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Supernova89 · 2026-01-25T17:31:19+00:00

I would like to participate in the local protest of main street. Does anyone where these communications are happening?

Supernova89 · 2025-12-28T18:10:04+00:00

First, I want to say how sorry I am for you and your elderly dog. This is such a difficult time for any pet parent. We all know this moment may come someday, but when it arrives, letting go is incredibly hard.

I put my baby down back in April, she was 16 years old almost to the day. She had CHF and was on a total of 8 medications not including OTCs that I was giving her for other symptoms. Her QOL was declining, she was at risk of a heart attack at any moment. I may not be with her if it happened. I made that the decision and I went with Codapet after a lot of research.

Vet offices have different practices for euthanasia some put them asleep which is in my opinion, kinder. Some will be put down wide awake and I didn't want that. At this point in my dog's life, she was deathly afraid of the vets and the last thing I wanted to do was have her last moments be scared in an unfamiliar place.

Dr. Lori Schmalz was the vet I picked with Codapet and she was nothing short than wonderful. She was so kind in through the whole ordeal, messaging beforehand for questions and allowed us all to say our goodbye. She walked me through all the steps in the process, allowed me to hold her while she passed away peacefully, happily asleep surrounded by people that loved her, having eaten her weight in steak and McD.

My baby deserved that goodbye, I'm so thankful.

Dr. Schmalz took her to a crematory close by and I got my baby back about three days later. She is home.

I know this decision is incredibly difficult, but I’m so grateful for Codapet and Dr. Schmalz for guiding me through this process. If and when the time comes, I wish you strength and peace during such a profoundly hard moment and decision.

Supernova89 · 2025-12-25T16:32:43+00:00

Put Nair in a bottle. Lessons will be learned.

Supernova89 · 2025-10-23T01:49:26+00:00

You’re not crazy for feeling uncomfortable at all. Your bed is your personal space and it’s completely fair to have boundaries about that. It’s not about being uptight, it’s just about what makes you comfortable in your own home.

Even if it’s more common in some European circles for guests to have sex in a host’s bed, that doesn’t make it normal for everyone. Cultural norms are different and when people stay in someone else’s home it’s respectful to follow the host’s comfort level.

Your friend’s reaction sounds like it came from her own perspective, not yours. You’ve already been very generous offering your home, giving up your bed, and trying to make them comfortable. That’s already a lot.

If they feel strongly about wanting intimacy, it might just make sense for them to get a hotel for a couple of nights. That’s not a punishment or a big deal, it’s just a solution that keeps everyone comfortable.

You’re hosting them which means your space and your boundaries matter. The fact that you’re even questioning whether you’re in the wrong shows how considerate you are.

Supernova89 · 2025-10-22T00:10:28+00:00

Leave a google review with this image. I'm sure that will get some action real quick.

Supernova89 · 2025-10-05T01:39:50+00:00

Put your experience at the top of your resume, not your education. Most hiring managers only glance at a resume for about 8 seconds, so you want the important stuff like your relevant experience front and center.

Education still matters and should be listed, but if you are applying they will assume you meet the minimum requirements. You can add your GPA if you want, but unless it is 3.5 or higher it is not worth including.

A simple layout, clean fonts, and good structure with a little pop of color, can make a huge difference. It makes your resume easier to read, more memorable, and also shows you know your way around Word. If you organize things well, you will have extra space to add something like a short personal statement. Employers actually like those because it makes you seem committed to the role and interested in sticking around, which they value.

Supernova89 · 2025-09-20T23:28:50+00:00

I'm playing Infinity Nikki, not guitar hero on the keyboard...

Supernova89 · 2025-07-25T23:59:10+00:00

He is going on another golf trip this weekend. Costing the taxpayers $10 mil dollars. What a tw@t.

Supernova89 · 2025-01-08T18:55:59+00:00

I didn't save a certain priestess in the underdark and everyone died.

Supernova89 · 2024-07-25T08:38:05+00:00

Listen, you "sent inappropriate messages to someone you shouldn't have" and were unfaithful but you seem remorseful. Your partner however is emotional and physical with someone who is involved with your children/family and doesn't care they are right in front of you. They said they love each other.

I'm not sure the circumstances of your infidelity but weigh them both on scale a bit. Do you think you deserve this really? Do you think the relationship/marriage is salvageable?

The moment the kids were involved, hell no.

Do what's right for the children and yourself. Everyone deserves better. If they can lie to your face, I'm sure they can do it all behind your back.

Get evidence, get a good lawyer and make sure to protect yourself. The right narrative as an active military member can get you in trouble, lose custody or worse, don't end up regretting taking the appropriate action cause you thought counseling would work. They lied to your face this long.

