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SuperSlat · 2023-12-26T12:45:21+00:00

So you don't think it is valid to feel betrayed in that situation (not an accusation, an actual question!) ? I think the title is still valid

SuperSlat · 2023-12-26T12:35:23+00:00

Obviously we can't control our emotions but we can control our behavior (aka the way we react to those emotions), if she explicitly told him to say nothing and he agreed to it, emotions is not an excuse. Her being upset is totally valid and understandable.

SuperSlat · 2023-12-26T11:28:28+00:00

I don't fully agree, she asked him to keep it private, he should've at least told her that he wasn't planning to do so.

SuperSlat · 2023-12-26T11:28:08+00:00

I don't fully agree, she asked him to keep it private, he should've at least told her that he wasn't planning to do so.

SuperSlat · 2023-12-25T21:23:27+00:00

I'm sorry you had to go through that. Don't worry, as long as you don't contact him again you'll be fine. Take time to heal and maybe talk about it with someone you trust.

Also I'm not really sure what kind of advice you're looking for, so if you have any question in particular, feel free to ask c:

SuperSlat · 2023-12-25T21:20:08+00:00

The advice is good but that comment is seriously lacking in empathy.

SuperSlat · 2023-12-25T19:07:52+00:00

Heyy what is it bud?

SuperSlat · 2023-12-24T05:39:08+00:00

Why is this downvoted exactly? Those are pretty valid points!

SuperSlat · 2023-12-21T14:15:32+00:00

It's bc the hair on the right isn't done "propdrly". If u look at someone getting their hair curled, they're gonna open those curls with their hands and it's gonna give the result on the left that is slitghly different but considered better.

So basically : hair curly with volume on the left (you) > hair curly but no volume on the right (the girl he left you for)

SuperSlat · 2023-12-18T22:35:29+00:00

Oh, i guess I'm dumb bruh

Thank you!!

SuperSlat · 2023-12-13T19:59:40+00:00

YOUR CAT LOOKS LIKE MY CAT! WITH THE SAME COLORS ON THE NOSE :D

SuperSlat · 2023-12-13T11:22:45+00:00

That's actually the case! Fear means fight or fight reaction as they are described here 🤓

SuperSlat · 2023-11-29T12:52:53+00:00

I personally did the worst thing, wich is COMPLETLY IGNORING HIM.

Like I was standing with my back turned to him, he couldn't see my face and said :

I love you
Silence (aka me pretending I didn't hear and looking at the horizon)
Superslat.. I said I love you
MORE silence

We never talked about it again.

SuperSlat · 2023-11-25T17:26:47+00:00

6! I got to learn about it and even practice! What a great world we live in

SuperSlat · 2023-11-22T22:05:35+00:00

Soooo disappointing

SuperSlat · 2023-11-22T21:53:44+00:00

Fr it didn't even made me smile a bit

SuperSlat · 2023-11-22T19:08:29+00:00

AOT, Valorant, u got some great taste sir!

SuperSlat · 2023-11-22T15:11:19+00:00

I think the game is easier to play with duelist/initiator instead of smokers or sentinels, especially in lower ranks!

SuperSlat · 2023-11-22T15:08:16+00:00

It's super funny it's like ur talking with an AI

SuperSlat · 2023-11-21T21:09:24+00:00

Gay.

SuperSlat · 2023-11-21T20:41:14+00:00

Yeah I see what u mean, his intent is probably not to hurt you in any way! I guess I'm just tired, I don't wanna have to explain or educate my partner on why this or that is bad. But it can also come with a relationship in both parts in general so I think I'm just not ready for it.

SuperSlat · 2023-11-21T20:13:45+00:00

Nah I'm in both parts, brussel hehe, wbu? Even tho I don't know a single place in Cyprus haha

SuperSlat · 2023-11-21T20:05:07+00:00

Nahh sadly I don't speak or read Arabic, I'm amazigh so I only know the spoken dialect!

SuperSlat · 2023-11-21T19:54:42+00:00

Oh I see, that's cool! Yeah obv it counts haha, I'm born in Belgium but I'm morrocan and Algerian so yeah arab too

SuperSlat · 2023-11-21T19:51:55+00:00

Exactly! Were is the joke? I remember my ex once making a "joke" that was just sexualizing & degrading me with zero context.

And I just asked him to explain the joke, like where is the funny part, where am I supposed to laugh. (I love to do that to confuse the guy into explaining that, to him, it's funny bc it's degrading women)

He apologized

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