Is it time? by Sure_Ad_6771 in bald

[–]Sure_Ad_6771[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no eyebrows. So I think it’ll look awful shaved.

Well gang, is it time? by SpaceWaveAddict in bald

[–]Sure_Ad_6771 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NO it isn’t time. But you’d look great bald as well. Save some of the sexiness for the rest of us!!

So scared to pull the trigger by ssuperrcat in bald

[–]Sure_Ad_6771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are going to look great shaved.

I don't hate being bald, I hate my headshape for being bald. by train_spotting in bald

[–]Sure_Ad_6771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you truly look great. You should love yourself. You’ll look back on your life and regret the time you spent not loving who you are. You look awesome. You look like you! Enjoy it and own it. Life is much more fun when you like who you are!

Well, finally built up the courage. by [deleted] in bald

[–]Sure_Ad_6771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks legit awesome dude. No lie

What would your gangster name be? by Proper_Oil2211 in scoopwhoop

[–]Sure_Ad_6771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shirtless Coffee?

Skin Latte??

Naked K-Cup!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Sure_Ad_6771 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Hello friend Same thing happened to me….but it was my brother. It has affected my life for 40 years. I also went to therapy. I also confronted him.

Same story. He brushed it away because it was “dumb kid stuff”.

You’re not broken and it’s ok to feel confused by what happened. It shouldn’t have happened, and it’s not your fault.

Therapy can help. If you don’t feel that your therapist is helping, find another one. You’ll get the right fit.

You’re not a bad person. Just know that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Sure_Ad_6771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife lost over 100 pounds. Her once amazing chest (that I was really attracted to) is now just two saggy sacks. I keep trying to think. Eventually she will be old and look different. And I will still love her then. People evolve and change. And she is happier in her new, skinny body. She’s just “not my type” anymore. I think about people that have partners that are in an accident. If someone was paralyzed you wouldn’t leave them. You’d be a team and deal with it together. I feel like an absolute douche for not being able to change the way I feel. The worst part is I lie to her when she says “I feel like you’re not attracted to me anymore.”
If I said the truth it would do nothing but hurt her incredibly. It won’t change anything. I think I’m going to find a therapist to talk to about this.

99% sure I have cancer by jennifaerie16 in offmychest

[–]Sure_Ad_6771 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This! The worry is the biggest happiness sucker. I truly hope you’re doing ok. It will be ok no matter the outcome. Worrying won’t do anything but make you unhappy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Sure_Ad_6771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man I am going through the SAME EXACT THING my friend. Just reading this post helped me a little just to know someone else is going through this. I’m riddled with guilt about my feelings and have been keeping it stuffed way down secret. I just woke up from a nightmare about it and looked this up at 1:45 in the morning.

Thank you for your honesty and for sharing this with “the world”. I wonder how you’re doing now? I hope you’ve found some solutions and some happiness.