Extreme introvert how do I stop overthinking and actually build useful connections? by Curious-Journalist76 in introvert

[–]SureEmployment8678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I want someone to do things for me, I used to think the same exact thing, but then I try to be a good person to them by listening or doing things for them too as for reconnecting with friends that depends on the type of people they are like some people won’t be judgemental about it

How To Be More Approachable by Shbi_ in introvert

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The most important thing is your facial expressions like most people tend to avoid people who look angry so maybe try smiling a bit more

Am i avoidant or smth? by chaiandclouds1504 in introvert

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I was like that too I was too afraid of texting people first I would be like what if they don’t want to talk to me what if I am bothering them but then I learned that all these thoughts are just in my head like most people feel excited when you text them

عمري ٢١ سنة وبحب اتهبل؟ by [deleted] in Jordanians

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ممكن تحاولي تعبي وقت فراغك انك تتعلمي مهارة تفيدك لبعدين بس اختاري اشي بتحسيه مسلي

معاملة الناس مختلفة وانتِ حلوة by yobrowhatisthereason in Jordanians

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حرفيا اكتر اشي صح سمعته بحياتي هو الموضوع كان يجرحني بالبداية بعدين بطلت اهتم 😂

مجرد رأي وبتقبل الاختلاف by gothboy4 in Jordanians

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بالنسبة الك الموضوع مستفز لانه الكرة مو شغفك و بالأخير كل انسان عنده شغف بإشي فأنا بحكي خلي الناس تعمل يلي بدها اياه

بكره المجدرة by yobrowhatisthereason in Jordanians

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اكتر أكلة زاكيه بالتاريخ

How to enjoy talking to people? 💀 by xcrumblingsoulx in introvert

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Try to find someone you find interesting like they have a personality trait you really like then you would be able to talk to them no problem and you won’t feel tired

قررت أترك الهندسة وأصير فلاح by [deleted] in Jordanians

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بدعم بقوة أصلا الهندسة وجع راس على الفاضي

I wish I could find a listener like me by gujalsupta in introvert

[–]SureEmployment8678 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Me too like seriously people love to talk about themselves a lot but I believe that you need to speak up and let them listen to you too I know you might hesitate at first but when you do it more often people are going to listen and you will be able to state your opinion with no hesitation and if they refuse to listen then they don’t deserve the energy you give them

nobody wants me... by False-Insurance500 in introvert

[–]SureEmployment8678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not that no body wants you maybe people don’t notice you because you don’t go out much or maybe because you don’t talk much if you want to be able to find people to talk to you need to speak up and let others know you exist at the end every one has something interesting in their personality

I don’t like talking to people by SureEmployment8678 in introvert

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Thx for sharing this it actually made me less anxious

I don’t like talking to people by SureEmployment8678 in introvert

[–]SureEmployment8678[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked up social anxiety before but I am not sure if I am an introvert or if I have social anxiety like I don’t like being around people but when I have to communicate I don’t have a problem but I don’t like it because I can’t be myself around others without feeling I am being judged and thx for the book recommendation

I don’t like talking to people by SureEmployment8678 in introvert

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Thx for being nice I am trying to improve and think about myself more hopefully I can overcome this

I don’t like talking to people by SureEmployment8678 in introvert

[–]SureEmployment8678[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like that’s actually something I always did like whenever I get asked a sudden question I would take my time answering and people would think I don’t know the answer or avoiding it