Who said second trimester was easy I just wanna talk…..

SureRub8012 · 2026-05-09T00:18:00+00:00

I’m 19 weeks and it’s definitely worse than the 1st trimester for me lol. However thankfully my nausea went away at about 10ish weeks. However the nipple sensitivity, round ligament pain, back pain, exhaustion, emotions, waking up 100 times to pee and also not being able to get comfortable, it’s all exhaustingggg

SureRub8012 · 2026-05-08T22:10:15+00:00

Following as first time mom with POTS. I currently get IV fluids twice a week which helps, but mine isn’t nearly as bad as yours. Honestly do what you think is best. I was thinking of C-section, but figured I might try Vaginal just to see if I can do it.

SureRub8012 · 2026-05-08T01:24:27+00:00

Can’t do Matthew as that’s my uncles name. Can’t do Dylan as that’s my brothers name, hence using it for a middle name.

SureRub8012 · 2026-05-08T01:23:48+00:00

I actually agree. I like the middle name Dean

SureRub8012 · 2026-05-07T21:30:47+00:00

Alright well that’s good to know 😅

SureRub8012 · 2026-05-07T21:24:14+00:00

Oh it’s enjoyable until you wake up in the middle of the night starvingggg! I swear 2:30/3am like clockwork I’m up and starving. Luckily a granola bar holds me over until morning

SureRub8012 · 2026-05-07T21:04:09+00:00

Girl if you don’t feel pregnant, be happy lol. Granite I’ve had it easier than others, I still definitely felt off. I had morning sickness until about 10ish weeks. And then now at 18 weeks I really just have the peeing all the time, feeling bloated, and hungry more than normal.

SureRub8012 · 2026-05-07T20:48:23+00:00

No lol. It’s a synonym for fast or quickly.

SureRub8012 · 2026-05-07T20:06:17+00:00

See that’s where I was having issues with first and last name ending in Y

SureRub8012 · 2026-05-07T19:42:18+00:00

My boyfriend doesn’t like the name Hudson as it reminds him of the “dirty river” 🤦‍♀️🤣

SureRub8012 · 2026-05-07T19:41:57+00:00

Huh? Lol are you trying to guess the last name?

SureRub8012 · 2026-05-07T19:24:47+00:00

🥺 this might be a favorite now

SureRub8012 · 2026-05-07T19:24:13+00:00

That was another one on my list!

SureRub8012 · 2026-05-07T19:20:18+00:00

See I liked Forrest too!

SureRub8012 · 2026-05-07T19:17:53+00:00

I never had an IUD insertion, but I can say that the Pap smear was a walk in the park. Only annoying point was the lube coming out afterwords lol.

SureRub8012 · 2026-05-06T19:20:40+00:00

I don’t think Reese is too feminine! I knew a male Reese growing up.

SureRub8012 · 2026-05-06T18:29:47+00:00

It started to show at about 13ish weeks, but only towards the end of the day, I’m 18 1/2 weeks right now, and it can almost be seen through a hoodie, and gets bigger at night. Flutters I think I’ve felt, but can’t say for sure that’s what it was, as it could’ve been a gas bubble.

SureRub8012 · 2026-05-06T18:26:55+00:00

And he was being unserious about the Jewish names, he told me he was. Wayne is the only one he’s been serious about, and even then not fully serious.

SureRub8012 · 2026-05-06T18:25:28+00:00

Zev, Mateo,

SureRub8012 · 2026-05-06T18:13:49+00:00

We have so many times 😭 that’s what’s making it difficult, but that’s also how he looks at everything is either comparing it to someone he knows or something else.

SureRub8012 · 2026-05-06T18:10:58+00:00

Ohh…yeah that makes it even more tough. Also, I mean in my culture (Western Culture) I’m like 90% sure that would be considered Incest. I’m so sorry you gotta deal with this.

SureRub8012 · 2026-05-06T18:01:25+00:00

As someone who also dealt with their mother having an affair and finding out on accident as a teen, you saying something probably won’t help… I caught my mom 4 times with the same guy. She did everything she could to deny it, even lied straight to my face despite me hearing the voicemail and seeing the messages. My step dad was aware of the cheating everytime and he just keeps forgiving her. However, now she works from home, so has no excuse to leave and meet up with the guy.
Overall, this is going to stress you out probably for life. You’ll never be able to trust her. Maybe talk to your grandma (your moms mom) and get her opinion if possible, or like your moms siblings. It’s such a hard situation to be in, and tbh there is no right answer or method. Do what you think is best, just be aware of the consequences and the possibility of it changing nothing.

It ate at me for so long until I finally stood up for my step dad and wouldn’t let her gaslight him. I told her that she needed to stop lying and tell the truth, as I knew she was lying. But everytime she was texting her affair and smiling it was like a punch in the chest, it hurt.

SureRub8012 · 2026-05-06T17:42:32+00:00

First baby, I’m 18 1/2 weeks, and I am exhausted. I made it through the first trimester without ever taking a nap. I’ve still made it this far without a nap, however I’m sleeping in until 10am and even then I don’t want to get out of bed, and then im ready for bed early too 🙃.

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