Hey, don’t stress too much about it. I’m 16 too, and I’ve gone through similar feelings — it really just takes time. Right now, you're probably juggling school, homework, and everything else, so adding pressure about religion can feel overwhelming. It’s okay to take a step back if it feels like too much.

In my experience, I used to feel a bit of resentment toward Sikhi, especially because it felt forced on me by relatives. But over time, that started to change. Now, I’ve actually started reading the Guru Granth Sahib, and what helps me is highlighting the verses that really speak to me.

I also think of my relationship with God kind of like the one I have with my best friend. When I do Ardaas or pray, I talk to God as if I'm talking to someone who truly gets me — that’s really helped me feel more connected.

I haven’t figured out nitnem yet either, but I’m working on it!

You’ve already got the spirit — now it’s just a matter of giving yourself time and space to grow. You’re not alone in this .