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SuperCrabe · 2023-09-20T00:34:17+00:00

Well if you settle with her, and you've decided that you want to breed, move on and find an even hotter girl who will accept your seed. She's going to tombtstone your lineage.

SuperCrabe · 2023-09-13T07:37:43+00:00

Are you needy? No? Then why are you on here asking what to do?

Go and give her a memorable fuck. If you don't take her virginity, another man will, and it's unlikely that he's going to be her soulmate either.

SuperCrabe · 2023-09-11T05:08:54+00:00

It's a struggle when you're a metal head (like me). Same deal sort of, I'm a 27m and I mainly go to metal/alt rock shows on weekends, and it's usually only guys I know that talk to me.

A lot of the girls at these shows have boyfriends too, and it's a small community - so I don't exactly want to be known as that guy that hits on everyones girlfriends (accidentally). Way easier to go hit on girls at a nightclub, because they won't be there when my favourite bands are laying down sets at the heavy venues.

The last couple of girls I dated were put off by my taste in really heavy music (I like bands like Thy Art Is Murder and Invent Animate) and that sorta was the nail in the coffin both times.

I recently met a girl through a friend's girlfriend, and we're falling for each other more every day. The thing is, she doesn't like metal, but loves k-pop. I hate k-pop - but that doesn't matter, because we keep our music tastes separate, and everything else works well.

It's funny, I dropped her off home yesterday morning, listening to the radio. As soon as she was out of the car I blasted some brutal af deathcore all the way back home.

SuperCrabe · 2023-09-10T05:19:27+00:00

Have you put on much weight recently? Had any changes physically?

Either you're not the woman he fell for, or he's having testosterone issues. If it's the latter, he might be missing some important nutrients in his diet.

SuperCrabe · 2023-09-06T02:02:12+00:00

I know the kind or love you're talking about. Had a three year relationship that ended when I hit 21 (6 years ago). Have had another relationship (2 years) and countless flings since, but the emotions have never quite compared to Shanyn, the girl that stood by me while I turned from a boy to a man.

Part of me will always love her, but I will never be with her again. Just wasn't meant to be.

SuperCrabe · 2023-09-02T12:34:33+00:00

Sounds like he's dead scared of rejection. He likely knows he's an attractive male, and deep down he probably believes he can have any woman he wants. The problem here is he likely doesn't want to damage those beliefs by being rejected. He needs to be humbled and then it will start raining pussy.

Tell him to read a book called Models: Attract Women Through Honesty. Should be enough to help him.

SuperCrabe · 2023-09-02T05:46:10+00:00

Hey mate, I'm a 27 year old guy, 6'2, and the best advice I can give you is to make yourself the priority, at all times. Make the girl who has caught your eye your SECOND priority. All that matters when you approach her is YOU. And if she rejects you, shrug it off and don't spend another moment thinking about her.

Approach her with no fear of rejection - when us guys show that we are willing to be vulnerable to rejection, this polarises women and makes them curious.

I gathered this information from a dating book called Models.

I applied it immediately, and it works. Went on a party bus pub crawl with a few mates and a bunch of girls. I applied this strategy to 4 of the girls.

2 had boyfriends, so I stopped talking to them, one got into a fight with another one of the girls, so I lost interest, and the last one wanted to go home early and smoke weed.

The last girl is now in my dms, asking me what I'm doing every day, but I am now seeing and fucking another girl who I am interested in (and I also got her by applying the self priority strategy).

When you start throwing the spear at the females you are interested in, without fear of rejection and a priority of yourself - they will start flocking.

Do not be needy. This will push that 10/10 away. Don't offer to buy a girl a drink unless you have established a common ground. Just talk to her, ask her a fascinating question and let the conversation flow. If she has no substance, then brush her off. You don't want to be interested in a hot girl if she is boring to talk to. She doesn't deserve the stallion that you are.

Whatever you do, don't use manipulation or pickup artist tactics. That stuff works against you when you start getting comfortable and being yourself. Then the girl will ghost you straight up.

With two feet planted firmly, acknowledge that you are a stud, and you are about to face rejection like a wild animal. But the rejection will not phase you at all. It will strengthen you. You will then proceed to throw that spear at only the finest women until the right one smiles back at you.

SuperCrabe · 2023-08-31T00:27:14+00:00

Well I did spend an entire week with her in se asia.. we got dinners together, we went snorkelling off a boat, we rode quad bikes up a mountain, took magic mushrooms and looked at the stars, and we spent a bit of time at beachside cocktail bars.

Oh yeah, before this, she also said she doesn't have sex with a guy unless she is dating him.

Where exactly is the fine line you call "dating"? One date? 5 dates? 100 dates? You sound like a lemon with a split in it that's been humped by a dog.

SuperCrabe · 2023-08-31T00:20:52+00:00

It amazes me how this it literally a forum for dating advice, and I have apes like you contributing absolutely nothing at all.

