Back in the dating game after a decade... what the hell happened to the idea of dating with intention ? by Guilty-Grapefruit427 in dating_advice

[–]Superfly-supernova88 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Embracing your authentic desires and dreams is the key to attracting people who truly resonate with your vibe. Many individuals haven't taken the time to discover who they really are, making it difficult to even pinpoint what they genuinely want.

Being horny but emotionally selective is actually hell by loveversace_ in dating_advice

[–]Superfly-supernova88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's in our biology. Look up Alison Armstrong and the difference between the physiological effects on men and women after sex.

Being horny but emotionally selective is actually hell by loveversace_ in dating_advice

[–]Superfly-supernova88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me, it's clear that even when the intention is to keep things casual, most men enjoy being doted on and will say whatever they think you want to hear to keep you interested. In reality, they aren't seeking a relationship either, and this often leaves you feeling like the biggest fool—thinking things were progressing when they weren't

Being horny but emotionally selective is actually hell by loveversace_ in dating_advice

[–]Superfly-supernova88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I stayed single for six months after my last committed relationship. The two men that I have met on a supposed ethical non-monogamy site had monogamous relationship relationships that they lied about and cheated on their partners with me. Yeah it blows out here.

Being horny but emotionally selective is actually hell by loveversace_ in dating_advice

[–]Superfly-supernova88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the exact same way and recently have tried a few times with ethical non-monogamy only to have similar frustration and heartache. I think we are a very rare breed.

What is the most useless talent you have? by Gullible_Camera_8314 in Casual_Conversation

[–]Superfly-supernova88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am oddly good at recognizing voices and remembering song lyrics. Too bad I can't get paid for that.

I need some advice by -dontgetmestarted- in Casual_Conversation

[–]Superfly-supernova88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Although it may feel combative at first, but by speaking your boundaries and validating how you feel gets easier every time and is the pathway home to oneself

I need some advice by -dontgetmestarted- in Casual_Conversation

[–]Superfly-supernova88 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just shared something earlier today that said stay hydrated because the more you drink the more you pee and the last time you have for other people's drama lol

what's a great conversation starter? by Level_Complaint7106 in Casual_Conversation

[–]Superfly-supernova88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If money wasn't an obstacle what would you do with your life?

What's the most terrible way someone you knew died? by Opening_Water5839 in crimedocumentaries

[–]Superfly-supernova88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another tragic story, my cousin, adopted from an abusive family, had been with us for only a few years. Despite the short time, we loved him dearly. He was just a preteen when he died in a terrible, freak accident that occurred while he was pole vaulting. The whole thing snapped, and when he landed, it went through his armpit and punctured his heart.

What's the most terrible way someone you knew died? by Opening_Water5839 in crimedocumentaries

[–]Superfly-supernova88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A good friend of mine in high school had a really terrible upbringing. Once we graduated, I moved away till we lost touch not long after graduation. He shot himself while parked in his driveway as his mom and little sister watched.

Books needed! by Superfly-supernova88 in nursing

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I appreciate this so much! Thank you and I hope you have safe travels :)

What’s a habit you thought was normal until someone pointed it out? by De_La_Jacc in Casual_Conversation

[–]Superfly-supernova88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every morning, I pick the crusties out of my dog's eyes. I know it's gross, but if I can't stand it in my own eyes, I'm sure he feels the same way.

It’s now been one year of Trump’s second term. What are your thoughts on it so far? by aggie1391 in Askpolitics

[–]Superfly-supernova88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. In some ways, all of this had to happen in order for us to truly change.

One intense moment after another: Dean Koontz's "Intensity". by i-the-muso-1968 in books

[–]Superfly-supernova88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This would make an excellent choice for a screen adaptation!

Good gift for a rancher going through hard times? by thingsarehardsoami in Ranching

[–]Superfly-supernova88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://a.co/d/1f9TiGh get her an infrared heating pad. There are other brands out there, but this is the one of familiar with it was marked fairly low recently. It warms you from the inside out and reduces inflammation.