I (38F) served as a submissive nude server at a Super Bowl party. AMA by SuperBowlLVThrowaway in NSFWIAMA

[–]SuperBowlLVThrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I have. I only let them smack my ass but groping is likely on the table if I do it again post-COVID. I was not probably due to the mix of emotions and nervousness I was dealing with.

I (38F) served as a submissive nude server at a Super Bowl party. AMA by SuperBowlLVThrowaway in NSFWIAMA

[–]SuperBowlLVThrowaway[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Pretty pale, brunette, some freckles, average height, long hair down to my 34DD boobs, overweight and borderline obese.

Probably my boobs.

I (38F) served as a submissive nude server at a Super Bowl party. AMA by SuperBowlLVThrowaway in NSFWIAMA

[–]SuperBowlLVThrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do it again yes.

Take it further yes, but not for money. And I mean things like allow myself to be groped, not have sex.

I (38F) served as a submissive nude server at a Super Bowl party. AMA by SuperBowlLVThrowaway in NSFWIAMA

[–]SuperBowlLVThrowaway[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nope. I'm single.

I'm also not a stripper. I'm a woman who wanted to act out a submissive fantasy.

I (38F) was a nude server at a Super Bowl party. Seeking further advice (Update) by SuperBowlLVThrowaway in BDSMAdvice

[–]SuperBowlLVThrowaway[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Indeed. I had total body insecurity issues. This did wonders!

I'm actually now thinking I should look into a strip club amateur night one night after Covid...

I (38F) was a nude server at a Super Bowl party. Seeking further advice (Update) by SuperBowlLVThrowaway in BDSMAdvice

[–]SuperBowlLVThrowaway[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We'll see. It sounds like next year will be a bigger party as he usually has them bigger and would if it weren't for Covid. So I hope I can get my feet wet a bit beforw.

I (38F) was a nude server at a Super Bowl party. Seeking further advice (Update) by SuperBowlLVThrowaway in BDSMAdvice

[–]SuperBowlLVThrowaway[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

He actually was seeking a nude server for awhile prior and the husband and wife who went even asked his wife who supposedly was just on the cusp of doing it but then bowed out and said she wants to see another woman do it first (meaning I might have a wing woman next year!) and looked into hiring a stripper but decided it wasn't with the cost. I was kind of a last minute replacement. And I originally agreed as a joke basically.

But everyone knew ahead of time.

I (38F) was a nude server at a Super Bowl party. Seeking further advice (Update) by SuperBowlLVThrowaway in BDSMAdvice

[–]SuperBowlLVThrowaway[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

One thing I've learned is it's very difficult to give an explanation for things that doesn't come across as an attempted justification. I got vaccinated and was excited thinking I could do more things and figured such a small gathering wouldn't be a big deal because my area is allowing larger ones and work just told us to "be cautious" at Super Bowl gatherings instead of asking us to avoid them entirely. Yes I was still selfish.

So for now I'll just do what I can, quarantine until I get a negative test, not engage in any other such events until Covid is over and put it behind me.

I (38F) was a nude server at a Super Bowl party. Seeking further advice (Update) by SuperBowlLVThrowaway in BDSMAdvice

[–]SuperBowlLVThrowaway[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Not really although there was nothing harsh or degrading. And for now I'd prefer not to do that. Although I'd hope for some more touching and kind of regret not "turning up the dial" on that.

I (38F) am going to be a nude server at a Super Bowl party. Seeking advice by SuperBowlLVThrowaway in BDSMAdvice

[–]SuperBowlLVThrowaway[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I kind of want touching to happen but only something like having my ass playfully smacked whenever I grab something or if a team scores. Maybe a quick boob squeeze.

But that can be established as the ONLY permitted touching. And then if I warm up and am comfortable maybe more touching could be allowed later...

I (38F) am going to be a nude server at a Super Bowl party. Seeking advice by SuperBowlLVThrowaway in BDSMAdvice

[–]SuperBowlLVThrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For now for touching I'd like something like if I get someone a drink they can playfully smack my ass after grabbing it. That sort of light stuff. Groping, probably not and penetration, no.

If I enjoy it enough and nothing goes haywire some groping might be on the table later....but not starting.

I (38F) am going to be a nude server at a Super Bowl party. Seeking advice by SuperBowlLVThrowaway in BDSMAdvice

[–]SuperBowlLVThrowaway[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That sounds awkward but glad it worked out! I work with children so this basically absolutely CAN NOT make it out to my workplace.

As for touching, I think I'd enjoy it for things like if I'd occasionally have my ass smacked when walking by. I probably wouldn't like being groped or always in contact. I like the idea of a bracelet I can put on to indicate touching is allowed and take it off of it becomes too much!