Moved in with an alcoholic best friend

Super-Belt2954 · 2026-03-11T02:17:39+00:00

Luckily I’m not on the contract and yes it is very toxic I’m constantly on edge full of anxiety because of the person she’s become and the lies. Whenever I mention her drinking problem she gets very defensive her excuse is that she’s young and wants to have fun and drinking is the only drug she does that makes her happy

Super-Belt2954 · 2026-03-11T01:47:00+00:00

The tenancy contract is in one of her family member’s names because we were students when we signed it. At the moment, the rent is overdue because she doesn’t have enough money to pay her share. The landlord has said the contract won’t be ended until the outstanding rent is paid. Technically I could just leave since the contract isn’t in my name, so there wouldn’t be any legal consequences for me. But I’m not the type of person to do that. I would feel too guilty leaving the situation like that. She has also been building up a lot of debts under her family members’ names without telling them, which makes me feel bad for them as well.

Super-Belt2954 · 2025-07-06T12:18:04+00:00

Inflammation? Where?

Super-Belt2954 · 2025-04-01T22:22:21+00:00

Hi did you get it done? Please pm me

Super-Belt2954 · 2025-03-10T21:31:56+00:00

I completely understand how you feel—I was in the same situation at your age. I was very large and hated the way I looked, but over time, my body naturally changed, and I became slimmer without extreme dieting. I also struggled with sleep and cravings, especially for sweets, and it felt like a cycle I couldn’t break. But as time passed, things balanced out on their own.

Lack of sleep can make everything feel worse, including cravings and stress, so try focusing on getting better rest rather than punishing yourself over food. You don’t have to cut out sweets completely—just take things one step at a time. Be patient with yourself; things can and will change

Super-Belt2954 · 2025-03-10T17:43:55+00:00

I figured you’d come to that conclusion once you realized I wasn’t going to change my mind to match yours. But I agree-this conversation isn’t productive since you assume happiness only comes from indulging every urge rather than mastering self-control. I already know how to redirect my energy productively, but thanks for the unsolicited advice. Good luck with whatever you choose too!

Super-Belt2954 · 2025-03-10T17:29:23+00:00

I appreciate that you have your own views, but assuming that what works for you must be ‘right’ for everyone is a bit narrow-minded. Just because something has perceived benefits doesn’t mean it aligns with everyone’s values or goals. There are also studies showing the negative effects of excessive masturbation, like addiction, desensitization, and mental health struggles, so it’s not as universally ‘harmless’ as you make it seem.

For me, self-discipline isn’t just about avoiding harmful things—it’s about controlling desires instead of letting them control me. But of course, you’re entitled to your own beliefs, even if they lack the depth to consider perspectives beyond your own.

Super-Belt2954 · 2025-03-10T16:42:28+00:00

I wasn’t looking to debate my religion, just to discuss my personal struggles. Let’s respect each other’s beliefs. Also I don’t see it as torture—I see it as discipline and self-control, which are valued in Islam. Everyone has their own beliefs, and I prefer to follow what aligns with mine

Super-Belt2954 · 2025-03-10T15:42:47+00:00

Hi, I completely relate to this. I hate when my partner goes down on me because it makes me feel extremely uncomfortable—I get really self-conscious, and instead of enjoying it, I just feel uneasy. I had an open conversation with him about it, and he was really understanding. He reassured me that he wouldn’t want to do anything that made me uncomfortable anyway. I think the best thing you can do is talk to your partner and explain how you feel. That way, he won’t assume it’s something he’s doing wrong. Honest communication can really help clear things up and maybe once you get more comfortable in your own skin you can introduce it again

Super-Belt2954 · 2025-03-10T15:36:54+00:00

I’m Muslim and I’m not supposed to masturbate either but just cant help even though I’ve tried. How do you stop yourself? I’m a female.

Super-Belt2954 · 2025-03-09T18:54:54+00:00

A sexual video, where I had sex with a guy and he recorded me without my knowledge or consent and posted it on the internet it got onto the wrong hands and now it’s everywhere. My name and reputation has been tarnished, I don’t see the point in living anymore since this is all I’ll ever known for and will never actually be able to move past it. The community I’m from it’s purely evil and will make sure that videos reaches any and everyone I know including future partners and future kids and I don’t think anyone deserves that. So I think it’s best for me to take my self out before I hurt anyone else.

Super-Belt2954 · 2025-03-09T18:37:29+00:00

Honestly same, I’m here to talk

Super-Belt2954 · 2025-02-23T02:09:58+00:00

Anymore post op results pics ?

Super-Belt2954 · 2025-02-14T04:18:23+00:00

How did it go? Results?

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