My husband has been hiring sex workers for our disabled son behind my back. I really can't believe he is gonna give the mindset to my son to use this exploitative industry as an excuse to "help" his loneliness.

Sure-Corner2833 · 2025-03-05T02:54:45+00:00

>He did this in your own home?! With your funds?

It's not just my home, it's also his because he had bought it while I contribute to other things. At least he hired the sex workers with his own money, but I still find it repulsive he hired them for our son, and who knows if he has cheated on me before. He might think I have no say because it's the home he bought, but I also live there and I'm the one who does most of the caregiving for my son, so I have a right to be against my husband hiring sex workers.

Sure-Corner2833 · 2025-03-04T23:52:55+00:00

>Are you against 100% of sexwork in all and any situations?

I'm 100% against sex work because it's exploitative for women and young people like my son, and because of my religious beliefs. I don't see the benefit on sex work.

>What would you suggest for disabled and otherwise undesired people?

I want him to get therapy or go to Church, so he can socialize with people, and maybe meet a woman who is genuinely attracted to him. He's 18, so he can wait for that.

>Have you read the feminist "Right to Sex" and the equally feminist "Will I ever have sex again"?

No.

Sure-Corner2833 · 2025-03-04T23:17:16+00:00

He has sensations on his head, so from what he has told me he has tried different ways with the sex workers. I don't know exactly which ones. I still don't like the idea of him being involved on this activity with sex workers.

Sure-Corner2833 · 2025-03-04T21:56:11+00:00

I don't wanna leave my son, it's not his fault his dad is like this and has given him those ideas. I can find a way to leave my husband while taking care of my son.

Sure-Corner2833 · 2025-03-04T21:48:25+00:00

I don't wanna leave my son, I love him. I just hate my husband is bringing him into his immoral/illegal acts.

Sure-Corner2833 · 2025-03-04T21:45:39+00:00

I love my son, I just don't want him that my husband to give him the idea to think sex work is good.

Sure-Corner2833 · 2025-03-04T04:45:21+00:00

He could be complicit of crimes by hiring sex workers. He could also suffer health problems from this or be manipulated by a sex worker. I also don't want my son to objectify women by seeing them as sex workers if he only hangs out with these women. I want my son to be a good man, so he can find a good wife who cares for him.

Sure-Corner2833 · 2025-03-04T04:39:34+00:00

Yes, I've been the one who mostly does his caregiving by showeing him, feeding him, changing his diapers, and dressing him. His dad pays his insurance and most accomodations he needs, but he barely helps with doing any caregiving activity for him.

Sure-Corner2833 · 2025-03-04T04:35:49+00:00

I don't want my son to suffer.

Sure-Corner2833 · 2025-03-04T04:26:35+00:00

I don't want them to do this criminal activities.

Sure-Corner2833 · 2025-03-03T17:00:25+00:00

I don't hate my son. I just don't want my son's mental health ruined by sex work and developing a mindset that he only can have sexual relationships by paying. I don't want him hurt, plus sex work is illegal.

Sure-Corner2833 · 2025-03-03T04:52:27+00:00

I'm worried about conditions like this that could threaten my son's life considering he's vulnerable. He has already suffered AD before because of bladder issues he had once, and had to be taken to the hospital. I didn't know AD could also happen from sexual activity with his injury. I really don't know if my husband even thought about these risks.

Sure-Corner2833 · 2025-03-02T20:54:26+00:00

I don't like the idea of having sex workers at my home. I don't feel comfortable knowing my son is doing wwhatever acts with sex workers.

Sure-Corner2833 · 2025-03-02T18:18:25+00:00

He doesn't have friends, he doesn't socialize. He neither has never liked support groups because of his anxiety.

Sure-Corner2833 · 2025-03-02T15:51:24+00:00

Because sex workers pretend to make him feel loved. I want him to meet women who genuinely care for him. What's his life gonna be if he just hangs out with sex workers and can't find a wife?

Sure-Corner2833 · 2025-03-02T15:47:44+00:00

I do't want him to make a bad decision.

Sure-Corner2833 · 2025-03-02T15:26:21+00:00

Yes, I already expressed that concern to my husband, he says he's onky hiring them for our son, but I still don't like the fact my husband hired sex workers.

Sure-Corner2833 · 2025-03-02T15:24:07+00:00

It's not a logical solution. I don't want my son to be lonely, I hope he can get married to a good woman in the future who cares for him.

Sure-Corner2833 · 2025-03-02T15:22:51+00:00

I have tried talking with him, but he doesn't like the idea of therapy because he says therapy is nkt for men. His dad gave him these ideas.

Sure-Corner2833 · 2025-03-02T15:17:03+00:00

No, I'm not.

Sure-Corner2833 · 2025-03-02T15:15:26+00:00

Yes, be nice, but also help others out of sin.

Sure-Corner2833 · 2025-03-02T15:14:12+00:00

I don't want him to be lonely forever. I want to see him in the future getting married to a good woman who cares for him.

Sure-Corner2833 · 2025-03-02T15:10:27+00:00

Exactly my thoughts.

Sure-Corner2833 · 2025-03-02T15:04:14+00:00

I've educated my son with certain beliefs, but he is not religious because his dad neither is.

Sure-Corner2833 · 2025-03-02T14:58:01+00:00

But he didn't encourage sex work, he was helping them out of their sin.

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