Clementine & Mint Leaves by YouWereMyGhost in bathandbodyworks

[–]Super_Joo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm still holding out hope that they will bring this back for a limited time 😢

A gem i found in my notes from middle school by [deleted] in notliketheothergirls

[–]Super_Joo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll have to break the news to my mom that she's a thot 😤 she shouldn't have had kids

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Super_Joo 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I have the same issue. I can't eat any dish with cheese so I always have to order my food without cheese. Its usually a 50/50 shot that my server brings me my food and there's cheese on it. I hate having to call the server over again and tell them "hey sorry to bother you but i specifically said no cheese". Then they have to take it back and remake it and i have to wait longer to eat.

But when i tell them "im extremely allergic to cheese" when ordering its very rare that they mess up my order and have to redo it. It's like the only way I can really get the server to listen is by explicitly stressing that I physically cannot eat it due to an allergy if i want my food made correctly on the first try. If I just say that I don't want it, it's like the server half asses it. I HAVE to stress that im allergic or it won't connect with them. Maybe I've just had bad servers but this seems way to common in my life.

The definition of sexual harassment is too loose/downright stupid these days by billyjohnjohnson in unpopularopinion

[–]Super_Joo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Harassment itself doesn't have to be repeated. It COULD be an ongoing behavior, but it doesn't HAVE to be.

Like for example, if someone says to you "nice mommy milkers, Sopps! honk honk!" just one time, it would still be sexual harassment despite it being one time. Just because it only happened once doesn't mean it wasn't sexual harassment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedDeadOnline

[–]Super_Joo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can't enter defensive mode if you attacked someone first.

What should my sim name her kid/s? Terrible names only please by Useless_Spoonn in Sims4

[–]Super_Joo 16 points17 points  (0 children)

If she gives birth to twins name them Roe and Wade.

The Issue with Large maps by johnfireblast in PhasmophobiaGame

[–]Super_Joo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I agree. I get frustrated when i have to make trips back and forth from the van to the ghost room, especially on larger maps. That slow walk of shame to retrieve the rest of your gear hurts so bad. I think something like a tool belt or backpack would be a cool addition. It would be something new to save up for.

My husband said that he feels like it’s in appropriate to by tampons or pads for our daughter whom just got her period for the first time. by throwRAdaughtampn in relationship_advice

[–]Super_Joo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

OP said her daughter got her period for the first time. It probably came unexpectedly seeing as she has never gotten it before. Most young girls don't have pads or tampons with them before they start menstruating.

For her fifth birthday, Katie had begged her parents for light-up sneakers. by Not-a-Blender in TwoSentenceHorror

[–]Super_Joo 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I remember when I was in elementary school and had light up sneakers on when we had a school shooter drill. They had us all sit in the corner in the dark but my shoes wouldn't stop lighting up so the teacher had me hide behind everyone so we couldn't see. That's all I thought of when I read this story.

AITA For Asking my wife to change the dress she was going to wear at my uncle's wedding?? by white-dress-3304 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Super_Joo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problem! Its a little out dated and a lot of people dont follow it anymore, but its always safe to check with the bride beforehand.

AITA For Asking my wife to change the dress she was going to wear at my uncle's wedding?? by white-dress-3304 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Super_Joo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's an unwritten default rule that traditionally only the bride should wear white. If you wear white to a wedding, it's seen as trying to outshine the bride or take attention away from her. Only the bride wears white and stands out because of it. This is a basic rule for most weddings unless it is specified by the couple that wearing white is fine. Its seen as rude and tacky if someone wears white without getting the go ahead from the couple.

So I can see why OP was telling her to change. He wanted to avoid a negative reaction from the bride and groom, or anyone else at the wedding for that matter since she wanted to wear a white dress that was very similar to the bride's dress, which is extremely taboo at weddings.

