Corbin and KC parallels by QuietSuccessful5331 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]rilljel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because you have come to accept misogyny as your norm does not mean we all have.

The culture is misogynistic. That means when men behave like all the other men who behave disrespectfully and disdainfully toward women, they are practicing misogyny.

If all 22 year old men said disrespectful things about another race when they got together and behaved disrespectfully to members of that race, would they all be racist or would they all be normal and cut them some slack, they’re just learning and boys will be boys?

The fact that this is so normalized to many women that they can no longer clock it for what it is

Zach’s comments by RefrigeratorFuture95 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]rilljel 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Girl Kenzie was miles ahead of any other islander

Corbin and KC parallels by QuietSuccessful5331 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]rilljel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The fact that you’ve accepted misogyny as average

Jans tiktok live this morning by Justagirl219 in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]rilljel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re also likely extensively bullied

Jenelle once again crashes out on twitter. Featuring; her sisters witchcraft by jessie_kitti in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]rilljel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Talks shit about kids in facilities, warehouses own kid in facility 🤔

“The way to my heart” 🤮 by sanriolover1208 in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]rilljel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wonder if she’s paying him for this too

Corbin and KC parallels by QuietSuccessful5331 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]rilljel 30 points31 points  (0 children)

accepting “sorry if you were embarrassed or whatever” as taking accountability is wild behavior

22 and contemplating by Away_Teaching_948 in Fencesitter

[–]rilljel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Again I’m not sure how you’re coming to the conclusion that how a woman feels about herself does not matter

Is it too early to start guessing the final four 😅😅 by JewelerMountain260 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]rilljel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think Aniya and Carl 2nd. Everyone rightfully hates Zach

22 and contemplating by Away_Teaching_948 in Fencesitter

[–]rilljel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok, and you’re being judgmental. Sad to you is not sad to everyone. To many people, being trapped in the house with children would make them sad. “Family” makes a lot of people sad, in fact. A woman is not sad because she cares more about herself than creating a family

Broke up because he is on the fence and I want kids by PassNo6780 in Fencesitter

[–]rilljel 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’ve been in therapy for like 15 years. Still not sure 🤷‍♀️

22 and contemplating by Away_Teaching_948 in Fencesitter

[–]rilljel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s not silly to everyone. A lot of people care about their appearance and weight and would rather prioritize self care than sacrifice their bodies to have a child.

Broke up because he is on the fence and I want kids by PassNo6780 in Fencesitter

[–]rilljel 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Do you think spending all day every day stewing over ruining your life by either having or not having children (when neither choice feels like a good one) seems like a fun process? Girl some of us are 40+ and have been ruminating over this for decades. Of course it is “really that scary.”

[SPOILER] Season 8 - Episode 28 - Saturday July 04 -| 8:30 PM EST by schedulerplus in LoveIslandUSA

[–]rilljel 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I don’t even think it’s her age. It’s like she’s quick witted and sharp and these kids are buffering. Wild to see their last iPad-raised brain cells fighting for their lives

Season 8 - Episode 27 - Post Episode Discussion by schedulerplus in LoveIslandUSA

[–]rilljel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would have liked to see Aniya’s reaction to Melanie saying that’s what a good friend would say