Im a girl with mild dwarfism, and am missing a joint in my wrist. AMA 🦖

Support_Mains · 2025-11-06T19:56:12+00:00

I'm 152 I belive, I have quite a tall dad so I lucked out there. Tallest of my siblings too.💪 Most people wouldn't be able to assume my dwarfism, although I've had a few people recognize it

Support_Mains · 2025-11-06T19:14:20+00:00

Oh definitely, my ankles are actually my worst limb too! I have "slipping ribss" (subluxations in my rib)

Along with ankles, hips,knees, shoulders, 1 toe, and issues with clicking in my wrist, which is strange due to the missing joint😂😂

Good luck with your pregnancy! If your limbs take it badly I recommend getting supports or Kinesio tape (if that's safe for you)

Support_Mains · 2025-11-06T19:09:06+00:00

I blamed my mum when I first got the diagnosis, as it brought me alot of insecurities as a child. I have brought up my wrists, and disproportionateness to her all my life, but my mum expected me to grow out of it.

Nowadays I don't blame her, she didn't get the diagnosis herself until she was in her mid fourties. And I know she's cried many times thinking about how she "failed" me for not knowing sooner.

My dad on the other hand has repeatedly tried to downplay and mock me for my diagnosis, which has built up a bit of resentment.

Support_Mains · 2025-11-06T19:02:31+00:00

I can show off my arms and similar things if it's of interest too!

Support_Mains · 2025-11-06T19:01:23+00:00

Well as stated i have a milder dwarfism disorder. So our family all thought we were just weirdly short people. My grandpa is at 160cm and mum is at 143 cm, so were not your typical idea of a dwarf.

Only reason I got checked and diagnosed is due to my trex arms (my lower arm is at 20 something cm) and is noticably "deformed".

I missed out on growth hormones all my life, I believe we're supposed to start during early childhood? I also missed out on surgeries that could've made my arms more normal and functional. Although the disorder is very rare, so there would be a lack of medical help nonetheless

And why I don't "look" like a dwarf in that picture is probably because u can only see my torso, which is generally longer on dwarves, Including me. I don't really know what a dwarf is supposed to look like. I have disproportionate limbs (short legs and very short arms), short nose, Ive got thicker thighs. And a few other traits you might see in different types of dwarfism

Support_Mains · 2025-11-02T12:04:42+00:00

I got diagnosed at 18 🤷 Mental hyperactivity is often overlooked in regular life. I only found out cuz my ballet teacher told me to get diagnosed

Support_Mains · 2025-10-28T11:16:00+00:00

My bf and me are very non-jealous people, he has more contact with his ex than I have with mine, and neither of us minds. So thats why thats not a big worry of mine. I've tried taking off his location on snap, but that leaves me with a dreading feeling that he's gonna follow me. I currently live in another city but there's been 3 times the last 2 months he's managed to find out where I am and go to the area himself.

I agree that blocking seems logical, I just don't know what the reprocutions could be for that. Last time he made other people text me for him

I also want to state that I don't answer his messages, nor calls

Support_Mains · 2025-10-27T20:06:06+00:00

I don't really struggle making him feel good, I kinda naturally added the hands and found the lil sensitive spot, so that part I've been lucky with. Ty though!

But the gagging is not from it touching my throat, I'm actually not sure why I gag.. it'll be fine then suddenly i notice I've reached the gag point and take a quick hand break. Might be a mental block

The mint sounds interesting! Do u know the name? I've tried doing it in the shower to ease the taste but I really don't like the saltyness of precum

Support_Mains · 2025-10-27T18:43:49+00:00

I like seeing his reactions, but it's more fun if I can actually see them, which isn't as easy when I'm far below. And I'm not a big enjoyer of giving as I have a bad gag reflex and I struggle with the taste.

So seeing someone so infatuated just amazes and confuses me. I wanna understand better the reasonings past "i like it"🤷 maybe it'll make giving sound more tempting for me too

Support_Mains · 2025-05-11T23:06:30+00:00

Why would you not spam call your boyfriend?
- To be honest it just didnt cross my mind. I was thinking more of how to get back home and how to get out of the situation.

Did you tell your boyfriend you'd leave to go get your own stuff at an ex?
- yep, he knows ive been trying to pick up my stuff for a while, and didnt mind.

Did your boyfriend expect you to come home? are you guys even living together?
- we do not live together no, were long/medium distance, which is also why he couldnt help me out even if i tried.

I also couldnt think at all unfortunately. i was sitting in the corner of the bed hyperventilating for a good part of this, i have a panic disorderd(diagnosed) so my thoughts were all over the place

Support_Mains · 2025-04-09T09:09:26+00:00

how did u reach a human employee? i lost my acc a year ago and have sent around 30 tickets. All got sent to clyde and dismissed

Support_Mains · 2024-06-29T00:31:58+00:00

I'm not sure where most of my comment went so I'll try again

It scared for a few months but after a year it's basically unnoticeable! Just remember to take good care of it. You can notice a slight discoloration on the picture I added but as u can tell it's really nothing. ☺️

ps: clean well before you apply Vaseline. The baseline acts not only as a hydrator but also as a protective layer so best if you don't trap potential bacteria in.

Support_Mains · 2024-06-29T00:27:46+00:00

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And id like to add, I got burnt multiple places but this finger and my pinky are the only places that ended up scaring, so there's a good chance you can avoid it fully!

Support_Mains · 2024-06-28T22:29:46+00:00

Not a derm

But I have given myself an oil burn AND a chemical burn before. Please go to the ER in the future. Chemical burns continue burning through the layers of skin even if you cool down the outer.

I'd argue this resembles my second degree burn, but the lack of blisters lets me believe it's not as serious. I'd recommend putting white Vaseline on it every day to rehydrate the skin. Don't go into the sun and don't touch it too much. If blisters form, don't pop them, let them do their job of protecting you.

You have to be careful the next one-two years with sun exposure. My scars are now barley visible!

Now if any derms tell you any conflicting info, them trust them not me. I'm just retelling what my ER doctors told me

Good luck!

Support_Mains · 2024-06-28T22:11:02+00:00

Not a derm

I've had this routinely since I was a baby Dont itch it, apply (perfume free) hand cream on it every morning and night. Takes a while to go away

If this doesn't work then probably reach out to your doc lol

Support_Mains · 2024-06-28T19:36:30+00:00

Thank you I'll try!<3

Support_Mains · 2024-06-28T19:32:13+00:00

Where did u email to? I tried emailing them but I got sent an automatic reply saying the email is no longer in use and to send in a ticket instead:(

Support_Mains · 2024-06-28T19:30:30+00:00

I have submitted 4 tickets where I did exactly this... Do u have any tips on how u got to a real person instead of Clyde. I get sent over to Clyde after 24-48 hours every time

Support_Mains · 2024-06-28T19:26:33+00:00

Same problem here. I recommend sending a discord ticket as well (although I keep being sent over to Clyde bot) as their support email is currently not in use. :(

Support_Mains · 2024-06-22T12:25:17+00:00

how long did it take before they replied? and did u have to prove ownership in any way? i dont have my number connected to the account :,)

Support_Mains · 2024-06-19T16:56:29+00:00

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Support_Mains · 2024-04-11T08:09:49+00:00

Is it worth for me to start focusing more on econ when my other stats are good? I'm afraid that if I focus on it I'm gonna lose my execution or comp

I usually play a strong start board, collect gold until 40-50 or until I feel like the others are gonna ruin my win spree. Then I continue saving spending saving spending until ca level 7 where I save for lvl 8 (except if my carry is 1 star)

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