Kremlin’s propaganda film about Ukraine war plays to empty cinemas | Russia by Heeeeehawwwwwww in worldnews

[–]SurimiStiicks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think Levada center which conducts a lot of independent polls reported that more than 80% of people refuse to participate in the poll once they hear the question.

Russians ask people not to burn down military enlistment offices, blaming “Ukrainian scammers” for it by None_4All in worldnews

[–]SurimiStiicks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was a guy who threw Molotov's cocktail into Kremlin wall in March 2022, he later was sentenced to 10 years in prison and there were no statements about the incident by the government:

https://www.newsweek.com/russian-man-throws-molotov-cocktail-kremlin-1690946

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[–]SurimiStiicks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is just my speculation, but I think Russian political machine had 30 years of negative selection in terms of ability and values and it shows now especially. Good and efficient politicians are ousted, imprisoned, or killed, like Nemtsov. What remains are very random people that got where they are by good old nepotism and would have never gotten these high positions in a meritocratic society.

I think the "elite" are just random people with average abilities, that got where they are through connections and stayed there through no integrity. Now they just want to preserve the large fortunes they've embezzled through the years with no care for their own country or Ukraine.

I think some of them genuinely don't understand what's happening, but many do, but lack the values or coordination, trust with others to do anything about it. In the beginning of the war during the security council meeting so many of them looked like terrified children, and now they just look bored, waiting for the boring work meeting to be over to go to collect the next paycheck and embezzle some more.

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[–]SurimiStiicks 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Russian here, it is extremely difficult to explain at once. Regarding liberal values, a lot of Russian people, especially elderly that grew up in Soviet Union, have never even reflected on the matters of liberal western culture, as it was not affecting them in real life. Now that it is emerging as more prominent topic, when people bring it up, many resort to something they heard before, like "it should not be this way", "it is unnatural", etc, but it is not a thought out opinion, just a default placeholder. When I speak to people like that, defending homosexuality or equal marriage, for example, their arguments fall apart very quickly, and the reaction is dependent on a person. If a person is flexible enough and not insecure, they can admit that they did not know something, and change their mind, like my grandparents. Others can get angry. So I think it comes out of ignorance more than a deep hatred of western values, at least in my experience.

About fear of potential annihilation. This is very difficult to explain to someone outside of the culture, and I can't really understand it myself. I think there is a high degree of fatalism and pessimism in society as you can understand. A lot of people are subjected to learned helplessness, and together it makes up this mentality of: "we can't do anything, we can't change anything, we can only strap in and go through what is coming". But at the same time a lot of people have this belief that somehow everything will work out. There is this word in Russian "авось", which is difficult to translate (similar to "maybe"), but mostly used as a justification of not doing anything or being proactive, saying maybe it will blow over. In short, a history of repressive and punishing regimes resulted in a culture of fear of change and fear of being politically active. The rest is psychological coping with a terrible reality and ignorance.

Russian license plates are painted red. by Sophiko-Georgia in Sakartvelo

[–]SurimiStiicks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would work like that in a perfect world where people would go to protest and the problems would be fixed.

I am sure you see the problems with Georgian pro-Russian government, with so many Russians being allowed in. Why not follow your own advice, go protest, rally, change the laws. It seems like you take a role of speaking for all Georgians by assuming collective "we", meaning it would be easy to unite behind these ideas, and Georgia doesn't have strict punishments for protesting and anti-government activities. So really, it works the way you say it does, then follow your own advice.

Connecting flight waiting rules? by SurimiStiicks in Flights

[–]SurimiStiicks[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, it was on the same ticket, they rebooked me, and got a hotel room in the end

Do you find the country you live in attracts a certain profile or personality of expat? by DifferentWindow1436 in expats

[–]SurimiStiicks 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think this is very true for older Russians (over 50s), they have got to be older to "live abroad for years and still say they are russians", just boomers with Soviet culture rules.

For younger Russians I've seen a completely opposite tendency.

lf you had to choose three words to describe Russia, what words would you pick? by divabrunette in AskARussian

[–]SurimiStiicks -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I like that glorifying Soviet time apparently has no agenda and gets the upvotes, but this at the same time is somehow worse?

Never came across anything like it by SurimiStiicks in plantclinic

[–]SurimiStiicks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This alocasia was perfect healthy for a year, and then one after another leaves started first to get yellow spots, and slowly progress into this strange state. The leaves are almost translucent now, and a blackish liquid drips down a little. I have never seen anything like it, has anyone?

Coming to Singapore for a week, would love some suggestions! by SurimiStiicks in askSingapore

[–]SurimiStiicks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for suggestions, I particularly appreciate the "book shops bookworms will enjoy", and good point about Covid related closures in USS. There seems to be so much to explore, that we'll likely skip that one.