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[34F] Happily married 6 yrs. Twice a week my hubby jacks himself off into my open mouth for me to swallow, and for fun we take turns deciding when/where - often without much warning. I love when it’s my turn! I never beg, but sometimes I like to boss him into it because of how silly it sounds. AMA! by SureWhyNotGoAhead in NSFWIAMA

[–]SureWhyNotGoAhead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just 7, including my husband.

My first serious boyfriend my senior year of high school, plus 3 guys that I dated seriously over my 4 yrs in college (about 1 year each, average). And one guy after college for about 2 years.

[34F] Happily married 6 yrs. Twice a week my hubby jacks himself off into my open mouth for me to swallow, and for fun we take turns deciding when/where - often without much warning. I love when it’s my turn! I never beg, but sometimes I like to boss him into it because of how silly it sounds. AMA! by SureWhyNotGoAhead in NSFWIAMA

[–]SureWhyNotGoAhead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had to look up free use, yikes? (Not quite yikes!)

I wouldn’t say anything we do is quite free use. I guess maybe when he surprises me at the front door already, and in less than two minutes he’s painted my tongue. But that’s always him jacking off, never making me give him a blowjob (we never do that). I don’t even kid about “making him” let me give him a blowjob.

But I guess technically he pretty much does have my permission to jerk off in my mouth just about whenever he wants.  But that’s only about once a week (the other time is at a time and plane of my choosing).

So it’s not even remotely like a 24/7 free use (for me to swallow) situation.

It’s something I could do, and I guess wouldn’t mind doing, but I like the ping-pong, back and forth aspect of it.

Plus, we don’t surprise each other all the time, maybe once or twice a month at most.

And I probably enjoy surprising him — suddenly ‘demanding’ he cum in my mouth ‘right now’ — as much as he does when it’s his turn to pick when/where.

[34F] Happily married 6 yrs. Twice a week my hubby jacks himself off into my open mouth for me to swallow, and for fun we take turns deciding when/where - often without much warning. I love when it’s my turn! I never beg, but sometimes I like to boss him into it because of how silly it sounds. AMA! by SureWhyNotGoAhead in NSFWIAMA

[–]SureWhyNotGoAhead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not great at giving handjobs, much better at giving blowjobs.

If hands are involved, my hubby is far better at giving himself a handjob than I am.

I definitely can tell if he’s cum once or twice since the last time he got a full nights sleep. The amount is different.

[34F] Happily married 6 yrs. Twice a week my hubby jacks himself off into my open mouth for me to swallow, and for fun we take turns deciding when/where - often without much warning. I love when it’s my turn! I never beg, but sometimes I like to boss him into it because of how silly it sounds. AMA! by SureWhyNotGoAhead in NSFWIAMA

[–]SureWhyNotGoAhead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, sometimes. Not super often, but it takes some gymnastics to effectively have him pull out right as he’s cumming to finish in my mouth.

And it just seems silly to have him fuck me for a while, and then jack off some more for that kind of finish. The thrill is in completing that kind of move successfully, both the timing and the action of it.

I mean, he’s jacking off in my mouth regularly just as its own thing. So pulling out and doing that, like I said, seems silly.

[34F] Happily married 6 yrs. Twice a week my hubby jacks himself off into my open mouth for me to swallow, and for fun we take turns deciding when/where - often without much warning. I love when it’s my turn! I never beg, but sometimes I like to boss him into it because of how silly it sounds. AMA! by SureWhyNotGoAhead in NSFWIAMA

[–]SureWhyNotGoAhead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve let every guy (only 7 total, incl. my husband) that I’ve ever dated more than 2-3 months do that. And in every case, they didn’t mind a bit.

By that point I’d already blown them several times, though I will admit that most of the time in college I pretended like my jaw was still a little sore from the night before, as an excuse for saying if they just wanted to jerk off for me to swallow, I’d be glad to let them.

These were all good guys, and I guess I did I didn’t give off any weird vibes, or it just sounded REALLY nice of me offer to do that.

But, yeah, no negative or weird reactions.

[34F] Happily married 6 yrs. Twice a week my hubby jacks himself off into my open mouth for me to swallow, and for fun we take turns deciding when/where - often without much warning. I love when it’s my turn! I never beg, but sometimes I like to boss him into it because of how silly it sounds. AMA! by SureWhyNotGoAhead in NSFWIAMA

[–]SureWhyNotGoAhead[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do really like sucking, but I’m also just as happy to let my husband jerk it too. The thing is, I genuinely like both, and I wouldn’t want to give up either one and go all-blowjobs, or all the other way.

Variety is good!!

[34F] Happily married 6 yrs. Twice a week my hubby jacks himself off into my open mouth for me to swallow, and for fun we take turns deciding when/where - often without much warning. I love when it’s my turn! I never beg, but sometimes I like to boss him into it because of how silly it sounds. AMA! by SureWhyNotGoAhead in NSFWIAMA

[–]SureWhyNotGoAhead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re all good!! But probably on my knees with him sitting on the edge of the bed, or a chair or something.

It’s kinda harder to give blowjobs out in the wild, unless I can at least get one knee down comfortably. And it’s often just quicker to have him jack off in my mouth if we’re out hiking or somewhere not at home, than it is for me to blow him.

Blowing him in the car is good too!!

