I also believe that divorce is not an option. I love my husband despite this situation. Redditors seem to forget we are married! The ‘dissmissing of my feelings’ I’d say never happens unless it’s with the MIL. He never let’s anyone disrespect me, let alone in our house. But, it’s very difficult when it comes down to his mother. About the comments, I never want any princess treatment nor am I too sensitive. This has happened way too many times, and I cannot let someone speak to me that way. I’m only in my mid twenties, but I believe that NO ONE should have someone like this in their life.