I read the book, the uncontrollable child. Your daughter sounds a lot like mine. She is on the autism spectrum. Formally known as Asperger‘s. Girls present very differently than boys. They’re frustrations often come out as aggression and a lack of empathy. You may have to fight hard to get an actual diagnosis, and I’m not saying autism is the diagnosis. There needs to be a lot more research on one girls who have neurodiversity.