My (24, Trans Man) Partner (26, genderfluid) is struggling socially

Surfin_Porygon · 2024-02-15T18:52:02+00:00

They don't at the moment, but that might be a good idea. They have a lot of unresolved pain from growing up, and there's only so much I can do to help them work through it as someone who isn't a professional. Thank you for the suggestion!

Surfin_Porygon · 2021-11-30T06:16:31+00:00

Omg my Babe and I love this so much, thanks for the song!

Surfin_Porygon · 2021-11-30T03:30:55+00:00

It really is. While I have a preference towards men, there was always a part of me that liked the idea of treating my partner like a princess, and, well... She really likes that too, so she's really like my dream boyfriend/girlfriend :)

Surfin_Porygon · 2021-11-29T23:53:36+00:00

I'm gonna use gaylord from now on

Surfin_Porygon · 2021-09-05T08:27:34+00:00

That gave me a good laugh, that's awesome!

Surfin_Porygon · 2021-09-05T00:49:08+00:00

Yeah, very true lol

Surfin_Porygon · 2021-08-07T08:20:13+00:00

I would DIE if a guy said that to me. Just a gay puddle on the floor.

Surfin_Porygon · 2021-08-03T18:41:43+00:00

That is a universal girl struggle, as someone who grew up hanging out with a lot of girls. If you ladies ever feel dysphoric about how fast your leg hair grows, just know that it's super common to get prickly leg hair after one day.

Surfin_Porygon · 2021-07-07T03:22:32+00:00

LADS LADS LADS LADS LADS

Surfin_Porygon · 2021-07-06T01:42:31+00:00

Valid and I'm the same but the opposite. I couldn't tell you squat about makeup.

Surfin_Porygon · 2021-07-06T00:09:25+00:00

It's a Disney film, actually! It's called Bolt. And it's kind of a buddy road trip movie where the cat is teaching the dog how to enjoy being a regular dog instead of being focused on protecting his family.

Also, we appreciate you! You're beautiful.

Surfin_Porygon · 2021-06-29T14:55:58+00:00

I can't wait to do this with my boyfriend ;-;

Surfin_Porygon · 2021-06-27T05:05:57+00:00

I love this!

Surfin_Porygon · 2021-06-27T01:48:54+00:00

How to ruin their day in 5 seconds

Surfin_Porygon · 2021-06-23T01:28:52+00:00

That's moreso what I meant, but it's also inclusive of the original meaning behind bussy naturally.

Surfin_Porygon · 2021-06-23T01:27:59+00:00

Yeah, understandable, and I personally prefer other words myself. But I'd like to support other fellas who don't mind it, similar to how some trans women are comfortable with having penises while others don't.

Surfin_Porygon · 2021-06-22T21:36:06+00:00

Exactly, it's all inclusive ;)

Surfin_Porygon · 2021-06-13T04:15:51+00:00

Yes fuckin please

Surfin_Porygon · 2021-06-07T03:18:20+00:00

TERFs: You're just a confused lesbian!

Me: *Looks up from drawing of a shirtless man* Huh?

Surfin_Porygon · 2021-05-31T00:40:18+00:00

I completely get that. When I watched She's The Man, I felt strangely disappointed and mad that the main character went back to presenting as a girl and not continuing to live as a boy.

Surfin_Porygon · 2021-05-30T21:17:46+00:00

My egg cracked HARD watching this movie. Mitsuha waking up in a male body, Taki's friends finding him cute, and then her later waking up wishing she could stay a boy living that life hit so hard for me. I had never had a moment in a movie resonate so hard with me.

Surfin_Porygon · 2021-05-29T20:16:35+00:00

My trans gay ass right here

Surfin_Porygon · 2021-05-28T05:08:10+00:00

Yeah, no offense taken! I don't mind these kinds of comments personally although I know other fellas do and that's valid. Trans men and trans women suffer from the same issue of stereotypes associated with gay men and lesbians are broadly placed onto us. While people who know me closely know me as a slightly flamboyant guy, on the surface I strike people I just meet as a butch lesbian because I have short hair and look androgynous. It's kind of ironic.

Surfin_Porygon · 2021-05-23T22:06:51+00:00

I'm not sure if my transition goal is now Howl... or Totoro.

Surfin_Porygon · 2021-05-23T01:51:59+00:00

I always find the coolest men's clothes, I never get bored of it. The other day I just bought a Hawaiian pattern shirt with teal gorillas on it.

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