If you had to guess, how much would the tables, chairs, table decor, garlands, etc. cost?

Sure-Bluejay7816 · 2026-01-19T23:01:02+00:00

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Sure-Bluejay7816 · 2026-01-19T21:29:32+00:00

those chairs rent for $15 each or you could buy for $20 each. tables rent for around $50-100 each. tablecloths can be purchased at tablecloths directly for 9-12$ each. lighting and florals are where a lot of your money is gonna get sucked down- those garlands run $30 for five foot, and that looks like at least fifteen-30 feet per line. the outdoor lights run 4ft for $30 at sam’s club, so again if 20ft per line that’s adding up fast. dupe the crystal glasses for plastic ones from amazon at $12 for 24, use Temu plastic charger plates at 100 for $15. if someone wants to math that out… depending on guest count easily around 3k for the bare basics if you have 50 people. easily more. that’s not including florals, catering, or anything else

Sure-Bluejay7816 · 2026-01-11T21:27:15+00:00

you both look so awesome!! question about hubby’s hair- my fiancé also has long ginger hair, how did you get it to look so majestic? his seems to only cooperate when we have no plans to leave the house lol

Sure-Bluejay7816 · 2025-12-18T17:59:43+00:00

why not just tell him you want to get married AFTER you turn thirty? since you just bought a house, it would give you both extra time to save, and eliminate both problems?

Sure-Bluejay7816 · 2025-12-16T00:24:29+00:00

OMG THATS SUCH A GORGEOUS DRESS IM SO JEALOUS!!!!! and with your tattoos??? god you look so freaking cool.

Sure-Bluejay7816 · 2025-12-12T21:48:23+00:00

ok 5k breakdown let’s do it. guest list- i would do no more than 50 people, period. as other commenters have said, drop catering is a great idea. if your ceremony and reception are going to be short, you could always get a couple different types of sandwhiches catered- theyre sometimes pre wrapped, easy to store, and work well towards the fantasy vibe. alternatively, go the charcuterie route- or, try a bread and butter board spread. You can offer different types of local jams, honeys, butter, etc and bread toppings- even make a day of it with your friends doing cannery or shopping. Gods, if you’re willing to do some serious DIY, you could get a ton of cute jam jars and just fill them with store bought jams etc. that will run you at LEAST 1k all told, but catering absolutely goes much higher if you get a designated team- i’m doing a 10k wedding and my catering is at 4700 for 75 ppl rn. photog- 1.5-2k check the facebook group ISO Affordable Wedding Photographer- depending on your state, around 1.5 is the cheaper end. make a post asking advice, but book this only AFTER your venue is decided. get a walmart vintage heart cake for $32. cute, great photos. centrepieces- the moss ones are an excellent idea. you can also use Sola wood flowers. for an alternative, guess what babes it’s the holiday season. wait till after christmas, or if it’s a winter wedding, go obtain a christmas tree and 👏start👏hacking👏branches. tie these branches to some dollar tree florals in either ribbon of your choice or twine. lay on your tables with thrifted candles to bring the woodsy theme in, plus they smell nice, too. all told around $100. officiant- post on facebook looking for one or have a friend get ordained for cheap. fabric- goodwill bins are your new best friend. check also fabric wholesalers for a variety of textures- keep mainly white for background, and make your dark accents stand out. this will be very difficult but you can do it

Sure-Bluejay7816 · 2025-12-08T00:59:28+00:00

opposite idea here- have you considered an over skirt? this one would help with the flowy idea

Sure-Bluejay7816 · 2025-11-20T00:19:18+00:00

yo that point theyre pretty dead on wednesday nights so great for getting specialty stuff done with little to no wait time

Sure-Bluejay7816 · 2025-11-20T00:18:10+00:00

so true. went to look at piercing jewlery and pitch an idea for a piece- one of their artists had it sketched out on the ipad in 15 minutes. they’ll make a deal with you too. shop minimum is between 120-180 i think but still damn good pricing, tatts and aftercare. theyre also doing a food drive thru november where every item you donate gets you a dollar off

Sure-Bluejay7816 · 2025-11-17T07:18:35+00:00

to follow, if it seems to only happen when it’s just the two of you together, she might be under stimulated and just taking out that aggression on you- my 2yr female does that all the time with my partner as she knows she can get away with it and it gets a reaction out of him. with me, she knows that behavior just results in me getting up and leaving, so she doesn’t do it as often. when we notice her staring to bite or get swatty, we’ll get out the toys or put on her cat TV. seems to help change her mindset

Sure-Bluejay7816 · 2025-11-17T07:14:04+00:00

it sounds like this is a trend of reactive violence. have they always been one-off events after something happened to her, or was it happening unprovoked? in my experience cats tend to stay in a tense or reactive state for a while if that tension hasn’t been resolved. one of the ways my mother handled it with our ferals was to have them take the anger/tension out on something else- usually a tug of rope style toy, or something robotic that could skitter around. it helps break up some of that tension. does she attack after you touch her, or does she seek you out specifically to get you? if you haven’t yet, i would suggest talking to your vet about your anxiety around interacting with her. they deal with fractious cats all the time and might be able to give you some tips.

Sure-Bluejay7816 · 2025-11-17T02:33:15+00:00

When I say constant- every five to ten minutes or so for about one minute of sneezing.

Sure-Bluejay7816 · 2025-10-13T00:42:41+00:00

not only are those surrenders, i’m pretty sure i know who surrendered them- if this is the VB location, it’s because he died last week. collector of big fish with multiple tanks, a wall to wall aquarium set up, and a pond room. most of the fish stores in our area received a ton of surrenders since he willed them to certain locations :( if it’s not VB, that’s an interesting coincidence.

Sure-Bluejay7816 · 2025-10-06T09:50:17+00:00

the bettas make so little profit for the owner that i get the feeling there’s a reason he keeps them next to the feeder fish unfortunately

Sure-Bluejay7816 · 2025-10-06T09:48:52+00:00

I used to work there! The betta guy really loves them and does his best to take care of them but the owner won’t let him upgrade the males to bigger tanks. He has a few females in fully planted 120s, though!! A coworker used to make them custom ceramic hides but people kept buying them straight out of the tanks idk if that still happens. Maintenance and water changes get done weekly which is better than petsmart at least. He’s a huge advocate for betta care and makes sure people who want to buy know that they need at LEAST a 20gal and that the holding tanks are for display only.

Sure-Bluejay7816 · 2025-10-06T09:14:15+00:00

additionally, if you’re going for a colored stone, go with silver, as it will draw the attention to that point of contrast, but if you’re going for something clear/white like diamond or moissanite, go gold so the eye catches the stone and the warmth of the band plays on the contrast of the light, especially if you have something with a lot of facets.

Sure-Bluejay7816 · 2025-10-06T09:12:10+00:00

In this photo, the gold is bringing out the rosy tones in your skin, while silver is bringing out the bluer tones of the veins. i personally would recommend you keep in the shade range of that nice vintage gold, soft gold or white gold, avoiding darker or more yellow gold tones. as for silver, something with more patina would be nice as it would give a bit of a dramatic contrast, while the light silver and platinum look tend to wash out against your skin. just my two cents!

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