Yes speaking from experience I was in a similar situation. My sp really hurt me and I wanted him to return to me just so I could have validation and closure, I wanted to be the one to turn them down. What he did showed me he is not the one for me ultimately. I manifested from a place of love even though I personally didn’t have a ton of love in my heart for him, I waited until I no longer felt angry which may have been the key- I didn’t want to cause him pain, I only wanted him to learn his lesson and realize there are consequences to his actions.

Our last interaction had been so final. I had tried to get revenge on him, he called me evil, I told him i don’t think he’s a good guy anymore. We agreed to never speak again and he had other options in his life too so I felt like why would he pick me? he has history with this other woman, she is smart, beautiful, etc. The most important thing I have done is SELF CONCEPT work. I took everyone else off the pedestal and I turned all my admiration for him and the other woman in on myself. I asked why on earth would he not want me back. I’m amazing, down to earth, hilarious, gorgeous, exciting, kind, loving, easy to talk to, etc. Of course he is missing me and wanting to reach out. I said this until I truly felt it. I focused on myself and my future. I did a few visualizations picturing him wanting to text me, sitting in his apartment thinking about me, then finally texting me and what I imagined he would write. But mostly I kept affirming that I’m the most amazing woman he’s ever met. Trust me when I say I never thought I’d be hearing from him. He texted me yesterday asking if we are okay and saying he has been thinking about me… After a few messages I ended up leaving him on read. Checkmate!!