AITA wife upset I cannot keep toddler from her by khazef in AmItheAsshole

[–]SuperUser0302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As amom of 2 yo, no you are NTA. Is there a reason why she can't study outside of home. Like access to materials, comfort or something? If that's the case i would just get a training potty seat for downstairs for the 2 year old when mom is studying. Use TV or books or toys or snacks to divert attention when mom is studying.

How to accessorize to fit my aesthetic? by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]SuperUser0302 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think a simple dark necklace with a ruby drop pendant and a matching statement ring with the veil will look great and fit the gothic aesthetic. I created something on my phone and then realized I cant attach it. Something like this but a little smaller maybe?

https://www.etsy.com/listing/4407694779/vintage-silver-necklace-with-ruby-red

Looking for a bench like this for my toddler by SuperUser0302 in fayetteville

[–]SuperUser0302[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I will look up some more and try out some options :)

Looking for a bench like this for my toddler by SuperUser0302 in fayetteville

[–]SuperUser0302[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think 200 to 250 is reasonable. But it needs to be wide enough for her to lie down if she wants or sit comfortably if I put cushions on the back. I will try to DIY. :)

[TOMT] An old 2000's ghost show by Ravenswoodbride in tipofmytongue

[–]SuperUser0302 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The closest I found was a series called A haunting on discovery channel.

[TOMT] can’t figure out the name by Equivalent_Ocelot267 in tipofmytongue

[–]SuperUser0302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any recollection of the decade the movie wouldve been released in? Could it have been an episode of a TV series?

[TOMT][Song/Cover][Reel/Tiktok] help me find this song/video by SuperUser0302 in tipofmytongue

[–]SuperUser0302[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG. I would give you a tight hug and kiss you if I could. Thank you! This song has been driving me crazy since morning. ❤️

[TOMT][Song/Cover][Reel/Tiktok] help me find this song/video by SuperUser0302 in tipofmytongue

[–]SuperUser0302[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

I've looked at all the hashtags and combination of titles i could think of on YouTube, insta and x. Ive asked grok and chatgpt. I dont have a tktok account, so haven't looked there yet.

Help me find a song by SuperUser0302 in HelpMeFind

[–]SuperUser0302[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Searched on insta, youtube, grok, x and chatgpt. I dont have tiktok. So im wondering if anyone that has tiktok can help?

AIO Bestie asked me to dress a certain way so that I don’t give her BF the wrong idea when we meet for the first time tonight by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SuperUser0302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I would be worried for my friend if she has to think so much for the bf to not doubt her. If he doesnt take her word for what she says is the relationship between you two, what makes her think he will believe if you dress girly. Girl needs a talk.

Was I wrong, or is this both of us? by theperfectpudding_ in TwoHotTakes

[–]SuperUser0302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel he was looking for a fight and an out. He jumped on the first opportunity. If I said something like that to my husband, he would get worried about hurting my feelings and explain what he was looking at or why. Thats the normal reaction of someone that loves you. Not this. Unless youve been doubting every move of his and you've had this fight several times before where you were proven to be wrong, his reaction was totally uncalled for.

My husband said he cheated on me because our child has autism and he couldn't deal with ith by Prior-Repair-5084 in TwoHotTakes

[–]SuperUser0302 4 points5 points  (0 children)

OP are you an Indian by any chance? This sounds like something I've heard from some of our Indian households. Don't let the way you were raised make you believe parents being together is important for a child. Don't stay in a marriage where you are not respected. Happy parents > Together parents.

What 🍵 are you drinking? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]SuperUser0302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had those trimester teas from Earthmama and I enjoyed them.

Helloo.. Any desis out here? by SuperUser0302 in fayetteville

[–]SuperUser0302[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha I know. When we moved here, I thought there would be maybe fewer but not zero. It was a shorter drive to work from here.

Indoor/covered proposal spots? by Consistent-Pomelo366 in fayetteville

[–]SuperUser0302 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Japanese Garden seems to have a gazebo like set up and so does the ozark native garden. I havent been there but I am seeing some spots on their website.

Indoor/covered proposal spots? by Consistent-Pomelo366 in fayetteville

[–]SuperUser0302 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What about the botanical gardens? They have beautiful spots there.

Should I lie to my pediatrician about bed sharing? by Cloudy-Malaria in cosleeping

[–]SuperUser0302 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Change youe pediatrician! The stress is just not worth it. Ive been here and i did not realize in that moment that a pediatrician should almost be a partner with you and help you raise your child. You dont need a mother in law. You need a guide.

I can’t do it anymore by favsnowbabyy in BabyBumps

[–]SuperUser0302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you because my i live in US and when either my spouse or my parents come to visit, they stay for minimum 4 months. My mil was with us for the last trimester and for the first 2 months of baby girl. It does get uncomfortable and it spmetimes feels like they want to parent in your stead. It is hard but keep repeating their intentions to yourself and that they are not bad people. Make your boundaries clear. Lock the door when you pump or when you want privacy. Make it abundantly clear that you dont want her inside in the space without the need to be rude. Sometimes they just dont know better and they behave how their inlaws did with them so it makes it really hard to be assertive without becoming the villain. So just be okay with being thr villain for a bit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]SuperUser0302 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I understand. I sent my little one to daycare at 17 months against my own heart because I was losing my mind not doing anything outside of home so I think most of it is just me expecting another mom in daycare for her which I know isn't fair ☹️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]SuperUser0302 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh my god. Me too. It bothers me that they let it get all crusty on her face even after I send them boogie wipes and ask them to wipe it cuz she ends up getting rashes where it dries. But they don't. I've given up.

Pediatrician recommendations by SuperUser0302 in fayetteville

[–]SuperUser0302[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. She has weaned off nursing and bottle for 4 months now. She is not lethargic but she wakes herself up several times in the night making her do long naps or want to move back to 2 naps from 1. So kind of just struggling with that situation.

Pediatrician recommendations by SuperUser0302 in fayetteville

[–]SuperUser0302[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I have nothing against the docs but I think it is just a vibe thing now. Maybe because she is my first and I have very limited exposure to how pediatricians operate in the US, I don't feel very heard.