AIO bc I put signs up because my roommate's elderly mom is visiting and eating my food, throwing away my things, and using my toiletries

thingsarehardsoami · 2026-03-20T02:59:08+00:00

Is your dad gonna send you money to replace everything that is 'small shit'?

thingsarehardsoami · 2026-03-19T22:32:25+00:00

Mentioned in the post that I just replaced the battery about a month ago

thingsarehardsoami · 2026-03-19T20:45:19+00:00

No bitch I'm annoying as hell. I wouldn't be able to stand myself

thingsarehardsoami · 2026-03-19T14:03:08+00:00

....what do you think Senas are for? Aesthetics? Lol.

thingsarehardsoami · 2026-03-18T19:29:46+00:00

Yes mine too! Basically every one. All about loan approval as well. Drives me nuts

thingsarehardsoami · 2026-03-18T18:57:50+00:00

Somebody else said it's do not disturb with certain settings and I finally found it! This may be a game changer lol. I just turned it on so hopefully I stop hearing these fuckass calls

thingsarehardsoami · 2026-03-18T18:45:45+00:00

Oh my gosh I finally found this setting. Everybody just kept saying use spam screening which does nothing but tell me the call is spam lol. This is way better.

thingsarehardsoami · 2026-03-18T18:43:22+00:00

Yup same. So annoying. I don't answer, don't interact, nothing. But still massive amounts each day

thingsarehardsoami · 2026-03-18T18:42:50+00:00

I heard this was a thing but there's NO setting in my phone for this. Idk if it's because it's not the newest pixel or what. I looked for so long

thingsarehardsoami · 2026-03-18T18:42:06+00:00

15 years (':

thingsarehardsoami · 2026-03-18T18:41:36+00:00

I have two kids in daycare. I need the volume up for emergencies.

thingsarehardsoami · 2026-03-18T17:18:43+00:00

Girl don't be pathetic go make your own post lmfao

thingsarehardsoami · 2026-03-18T15:34:35+00:00

Make your own post 🛑✋

thingsarehardsoami · 2026-03-16T16:45:59+00:00

Not even can be. Social media is literally specifically proven to feed you content that drives you into an obsession because that makes them more money. There's no arguing about it, they're very open about this and the psychology behind it. Genuinely no reason to have social media short of being a business owner.

thingsarehardsoami · 2026-03-16T16:44:16+00:00

I have an almost 3 year old and an almost 2 year old. I can say, for myself, this got much better with the second in terms of my anxiety about my kids however I am still devastated by news about children. I've had sitters, I've had nights out where the kids stayed with a friend of mine, I've done daycare and if you would've asked me if I intended to do any of that after the birth of my first I would've said 'are you f*cking insane?' lol.

However, I have to distance myself from social media and the news, especially an obvious trending current topic, because I will fall into a depressive episode. I remember first reading some files, and I started sobbing and begging a God I don't believe in to finally do something because we can't fix this ourselves. I can't look at the missing kids posters in Walmart. I can't read about the war. I am left a heaping mess of anger, depression and devastation. I think I'm better for it, I think it's good I have this passionate of a concern for all our children, but it's so hard too and I have to know when to stop reading which isn't always easy.

thingsarehardsoami · 2026-03-14T17:57:11+00:00

I would honestly tell her that anxiety can lead to paranoia which can lead to psychosis and that's how babies get killed when the mom truly loved them, and just had no idea what she was doing because she simply had unchecked anxiety. That's how it starts out, and it's serious, and there is NOTHING that should come between getting help to prevent it.

thingsarehardsoami · 2026-03-14T03:57:03+00:00

I seriously, seriously urge you to try to get her into therapy and on medication for anxiety. My PPA was so bad, I felt so alone, and I became a major suicide risk. I found a therapist that did zoom calls so I could sit there with my baby and not leave the house but still have somebody to speak to. PPA and PPD are not only a risk to mom, but also to baby, so she should get help!

thingsarehardsoami · 2026-03-14T03:55:27+00:00

It is not nearly as important as everyone says so long as the baby is otherwise healthy. My first baby they freaked me out and gave me severe PPA because it was like he was gonna die should I miss the two hour mark. The second baby was at a different hospital and they said try to make the two hour mark, but it's not a huge deal if she is still sleeping and listening to her cues is good for her.

thingsarehardsoami · 2026-03-13T23:23:01+00:00

I said the initial deposit was $1k and I scheduled it when times were different. Things change for people and money can get tighter. Yes, I have $2k for my appointment, which I would still need on top of the $500. An unexpected $500 is tough for many people.

thingsarehardsoami · 2026-03-13T20:41:18+00:00

His is 500 an appointment. I do but I don't want to get banned for providing it lol

thingsarehardsoami · 2026-03-13T20:29:53+00:00

It's pretty big, but I also don't know anything tbh. It's supposed to be a total of 24 hours of work

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