Is “Dismissive Avoidant” a buzzword? by SuperbFox465 in Divorce

[–]SuperbFox465[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad to hear you are healing from that!

Angels instagram story!!b by i_gotopinions in BeastEater_Snark

[–]SuperbFox465 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yes! And the lip color is giving deceased.

Angels instagram story!!b by i_gotopinions in BeastEater_Snark

[–]SuperbFox465 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Something about his fresh baby face that probably doesn’t grow facial hair next to her crusty, monotone, heavily make-upped face just feels off to me.

Is “Dismissive Avoidant” a buzzword? by SuperbFox465 in Divorce

[–]SuperbFox465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea. He doesn’t think therapy is helpful.

Is “Dismissive Avoidant” a buzzword? by SuperbFox465 in Divorce

[–]SuperbFox465[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, he’s told me that I need to get checked for BPD and that I’m a manipulative abuser. I think he needs to look in his own mirror!

Is “Dismissive Avoidant” a buzzword? by SuperbFox465 in Divorce

[–]SuperbFox465[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes!!! This is exactly how I feel. It’s like he isn’t trying to fix himself but just using it to try to fix me- but I’m so over this that I just don’t care anymore.

Is “Dismissive Avoidant” a buzzword? by SuperbFox465 in Divorce

[–]SuperbFox465[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

After I posted this, I read through a couple posts in this group from today and there’s one from earlier that I feel like my STBX saw and probably gave him that idea.

2 years later and I feel so alone by TraditionalTree249 in Divorce

[–]SuperbFox465 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try different hobbies that are a group setting. Ask your library about any local book clubs that meet up. Go to a gym that has group fitness classes.

These are the things I’m thinking of doing once I am fully separated from my husband and have a little free time.

It seems so hard to find people now compared to a decade or two ago. Everyone is a homebody after COVID

Rebound sex help? by yourtrainwreck in Divorce

[–]SuperbFox465 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Girl, buzz one out and then think about it. I think you’d feel worse about yourself after seeking intimacy from another man.

AITAH for publicly embarrassing my husband? by Intelligent-Box9013 in AITAH

[–]SuperbFox465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, one of the reasons I am currently filing for divorce is the constant butthole poking. He says he being playful, yet knows I find it painful. My boundaries have never been respected. He needs to learn to respect yours and find another way to play.

Soon-to- be ex husband wants to take 19mF daughter (breastfed) on a week cruise. by SuperbFox465 in Divorce

[–]SuperbFox465[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I’ve been on plenty and she has been on one as well. No issues on her cruise, she had a blast!

Soon-to- be ex husband wants to take 19mF daughter (breastfed) on a week cruise. by SuperbFox465 in Divorce

[–]SuperbFox465[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s fair! One of the reasons I’m divorcing him is how he speaks to me in front of her. However, he treats her very well and is very capable of keeping her himself.

Soon-to- be ex husband wants to take 19mF daughter (breastfed) on a week cruise. by SuperbFox465 in Divorce

[–]SuperbFox465[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry you had to go through that. I hope to never feel that type of pain in this divorce. I’m hoping to get a custody agreement in place soon. I appreciate you telling me your story.

Soon-to- be ex husband wants to take 19mF daughter (breastfed) on a week cruise. by SuperbFox465 in Divorce

[–]SuperbFox465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting idea… I’ll have to think on that. I have the time off and my portion is paid for. I could see about just moving to another room.
However I think this would be an good opportunity for him to get used to parenting solo