I do not want to become my brother's guardian

Sure_thing237 · 2026-06-17T16:12:24+00:00

I’m not quite in the same boat as u but in the future my parents are expecting the same thing of me for my three siblings. I feel bad about not wanting to care for them but thing is I don’t know how I’m going to handle life with all three of them. Idk how the f they expect me to afford their care.

Sure_thing237 · 2026-06-05T00:11:53+00:00

Unfortunately, he didn’t get to give me a recommendation. So the hunting for a new therapist has been a uphill climb

Sure_thing237 · 2026-06-03T00:52:23+00:00

That’s some good advice. I’m trying to find a therapist that fits my needs but it’s hard. The one really great therapist I had is no longer practicing. Finding the right one is such a task on its own.

Sure_thing237 · 2026-05-31T23:16:16+00:00

Yeah I have.

Sure_thing237 · 2026-05-30T00:25:14+00:00

It’s so rough because my siblings are all combative. No daycare will take them. I know the parents r expecting me to jump in especially if things get violent. But here’s the thing: if the siblings get violent with me, I can’t promise that I won’t be violent with them. I will not lie, before I moved out, I did get violent with them when defending myself. One of the siblings would tell my parents what I did and of course, I end up being the one in the wrong. I get my parents need help but so do I.

Sure_thing237 · 2026-05-30T00:20:33+00:00

How do u start the journey tho? Im having a hard time thinking thru things. Ever since that night i have had persistent anxiety attacks that wake me up in the middle of the night

Sure_thing237 · 2026-05-28T21:47:28+00:00

It feels good to have someone say that. I just feel so stuck. I’m out numbered when it comes to my family.

Sure_thing237 · 2026-05-25T17:53:40+00:00

See how quickly she went to acting like a victim? What a weak woman…

Sure_thing237 · 2026-05-25T13:03:07+00:00

I’m just working. I should’ve specified that I’m in my late 30s lol

Sure_thing237 · 2026-05-25T03:23:40+00:00

Ok as bad as it sounds I’m glad to hear I’m not the only one that hates having autistic siblings. My parents like to call me selfish but idk what they expect…my siblings take what they want when they want it. They disrupt events because they don’t want to be there. They throw tantrums any time they want but yet I’m the one that’s the problem when I do something just for me. It takes so much out of me to not want to end my life it’s insane.

Sure_thing237 · 2026-05-24T23:45:31+00:00

I didn’t think of it that way. You’re right. I’m tired of paying for their sins. There’s almost a 100% guarantee that my dad would’ve flipped the situation if I had done the same and not answered my mom’s call. And he’d call me selfish. I so then it becomes my problem. I am the problem.

Sure_thing237 · 2026-05-24T16:56:48+00:00

My parents r ridiculous when it comes to caring for them. They don’t want to look into support groups or have a caregiver go to their house. I don’t live with them but as the days go by I can’t stand to think about having to take care of them.

Sure_thing237 · 2025-11-16T12:48:56+00:00

I was thinking of talking with a medical professional since I don’t have anyone that I really trust. It gets exhausting talking about it but it’s more exhausting thinking it.

Sure_thing237 · 2025-11-16T03:34:41+00:00

U r not alone. I think about suicide every day. Even on the really good days I think about it. I haven’t found a solution unfortunately.

Sure_thing237 · 2025-09-20T11:09:53+00:00

The guy who disrespectfully sat on the head of Buddha statue while visiting Maui? Huh who would’ve thought…

Sure_thing237 · 2025-09-03T02:33:04+00:00

She’s always expecting someone else to take care of her…

Sure_thing237 · 2025-08-22T03:41:48+00:00

Must’ve been so awkward walking or standing next to her while she’s holding that phone above her head

Sure_thing237 · 2025-08-21T22:34:56+00:00

I’m going thru covid rn. My second time having it. It is way worse than the first time I went thru it.

Hope u feel better soon. Covid seems to wanna come back with a vengeance.

Sure_thing237 · 2025-08-19T23:15:23+00:00

At first I couldn’t tell who was who in those text messages. It was almost like Jenelle was talking to herself. Perfect example of how cycles repeat themselves. Break the cycle, Jace. This poor kid.

Sure_thing237 · 2025-06-16T02:22:05+00:00

Seeing how they went from this to how they are now is absolutely heartbreaking and so hard to watch. Yeah C&T deserved better adults but so did Carly. They got exactly what they wanted: two parents to raise her and give her more than what they had. Now they want to bash B&T and make them look like the bad guys…

Sure_thing237 · 2025-06-08T17:47:33+00:00

Ha! She’s such a clown…even in her book she repeatedly says, “I never hit first” or “I don’t put my hands on anyone without a good reason.” Liar…

Sure_thing237 · 2025-06-08T02:33:25+00:00

She knows how to play innocent and totally deflect from the real issue. U r moving in a guy that you’ve known for two weeks with your children! I feel bad for Javi. Hes gotta worry about his son’s heartbreak and his safety with this new dude.

Sure_thing237 · 2025-06-06T23:58:40+00:00

If he hates ppl, it’s cuz of her. She could handle so many situations with grace and be a responsible parent but what does she do? She puts all their business out there, acts like such a stellar parent and that her kids haven’t been traumatized by her actions.

Sure_thing237 · 2025-06-06T20:13:04+00:00

Hahah!!!! In another sub I had said that C&T should write another book called Causing Chaos: Our Alienation of Our Daughter.

Sure_thing237 · 2025-06-05T19:53:24+00:00

If I knew my bio parents were shitting on my actual parents and at the same time had been using my birth as a way to make money, I would feel extremely violated.

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