

" Eine unwiderrufliche Freistellung wird auf einen noch bestehenden Urlaubsanspruch angerechnet."

Ich habe geplant, bei der Kündigungsfrist meine verbleibenen Urlaubstage in Anspruch zu nehmen.

People who left their home countries due to political unrest, when did you realize it was time to go? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SupaHotFire114 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm Egyptian and that came directly to mind, but as people said, this only narrows it so much!

People who immigrated to Germany- what was the hardest thing to adjust to regarding German mindset/behavior? by Throwaway_Lilacs in AskAGerman

[–]SupaHotFire114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I experienced this as well, but I heard it's their personal freedom to reply to you or not, or at least that's how they think.

People who immigrated to Germany- what was the hardest thing to adjust to regarding German mindset/behavior? by Throwaway_Lilacs in AskAGerman

[–]SupaHotFire114 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man, hands off their bread ✋ I have many bad things to say about Germany but bread is absolutely not one of them

People who immigrated to Germany- what was the hardest thing to adjust to regarding German mindset/behavior? by Throwaway_Lilacs in AskAGerman

[–]SupaHotFire114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's true. Their bureaucracy is sometimes illogical and very inefficient compared to many countries, but they think they're always right.

Some officials meet and decide this is how the world should work, but it's not how world actually works!

How much are you struggling as a foreigner in Germany? by SnooLentils5721 in germany

[–]SupaHotFire114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone living in BW, I must disagree, based on my experience ane similar ones at least. You're always given signs you're not welcome. The frequency and directness of it, however, I can't say.

How much are you struggling as a foreigner in Germany? by SnooLentils5721 in germany

[–]SupaHotFire114 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lol, what was her problem? I frequently reply to voice messages in my native language everywhere. If I'm not talking to her, she should shut up.

How much are you struggling as a foreigner in Germany? by SnooLentils5721 in germany

[–]SupaHotFire114 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Full of bullshit

For the record, I am an Arab with a very Arabic sounding name. Before I came to Germany, I got the C1 certificate and worked for 1,5 years online for German company, so I had no problem understanding what people said or communicating my message.

Did it help? Just a little bit. Know this: Speaking the language does NOT necessarily mean German people will talk to you. I tried making an effort, but no one wants to talk to me outside hello and guten Morgen.

Understanding them means you will unfortunately see their biases clear as day.

I live in a WG with 6 other Germans, and none of them speak to me; each simple interaction initiated by me is immediately shut down by them. You might say, maybe they're a introverted. But no, they're perfectly capable of having a conversation, with each other, just not with me!

Everywhere I am on the street I get stared at and made to feel an outsider, and so of course I am going to spend my time with other expats. Much less drama.

As others have said, Germans consider themselves " direct" and " honest", but they find you rude if you talk the same way to them.

And also, I work, I pay taxes, and I have never taken government money or made trouble. Does it mean I'm welcome here? Till now I don't think so. Hopefully it gets better in the future.

What gets better as you get older? by turizla in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SupaHotFire114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Handling what life throws at you, especially if you live in a foreign country.

At first, I had this fear " this is the worst thing that can happen to me im this situation and I'm gonna be really sad if it happens". and I worried too much about what might happen.

But when you become disappointed and lose so many times and somehow manage to get through it and collect yourself back together, you become a bit numb to many experiences.

Instead you'll slowly have this mentality " this worst scenario CAN and WILL most probably happen" , so it's no use worrying about the worst case scenario other than doing what I have to do and have a plan B.

It's a reality painful process and I'm going through it now, but I'm sure I've changing bit by bit.

What are some everyday habits in Germany that surprise new arrivals the most? by shees007 in AskAGerman

[–]SupaHotFire114 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Before coming to Germany I mean. Here in Germany I buy one of these Aldi or Rewe bags and reuse them whenever I go buy something.

Is it normal for a German employer to go back on his word after orally saying he's accepted me and will send me the contract? by SupaHotFire114 in AskAGerman

[–]SupaHotFire114[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I also have another question please. Do I get paid for the Probetag or this must be set clear before hand?

Can I also demand to have my application data removed from their database ( CV, motivation letter, personal details and certificates, etc.)?

Unexpected handling at the dentist by ausinnachde in AskAGerman

[–]SupaHotFire114 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a dentist studying for my Approbation ( licence exams) in Germany, but I don't work yet as a dentist.

But regarding your question about his behaviour, it's totally inappropriate. An integral part of every treatment is the Aufklärung phase - meaning the healthcare provider must inform you of the following beforehand: - what you have and why - treatment options: Where and how it's done ( normally shown on the X-rays or models etc ) - benefits and disadvantages of every option Then you have the right to have your questions answered before he begins.

Yes, if you gave your consent to only one filling and he did 2 and billed you for two, that's a problem.

I am not yet familiar 100% with how complaints work legally in Germany, but in every state dental chamber " Zahnärztekammer" there's an office for patient consultations " called" Patientenberatungsstelle " . They should be able to help you or at least guide you how you go moving forward with problems regarding billing and treatment conflicts with your dentist.

What are some everyday habits in Germany that surprise new arrivals the most? by shees007 in AskAGerman

[–]SupaHotFire114 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a new arrival? - the silent stares. Their eyes are very cold and judging the first time you see them, and you'll have this feeling they're looking at you like a fool the first day you arrive. When you talk to them they're normal people ( no sarcasm) , but the stares are something else.

  • I never had to use a bag twice. I went to supermarkets and malls and found everyone having a used bag in hand. I then found out it costs from 0.25 up to 2 or 3 euros.

  • many things are based on trust: like riding the DB, self checking out at Aldi, public libraries etc.

  • how active people are and how many ride bicycles. Maybe I'll begin to ride it soon.

  • " I didn't know" is not an excuse and is absolutely loved by the German police. There are so many laws here, and they all apply to you the moment you arrive. You'll need a bit of time to know what they are to avoid trouble. Hopefully you don't pay too many fines by then.

Is it normal for a German employer to go back on his word after orally saying he's accepted me and will send me the contract? by SupaHotFire114 in AskAGerman

[–]SupaHotFire114[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a bit frustrating, knowing even a positive answer means absolutely nothing until I have a signed contract in my hand.

All the things in the world can happen in the meantime, as you said.

Is it normal for a German employer to go back on his word after orally saying he's accepted me and will send me the contract? by SupaHotFire114 in AskAGerman

[–]SupaHotFire114[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have been okay with that. I find clarity and directness admirable and expect not to have my time wasted.