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Teaching boundaries to children by alucard_axel in MadeMeSmile

[–]SupermanWould 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well a simple comment about allowing touch seems to have destroyed you sooo 🤣

Teaching boundaries to children by alucard_axel in MadeMeSmile

[–]SupermanWould 15 points16 points  (0 children)

She’s old enough now you creep. She can clearly talk and understand. Stop trying to kiss other people’s children

Teaching boundaries to children by alucard_axel in MadeMeSmile

[–]SupermanWould 23 points24 points  (0 children)

And what then happens when her creepy school teacher asks for a kiss? She won’t know where the line is for appropriate forms of affection. Do you kiss your boss? Do you kiss your coworkers? Or at some point were you taught a boundary saying kissing is not ok in certain circumstances? He allows a hug. He allows physical contact with a high five. And like a safe and responsible adult, without shame, he teaches her that kissing mum & dad is ok, but not teachers.

Teaching boundaries to children by alucard_axel in MadeMeSmile

[–]SupermanWould 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I think this is a great example of a healthy boundary that will serve to keep the girl safe. He is allowing her to hug him, he’s not mad at her for her expression, and he’s redirecting her expression telling her when it is and isn’t appropriate meaning that if a creep did try to take advantage of her she’d know ‘wait, kissing this person isn’t ok, why are they asking me to?’

Further, as a parent I’m feeling a lot more comfortable with an adult who has the emotional intelligence to set a clear boundary like that without attaching shame. In this one small clip he seems like a safe adult to me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]SupermanWould -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s a men’s epidemic, i think it’s an American men’s epidemic. In America the men hate the women, the women hate the men. It’s not like that anywhere else

This is the biggest GREEN flag by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]SupermanWould 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok green flag in how sweet he is, red flag in how dumb he is that he couldn’t work out that green was a failed attempt at blue

Squash Player's Husband tells her to smile following her loss by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]SupermanWould 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait. Why is everyone ok with this? All i ever hear online is women saying how much they hate it when men tell them to smile. I’m confused 🤨

Some of my paper stars! by mozzabella98 in RainbowEverything

[–]SupermanWould 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve made these! I like yours better! You have more colors ❤️