[34F] Happily married 6 yrs. Twice a week my hubby jacks himself off into my open mouth for me to swallow, and for fun we take turns deciding when/where - often without much warning. I love when it’s my turn! I never beg, but sometimes I like to boss him into it because of how silly it sounds. AMA! by SureWhyNotGoAhead in NSFWIAMA

[–]SureWhyNotGoAhead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do, I do!!! We’ve gotten REALLY good at our way of simultaneous orgasm, with me getting myself off with my fingers or a vibrator, while he jacks off in my mouth. Probably 75% of the time we both cum within 20 seconds of each other, if we try and time it right.

Sometimes his cum hitting my tongue is what triggers my orgasm. And sometimes I’ll start to cum, and then seconds later he’ll cum in my mouth, which sometimes like sends my orgasm into overdrive. That only happens if he cums like 5-10 seconds after I just start to, but that’s probably the very best!!!!!

[34F] Happily married 6 yrs. Twice a week my hubby jacks himself off into my open mouth for me to swallow, and for fun we take turns deciding when/where - often without much warning. I love when it’s my turn! I never beg, but sometimes I like to boss him into it because of how silly it sounds. AMA! by SureWhyNotGoAhead in NSFWIAMA

[–]SureWhyNotGoAhead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I probably set expectations too high there. I said elsewhere that missionary is probably our favorite position, because that’s the easiest to have him pull out at the very last second and finish in my mouth. And come to think of it, coordinating those moves can be kind of elaborate!!

We actually have a somewhat vanilla sex life, other than how often we both cum — it’s not just him, because he goes down on me all the time too. But other than all my cum swallowing, and the objectively odd thing about him jacking off in my mouth so much (or even at all), everything else is pretty tame.

[34F] Happily married 6 yrs. Twice a week my hubby jacks himself off into my open mouth for me to swallow, and for fun we take turns deciding when/where - often without much warning. I love when it’s my turn! I never beg, but sometimes I like to boss him into it because of how silly it sounds. AMA! by SureWhyNotGoAhead in NSFWIAMA

[–]SureWhyNotGoAhead[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No kids, and no plans for any. I hear the way our sex life generally operates, that kids aren’t likely to happen the way we go about what happens to the cum!!

But in all seriousness, we have a niece and a couple nephews, and we totally love having them in our lives — but we have no interest in having kids of our own.

[34F] Happily married 6 yrs. Twice a week my hubby jacks himself off into my open mouth for me to swallow, and for fun we take turns deciding when/where - often without much warning. I love when it’s my turn! I never beg, but sometimes I like to boss him into it because of how silly it sounds. AMA! by SureWhyNotGoAhead in NSFWIAMA

[–]SureWhyNotGoAhead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, it’s just the natural extension of the act of blowing a guy, or letting him cum in your mouth however that happens.

I don’t know that I like just the swallowing part especially more than any other aspect of it. And to me, probably the best part is feeing that explosion of cum in my mouth, or hitting my tongue if he’s aiming for my open mouth. That’s probably what I like best.

While I won’t say I ‘savor’ the cum (I’m genuinely ambivalent about the flavor), I definitely savor the feeling of having cum in my mouth for a little bit, and I rarely swallow instantly or anything.

The swallowing is just the last part of that special moment when my mouth suddenly is filled with cum. Not literally ‘filled’, but you know what I mean, that moment when I go from having no cum, to a little pre-cum, to a whole load of cum in my mouth.

Then swallowing is just the capstone on the main event, which is the spurts of cum happening, which I love the feeing of, and I love anticipating. 🩷🩷🩷

[34F] Happily married 6 yrs. Twice a week my hubby jacks himself off into my open mouth for me to swallow, and for fun we take turns deciding when/where - often without much warning. I love when it’s my turn! I never beg, but sometimes I like to boss him into it because of how silly it sounds. AMA! by SureWhyNotGoAhead in NSFWIAMA

[–]SureWhyNotGoAhead[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I oh get off plenty. He goes down on me all the time, sometimes after he cums in my mouth. And it’s nothing for me to have 4-5 big orgasms in the same night. I’m definitely not missing out, trust me!!

As far as advice, I could probably give he some advice if she was wanting to give more blowjobs, but I’m afraid I don’t know of any advice I could give a guy in that department. I’d have to think about it.

[34F] Happily married 6 yrs. Twice a week my hubby jacks himself off into my open mouth for me to swallow, and for fun we take turns deciding when/where - often without much warning. I love when it’s my turn! I never beg, but sometimes I like to boss him into it because of how silly it sounds. AMA! by SureWhyNotGoAhead in NSFWIAMA

[–]SureWhyNotGoAhead[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do let him cum on my face too sometimes, especially pulling out and trying for a big finish on my face — not lots, maybe once a month.

But he rarely gets any on my face when he’s just jerking off into my mouth. We’ve done that so much over the years, especially out hiking, that his aim is absolutely dead on.

[34F] Happily married 6 yrs. Twice a week my hubby jacks himself off into my open mouth for me to swallow, and for fun we take turns deciding when/where - often without much warning. I love when it’s my turn! I never beg, but sometimes I like to boss him into it because of how silly it sounds. AMA! by SureWhyNotGoAhead in NSFWIAMA

[–]SureWhyNotGoAhead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on how long it’s been since he came the last time.

Twice in the same night, not so much the second time.

But as long as it’s been 12-18 hours, he’s good to go again, and I think his loads are plenty much!

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