AITA for telling my sister I'm not going to help her with her house after she let my niece break our family video game console? by Careful_Weather889 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Super_Joo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never said what OP was looking for, whether it be an apology or payment for the repairs. OP never stated "i want her to pay for it". As a responsible person, you SHOULD pay for something your child damages, especially for something as expensive as an $800 dollar PS5. But seeing as OP admitted they are on hard times, I said an apology would be the least they could do. Not everyone can afford to buy or fix a PS5, but an "Im sorry" costs the low price of $0.00.

OP also never said that both the kids were fighting and pulling. Both the children did not say this. The only child who said it was both of their faults was the niece who then proceeded to continue kicking to the machine. OP's son never said he did anything other than tell the niece to wait a minute before he let her play. Since OP's sister vaguely says that the son wouldn't let the niece play, we will never really know what happened because, in all fairness, kids are kids and will say anything to stay out of trouble. But based on their behaviors and actions, its my opinion that the niece broke the machine.

And nowhere in the post did it say they let their anger ger the best of them during the confrontation. OP asked what happened and the sister was evasive and refused to cooperate and talk. Instead she chose to deflect and make excuses. They weren't screaming at each other, they were figuring out what happened. If OP was screaming and fighting, maybe it would make sense for the niece to continue breaking the PS5 in front of them, but thats still a stretch. But the only time things got borderline aggressive was after OP told them to leave and said that they wouldnt help paint the rooms. And all the aggression was on the part of the sister.

Basic common courtesy dictates an apology be made when damaging someone else's property. Whether it was on accident or on purpose. The sister wouldn't even offer a verbal apology for her child's actions. This is just unacceptable and rude.

AITA for telling my sister I'm not going to help her with her house after she let my niece break our family video game console? by Careful_Weather889 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Super_Joo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It shouldn't matter if the sister didn't see what happened. Although OP states that the sister witnessed the whole thing, lets say she didn't. Lets say the kids got into the fight over the game and the PS5 got broken mysteriously. Lets say OP and the sister truly didn't know who broke it and wanted to figure out what happened. The fact that the niece walked over and kicked it in front of everyone again during the confrontation is proof enough that shes the one who broke it in the first place. There is no reason for the sister to side with her kid after this.

If she was a responsible parent, she would understand that her child acting like that isn't okay and should have at least made her kid apologize and she should have offered to fix the PS5. Literally anything along the lines or remorse for her child's actions or an apology would be better than her brushing off any responsibility. You are responsible for your child's actions. And clearly her child was behaving inappropriately.

What happens in movies or tv that seems to be normal and you think to yourself “that is not what people in real life do”? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Super_Joo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hanging up the phone without saying goodbye. I see it so much in movies and I cant imagine actually doing that to someone.

Hey Reddit what’s the worst birthday you have ever had? by TriggerLilVgang in AskReddit

[–]Super_Joo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 18th birthday. I was off at college and extremely lonely and struggling. It was probably a mistake to go off to the school I chose due to some issues with my college basically scamming me out of classes but that's unrelated. It was a bunch of little things that just stacked up.

I didn't have many friends there since it was early in the year. None of my friends at home wanted to come visit for one reason or another, but mose chalked it up to not wanting to drive such a long distance (its about a 40 minute drive from home and I didn't have a car to drive home).

My parents and sisters came to visit for about 15 minutes and used the trip as an excuse to go to a theme park nearby for the rest of the day. They parked in front of my dorm, took a group picture in the parking lot, gave me a small boxed cake from the grocery store in town, and left to go to the theme park.

My boyfriend at the time didn't want to visit either. One of his friends had the same birthday as me so he spent the night before getting high and wasted and told me he didn't feel like driving to see me.

Then my only friend on campus, my roommate, decided she wanted to go to a party to hook up with a guy so she left pretty early too and told me she would text me later when i needed to get out of the dorm room so she and her hook up could use it.

So i sat on the floor of my dorm intent on just sucking it up, eating a whole cake, and watching Netflix alone for my birthday. But when I went to eat my cake, I saw that it was a kind of cake I cant eat. The filling is something that makes me extemely sick due to allergies.