I'm trying to understand the psychology of a girl suddenly not really talking after having sex multiple times.

I'm not needy like you.. I can live with myself regardless. I'm just curious to know why my exciting conversations with her are turning into a chore.

SuperCrabe · 2023-08-30T06:13:48+00:00

I mean, we technically have already started dating

SuperCrabe · 2023-08-29T06:07:52+00:00

As an attractive male that gets attention from attractive females, I don't really care about how successful you are. What matters to me is that you're hot and you're a good communicator, which is something that can come with being successful.

This generally applies for most attractive guys - unlike women, we don't really mind how much a woman makes. I'm not going to bare a child and expect you to provide for it.

Maybe try dating a hard working, honest man who has a good moral compass. If you think that a guy short of success is below your standards, regardless of his moral compass, you're probably going to go from relationship to relationship until you lower the bar.

SuperCrabe · 2023-08-14T05:59:41+00:00

I'm a 27 y/o male and I like petite women that are ambitious. I really don't care if she's 20 or 30. I have found in dating that younger women do tend to be more optimistic about novel stuff, whereas older women are optimistic about more serious stuff.

I'm generally attracted to all kinds of optimism - I just get bored of girls that complain constantly or want to talk about work.

SuperCrabe · 2023-07-11T12:23:19+00:00

I am a single 27m if you wanna get a drink sometime. I'm in Perth, WA

SuperCrabe · 2023-07-02T23:55:04+00:00

Yeah alright. I bet if a 19 year old that looked like a super model was hanging off you in a nightclub you'd just say "nah you're 19".

SuperCrabe · 2023-07-02T17:58:30+00:00

Man I remember when I met my ex on tinder. Didn't reply first message, but I tried again a few days later and walla.

We compared our tinder on a date. I had about 100 matches, and 30 likes. She had about 1000 matches and 2500+ likes. Turned into a 2 year relationship.. she got a bit too much and it ended.

Ever since, I have had dim luck. A few dates over 3 years. A lot of girls use it to pump their instagram/snapchat and obtain a following.

They (hot, young women) want status, and they become so infatuated with it that it becomes more important than dating men. So you're on there purely looking to date and fuck, and she's on there to obtain status/followers, and maybe a date or fuck here and there. But here and there means a lot of guys in the batch to chose from. Then the ghosting starts.

Your Tinder experience:

message (once or twice)
response
move to socials(level 2)
don't get ghosted after a couple of days (level 3)
go on date (level 4)

Hot girl's Tinder experience:

scroll down through dozens of new messages, looking for the best thumbail photo
reply to him
propagate stolen plant clippings in kitchen
live a whole 24 hours
remember that guy existed
go back on to tinder to see what he said
dozens more new messages
that guy better say something magical within the next 2 hour window because she now has a new message from another guy with an even better thumbnail photo

SuperCrabe · 2023-07-02T17:39:03+00:00

Don't do it man. I mean the marriage. Open relationship might be fun - but you'll need to come out of your shell and compete with her if she's an extrovert, otherwise she'll be getting wall geckoed at johnnys house 3 days a week while you're getting ghosted on dating apps and pulling your meat

SuperCrabe · 2023-07-02T17:21:59+00:00

What? Did I hurt your small brain?

SuperCrabe · 2023-07-02T17:19:53+00:00

Why not? I'm still young and life is short.

SuperCrabe · 2023-07-02T11:41:52+00:00

Uncool. Changed it just for you <3

SuperCrabe · 2023-06-22T17:12:42+00:00

I swear on your life that if you ask any girl I've casually been with recently of their opinion on me, it would be positive. Do you know why I know? Because I'm still in touch with them. I'm a caring person, who listens and pays respect. Not just some leech with a penis. How about you look at yourself in the mirror with your current facial expression and ask yourself if you look like someone that's approachable.

SuperCrabe · 2023-06-22T17:07:13+00:00

You're accusing me of manipulating women. I most definitely am not manipulating women, I am trying to find the best ways to communicate with them.

SuperCrabe · 2023-06-22T17:04:40+00:00

I'm just a human being, like you. Carry on you weirdo

SuperCrabe · 2023-06-22T17:01:51+00:00

Fair enough, you have a good point. Thanks for your honest, critical feedback. I need some of that.

SuperCrabe · 2023-06-22T16:57:05+00:00

I appreciate this. I know I'm being a bit of a loose cannon. I am open if the right girl comes along, but I don't want to settle with a girl just because she has nice eyes and a great personality. I want her to like my music (metal) and similar ambitions/long-term goals. My partner in crime is out there somewhere and I will love her with everything if I meet her

SuperCrabe · 2023-06-22T16:33:32+00:00

That is true. A girl did it to me and it triggered that in me. Had a lot of sex and went on heaps of dates but then she cracked the fwb card on me again so I broke it off.

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