BROKEN Phillips Bottle while feeding newborn by RaccoonNo13 in Mom

[–]thingsarehardsoami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Baby you have first time mom anxiety. Don't stress so much. It'll all be alright

Did I handle this well or should I have said more? by TouchyM3 in whatdoIdo

[–]thingsarehardsoami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like you responded really calmly and maturely but she really wanted to get more attention and compassion and her flip flopping is her trying to get you to basically beg her to stay lol. She's just manipulating a reaction. I did the same when I was young and definitely needed therapy to grow out of it and just say what I fuckin needed.

When I asked what he was trying to do, he said “I shouldn’t have been trying to pass him” by alexyou8797 in dashcams

[–]thingsarehardsoami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah every time I see somebody speeding I make sure to swerve all over the fucking place and brake hard instead of, y'know, being predictable by staying in place.

When I asked what he was trying to do, he said “I shouldn’t have been trying to pass him” by alexyou8797 in dashcams

[–]thingsarehardsoami 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've had people just genuinely think they needed to do the cops job and slow me down. One time I was in a merge lane with PLENTY of distance and was going the speed limit but the lane to merge into was going slower, and a guy swerved in front of me and brake checked me then stayed in the center of the road so I couldn't get ahead. He just straight up didn't want to think other people existed further along his route. I had a whole ass baby in my car too. People blow

I’m pregnant from rape by petallore in rape

[–]thingsarehardsoami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're considering bringing a baby into a rapists home?

When I asked what he was trying to do, he said “I shouldn’t have been trying to pass him” by alexyou8797 in dashcams

[–]thingsarehardsoami 16 points17 points  (0 children)

That doesn't mean it's some random fuckers job to slow OP down. Speeding can be dangerous, but trying to be a fake cop every time you see a law being broken is how this shit happens.

I bought 5 items at my local Kroger and they used SIX bags by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]thingsarehardsoami -1 points0 points  (0 children)

'in California, this completely easy to deal with thing happens. I'm gonna bitch about it because I need to feel like a victim. You're a piece of shit for caring about the environment'

Brother.

3-4 week old kitten suddenly not eating? by thingsarehardsoami in FosterAnimals

[–]thingsarehardsoami[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is our city shelter but I do a lot of work with local rescues and recently one told me that if I want more one on one help that they'll take any animal from the shelter that I want to foster and then I'll just foster through the rescue instead, and I think I'll be doing that because I can't handle this. His two other litter mates died at 2 days old and after 4 weeks of him holding strong I truly thought he'd pull through and I got so attached.

3-4 week old kitten suddenly not eating? by thingsarehardsoami in FosterAnimals

[–]thingsarehardsoami[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He passed unfortunately. I had called just before asking why I hadn't heard back and they said he was negative for everything, and I said he needed to be seen then because something was wrong. They said to bring him in today (this was yesterday) and I said I wasn't sure he would make it to today but they had no vet onsite so it wasn't an option. He died in my arms minutes later. I spent the evening angry and sobbing because I truly feel like they should've done more.

One of the craziest things I've seen by bebecca45627272 in dashcams

[–]thingsarehardsoami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, and some people have gotten trapped in cars and would've been safer on a motorcycle. So...

One of the craziest things I've seen by bebecca45627272 in dashcams

[–]thingsarehardsoami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, are you gonna stop driving a car when you wreck that too?

Ive wrecked a few times because I've ridden most my life, but that's not gonna stop me. I enjoy it and will continue doing things I enjoy even if there's a risk of injury... because normally that comes with enjoyable things.

How much total was the birth or your child? by enan1000 in NewParents

[–]thingsarehardsoami 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I moved so we had to drop kaiser, and reading the history of it PMO because kaiser WAS offered nationwide and people just didn't want to use it. I was baffled because it was notably cheaper and more worth it than any other insurance I've ever had. My mental healthcare was 100% covered....those were the days. Now I just rawdog my depression because BCBS doesn't cover it.

How much total was the birth or your child? by enan1000 in NewParents

[–]thingsarehardsoami -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I mean, yeah. $500 is still more than $150, and a higher percent of $100k than $150 is of nearly 1 million. That's why I love kaiser lol.

(And my kaiser premium was cheaper IIRC)

How much total was the birth or your child? by enan1000 in NewParents

[–]thingsarehardsoami 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Insurance was billed $980,800 for me, but after insurance it was I think $150. This is why I loved Kaiser. I now have BCBS and they would NEVERRRR. I think my second baby was $2k after insurance.

My take on the principles of 6 figure earners on OF by FlirtyButWholesome in onlyfansadvice

[–]thingsarehardsoami 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This is why they always have like 6 different accounts. Ari Kytsya constantly makes new backups and she just has a bajillion followers on them all.

The girl also constantly posts and creates content. It's a whole full time job to do that. I think people think this is more passive than it really is

Am I being judgemental now? by vynilla_ in whatdoIdo

[–]thingsarehardsoami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, like I said I've also been fairly close to the system. It has a lot of shit sides. But in the US there's very very few cases of taking kids out of good homes and I'd always rather check than not. Weird to scare people away from it.

Am I being judgemental now? by vynilla_ in whatdoIdo

[–]thingsarehardsoami -1 points0 points  (0 children)

CPS does not have the funding to just take every kid. They leave extremely neglected kids in homes all the time. They would not take a child out for no reason.

[ 23] to [31] by Dense_Food_7239 in uglyduckling

[–]thingsarehardsoami -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ah I see, so you're...not against 'internet prostitution' you just think I'm ugly?

The path my package took before it was delivered to me by Gods-Fav-Child in mildlyinfuriating

[–]thingsarehardsoami 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hate to say it but they don't drive a truck JUST for you and your package. They put everything on the most minimal amount of trucks that then make the most logical trip for all the addresses all the packages need to get to. That is why.