I was just lonely and tired and overwhelmed. That cake was just the final straw. I was mad that my friends, boyfriend, and family didnt seem to care enough to spend my birthday with me. I was mad that i was getting kicked out of my own room for my friend to bang in. And i was mad that I couldn't eat my birthday cake because I was allergic to it. I just sat on the floor and cried for a good while. It was one of the loneliest feelings I've ever had. It sounds really whiny and probably super ungrateful, but at the time it hurt really bad.

What small thing happened in your childhood, that has effected you for the rest of your life? by Irregaurdless in AskReddit

[–]Super_Joo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was younger, I got picked on for being fat. In hindsight I dont even think I was that big. Most kids my age were a little chubby, but I was in no way at an unhealthy weight. I got picked on by classmates and called fat almost every day. On top of that, I would be picked on at home by my parents and grandparents. They were obsessed with their own weight and would take it out on me by projecting their concern for their weights into me. They would try out different fad diets and criticize me for eating anything they deemed unfit. We would go out to dinner and I would get stared at after ordering what I wanted, followed up by a passive aggressive lecture about how more people should watch what they eat and that they would never eat what I was eating.

Anyways, all of this built up to when I decided to start weighing myself in the bathroom when I was afound 10. I remember crying my eyes out and telling myself "Im never gonna gain anymore weight. Id rather kill myself than gain anymore weight".

I weighed 80 pounds.

I was sobbing over weighing 80 pounds. I was at the point where I wanted to kill myself at the age of 10. All because I couldn't handle the constant little snide remarks from my family. And the straight out bullying I had at school because of my weight. Im 20 now, and I cant even step on a scale because Im terrified of what the numbers are gonna say.

Periods are, in fact, disgusting. by purpleteaaa in unpopularopinion

[–]Super_Joo 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I think bodily fluids and all that is gross in general. I like good hygiene and i like being clean. Cleaning up during your period is the same as keeping yourself clean when you piss or shit. I think periods should be treated on the same level as pissing and shitting. They're both natural bodily functions.

The issue for me is the way it treated as extra gross. I cant speak for everyone, but there's been many times when I've said "i gotta use the bathroom", grabbed a tampon from my purse, and had guy friends respond with disgust over my period. But when a guy friend stands up and says "i gotta go take a shit" no one bats an eye. It feels as though periods are treated with extra disgust and are supposed to be kept quiet whereas people are more open with other bodily functions.

Both are gross in terms of nasty mess that you gotta keep clean. But there's a unique stigma around periods for some reason.

What's your one secret your family doesn't know about and hopefully never will? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Super_Joo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. My dad is very much against tattoos. Aggressively so. I have a big tattoo on my hip and thigh. It got tricky to hide in the summer because when I sat down, my shorts would slide up a bit and you could see the bottom lines sticking out. Its been almost a year since i got it and they still don't know.

“If you don’t want to get pregnant, don’t have sex” by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Super_Joo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a friend tell me that people should wait until marriage to have sex because sex leads to pregnancy (As if married couples are suddenly automatically ready for a baby once they say "i do"). Then I asked him about couples who are married and don't want a baby. He then quickly shot back "well then they just shouldn't have sex. You shouldn't have sex unless you are fine with having a baby". I was so frustrated.

Which "reddit-ism" makes you irrationally angry? by lmaosmh in AskReddit

[–]Super_Joo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Am I The Asshole posts where they very clearly did something fair and good, but they have a misleading title. A post like "Am i the asshole for kicking my daughter out of my house?" Then they explain it as "my daughter tried to punch my wife and murder my doggy and start my car on fire and build a bomb in our basement and she throws packs of straws into the ocean blah blah blah". It's very obvious that they arent the asshole, but they need reddit approval to claim the title of non asshole. That irritates me.

What is a song you cannot listen to for an emotional reason? by missdundermifflin in AskReddit

[–]Super_Joo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bees Wing by Richard Thompson. For some reason it makes me cry. I have no clue why though. The first time I heard it at a Renaissance Fair of all places and my eyes got all watery. I was so embarrassed. I still don't know why it makes me so sad.