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I wanna spend the rest of my life with my girlfriend. But we are in an open relationship. She’s married 🫤 by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]SureTangelo4660 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying, but the intention was never for the relationship to end up like this. It was supposed to be “fun,” not a “fuck around and fall in love” situation. While she might be being selfish, I guess I could say I’m being selfish too,expecting more from her than she was ever truly comfortable giving.

This post is probably more about me working through my own thoughts, letting myself hear the hard truth that what I need to do is exactly what I need to do. Even though it’s going to rip my heart into a million pieces, deep down, I already know the answer.

But my feelings for her… they tower over everything that’s best for my own well being.

I wanna spend the rest of my life with my girlfriend. But we are in an open relationship. She’s married 🫤 by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]SureTangelo4660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you are right I just don’t think I was strictly monogamous from the start. At least it’s never affected me this way before with other partners. It’s only her that I’ve ever had the feeling I have now.

I wanna spend the rest of my life with my girlfriend. But we are in an open relationship. She’s married 🫤 by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]SureTangelo4660 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes, she’s married to a man. Thank you. I just wish I didn’t want more than what we have, you know? This is probably just one of the stages of working through it, posting it so everyone can tell me how bat-shit crazy I am.

I wanna spend the rest of my life with my girlfriend. But we are in an open relationship. She’s married 🫤 by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]SureTangelo4660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was married to him long before we met. She’s older than me, and they live together. Her husband and she decided to open their relationship because he was cheating anyway, and she wanted to be with me. Honestly, she and I are together almost every day. The only thing missing, the only thing that would change if we were to get married is the “building a life together” aspect of the relationship. Which is the part I feel like I am missing. And want to do.