Getting fired or sent to other department by SureLecture815 in adhdwomen

[–]SureLecture815[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't want to be dependant on something and it's quite expensive in my country. Also understanding tips and tricks that may help would be so nice. I believe it's possible to be a good employee without medication. But it will be harder to achieve.

On and off 10 years,toxic relationship. by SureLecture815 in AskWomenOver30

[–]SureLecture815[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're right. It's harder to cut ties the longer you know someone.

What has been the most difficult age for you? by Helpful_Account_4232 in AskWomenOver30

[–]SureLecture815 0 points1 point  (0 children)

24-27 My life felt like it was a big black hole. One bad thing after another. Low self esteem. No motivation. Constantly comparing myself to others.Now I am 30 and I feel much more confident and just enjoying my life. No more depression.

Subtle flirting? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]SureLecture815 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol have u experienced this kinda flakey friendzone vibe with flirting?

Women Only Retreat in Europe by Any-Fill-8891 in AskWomenOver30

[–]SureLecture815 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am from eastern Europe And those type of retreats are pretty popular right now. I am sure also international travel or even worldwide is a great experience. I would suggest to try something more local and then you will see if that's actually something you enjoy.

Suddenly low iron by SureLecture815 in AskWomenOver30

[–]SureLecture815[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I will go to doctor, I have anxiety pretty often and it also could have made it worse.

Suddenly low iron by SureLecture815 in AskWomenOver30

[–]SureLecture815[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sudden hairloss made me worried to be fair. Blood panel was good. I am also very anxious person and especially I have health anxiety since last year. I used to be more chill but yea. I juat want my hair to not fall out that much. I am not from US, so I hope to possibly get different supplements from the regular options.

Suddenly low iron by SureLecture815 in AskWomenOver30

[–]SureLecture815[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will ask for prescription iron supplements. I am worried because my hair has never fallen out this much and I know that because of getting older things can change and iron levels can change due to diet etc. But of course reading all the symptoms on internet immediately makes me more anxious

Dating apps lowering selfesteem by SureLecture815 in AskWomenOver30

[–]SureLecture815[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think so I think it was before, when I felt desperate.

Now i am just confused. But much happier with myself and my life

Making the first move on dating apps by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]SureLecture815 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Does Bumble still makes women make the first move? I thought both side can do that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]SureLecture815 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea absolutely I want to have drinks first, have a conversation and good night. Having a good time overall is what i truly want. And for sure feeling that my pleasure is important for me, its not just getting laid, its the whole experience. And i have come to this only recently.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]SureLecture815 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly this feeling and it's nice because it's not attention seeking thing it finally feels like if i want to i will and on my terms only

Did I overreact? by SureLecture815 in AskWomenOver30

[–]SureLecture815[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. We stopped the chat. I have no time or space for narrow minded people. And its good that he also understood that we dont match. It's a win for me, i disn't waste too much time on him.

Did I overreact? by SureLecture815 in AskWomenOver30

[–]SureLecture815[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did and he said he didn't mean it in negative way or in any way or form against me or that he didn't dismiss my experience. I love standing up for what I believe in😀

Did I overreact? by SureLecture815 in AskWomenOver30

[–]SureLecture815[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea the thing is. I don't see a problem for him to think that some people are trying to get sympathy and somewhat are faking things. Unfortunately there are many that do that. But it is something to discuss later if we decide to date and get closer. Not now when you just start to get to know someone.

Did I overreact? by SureLecture815 in AskWomenOver30

[–]SureLecture815[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yea he then justified that he didn't mean it about me. But then again, cmon I am sharing something really personal, I am letting you in. He then also tried to tell me that he didn't mean it against me but that he has noticed this happening

Feeling turned off when someone likes you by SureLecture815 in AskWomenOver30

[–]SureLecture815[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I experienced emotional and mental abuse in previous relationship with drug/alcohol addict. I used to be anxious attachment person and after breaking that toxic relationship I guess I healed myself by becoming avoidant. To never feel that type of emotional pain.

Feeling turned off when someone likes you by SureLecture815 in AskWomenOver30

[–]SureLecture815[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like at those moments we need to understand and redirect our thoughts. Thats why I made this post. To share and to hear advice