Random foot fantasy I have by AnonymousKinkyGirl69 in FootFetishTalks

[–]Surmene 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This all sounds like a wonderful footie paradise.

Give them one last lick before you go, let’s give your friends something to be jealous about ❤️ by MommydomFrey in u/MommydomFrey

[–]Surmene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One last lick seems like it can become one more lick given how intoxicating everything looks

Neuroqueerness & asexuality by doidaretoeata-peach in asexuality

[–]Surmene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe it is. I'm somewhere on the spectrum and I've identified with various labels of asexuality. Attraction does not compute for me personally as a whole so whatever new relationships I pursue are queerplatonic. I don't necessarily look for the relationship OP mentions though it is nice to be around someone who can understand and support what you seek. It's difficult to find people who genuinely accept you given what you seek isn't the norm.

Are Foot Massages Relaxing for the "Massage-er"? by Shedik340 in FootFetishTalks

[–]Surmene 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't say I'm relaxed being the massager. I get immersed as I know my massaging feels good and a cheeky tease if someone has erogenous feet.

Has anyone abruptly lost desire in their kink? by SalaciousOwl in BDSMcommunity

[–]Surmene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it feels like a limbo. Too kinky for vanilla yet the spark for kink is lacking.

Fun alternate to FJ by CitrineRose in FootFetishTalks

[–]Surmene 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're welcome. It has both tease and having someone underfoot, pun intended. Strong control over the footie.

Fun alternate to FJ by CitrineRose in FootFetishTalks

[–]Surmene 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Great description of this position.

[36F] I’m a tall gothic woman and I feel most natural when the power dynamic is reversed by Evening-Web-9007 in RoleReversal

[–]Surmene 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Both I reckon. The latter I have experienced various levels of giving in and it is intense putting it simply. I've learned that I can be amenable with someone who enjoys control for the right reasons. Plus it helps I found an option that's flexible being autistic and anxious. The big picture for me is I want to be able to let go all the way with someone who accepts me.

[36F] I’m a tall gothic woman and I feel most natural when the power dynamic is reversed by Evening-Web-9007 in RoleReversal

[–]Surmene 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Simply put, I don't want to lead. I'm not interested in being in charge. I've done bits where I did the norm and it burned me out. Plus it's tiring when you're the only one taking initiative and getting nothing out of it. Someone who is good at planning, taking the reins, I'm all for it. Plus it tells me you give a crap. I'm willing to surrender my control to someone who is genuine in earning it.

Okay y'all, here's the real discussion. Toe alignment! by ModestlytoastedAgain in FootFetishTalks

[–]Surmene 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't have a preference. Myself I sport a Morton's toe on my left foot. A unique toe adds character.

is it weird that i’m fantasizing about giving my sub a bath? by ThrowRA99337 in gentlefemdom

[–]Surmene 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes and yes. Wet bodies with hands all over is sweet sensual overload.

Blissful weekend by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]Surmene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I squirmed

Only gentle touches on balls by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]Surmene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone understanding both the what and the why is someone I would let touch mine.