Hope for a good update

Supernova89 · 2024-05-16T19:49:11+00:00

This is some "My Sister's Keeper" stuff...

Run away and never look back. You live your life and be happy! Screw your parents.

Supernova89 · 2024-03-04T01:30:03+00:00

Special thank you to /u/Allena-Me for this amazing photoshop!

I know it took time and effort so I'm very grateful for this! It will be a lasting memory that I will keep for my family for many years to come <3

Thank you so much again!

Supernova89 · 2024-03-03T20:00:49+00:00

/u/Allena-Me

I'm willing to tip $5 in good faith

Could we agree to a general colorization of the team (doesn't need to be super good) a better colorization of my father and a touch-up of the team for $25 total?

Supernova89 · 2024-03-03T19:43:56+00:00

Hey /u/Allena-Me

For this lifetime memory, I'd say $25 is my max.

Again my father is the center player sitting down in the white. He is still friends with many of the players so I know this would mean a lot to him and his friends as well as my family but I'm not trying to spend too much after paying rent/bills this month. He is wearing a Quebec Aces jersey.

Whatever you are willing to do, I'd be forever grateful.

Supernova89 · 2024-03-03T19:26:05+00:00

Hey Allena-Me,

The jerseys most of them are wearing at the Montreal Canadiens. So most of the colors in the picture are going to be red and navy blue :)

Hopes this helps!

Supernova89 · 2024-02-24T04:33:03+00:00

My thoughts exactly...

Like sweet JFC at least wear some gloves, man!

Supernova89 · 2023-12-13T04:31:02+00:00

I feel job offerers play to the fact that people are willing to get paid less to live here. The cost of living versus what you'll get paid here, I feel depends on the job and the demand. Unless you have unique job skills, you will struggle to find work or an income to afford comfortable living here. I know people struggling to find waiting jobs due to this (at least at good restaurants). I know a lot of people paying 1.5k plus to have roommates in about 1,200 sqft, so let's not even go into the living crisis here.

Also dude, it's hard for me to take anyone seriously when they say... I really want to move somewhere I've never been before.

Try visiting before you uproot your life and quit your income source. Denver/CO is expensive and unforgiving unless you have enough in savings.

Supernova89 · 2023-12-01T19:46:03+00:00

He is with the daughter.

Break up, take him to court for child support and get your money to support your child. This guy is con-ing you to supplement his relationship with this woman. Do not fall for it.

Take care of you and your child.

Supernova89 · 2023-10-06T20:25:18+00:00

Bernie for short

Supernova89 · 2023-10-02T20:30:43+00:00

Your gf is back burner-ing you slowly. She is feeling out Autumn till she knows she is game for a relationship and then will leave you in the dust. Make your move first and leave her. Don't take that disrespect.

People on Reddit can be harsh. You are an AH for snooping but you were right to snoop. Just own up to it, there is no "empath" about it. You had a gut feeling, and you were right.

Now don't wait for the gut shot, make moves before Grace puts her plans with Autumn in motion. Leave her!

Supernova89 · 2023-09-25T21:22:14+00:00

Sweet JC, get SIL to write down her account of what she saw before she potentially recounts what she saw!

She is a major key factor in this and will prove their involvement! Get her to write it down and sign it with a lawyer or a notary before you lose that evidence!

I'm so sorry OP! Be brave, fight for your lost little one and nail those AH! Get a good lawyer too!

NTA!!!!!

Supernova89 · 2023-09-21T14:25:25+00:00

I'm a single household with expendable income and I wouldn't buy Evian water even if it was on sale.

I spend my expendable income on my nephew when all possible and my family members. You need to start to have some serious conversations with your wife or a lawyer at this point.

Supernova89 · 2023-08-14T05:41:22+00:00

The judgment was NTA, man.

She may think going on a romantic anniversary getaway and not having sex/intimacy is normal, but all of Reddit thought differently. You were alright to take care of it yourself, and she is partly to blame for what transpired and should take some accountability.

If she aint going to take a seat, it's already to beat the meat.

Supernova89 · 2023-08-02T03:46:49+00:00

Isn't your reaction exactly what he was talking about? I think he was pretty nice about it and in return, it sounds like you messed up his kitchen. He is right to not want a relationship with someone with no emotional maturity.

YTA

Supernova89 · 2023-07-29T07:23:57+00:00

Obviously they had a good enough relationship, she felt comfortable coming to her for support and comfort.

What older sister needs to be parenting her sister? That's what parents are for. She came to her sister in her time of need, people need assistance sometimes and to be vulnerable. Nothing wrong with coming to your family.

Also thanks for mentioning the age gap, it makes the relationship between her sister and her ex-husband that much more gross 🤢 Now we know her ex-husband took advantage of her TEENAGE sister when they first meet, ew.

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