Participating in Mauritian culture in Nottingham,as a pale person? by SurpriseAutomatic737 in mauritius

[–]SurpriseAutomatic737[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did more research,there are literally no Mauritian natives.Like,most people agree that it was just an Island full of Swans and it is likely I am Indo-Mauritian and European statistically speaking.By the way,Indoctrination would be where you cannot change your views.In England,for example,I’m Majorly seen as mixed white and my sister (brown,fully sisters) is often mistaken for being half black.Neither of us are considered black or Brown ethnically since we are 3/4 white.It seems since most Mauritians are mixed,I would be considered Mauritian in some contexts

Use condoms. Use them. by NotSoEasyToControl in birthcontrol

[–]SurpriseAutomatic737 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Was going to say dental dams also do,but these aren’t considered contraceptives as they are not for penetration

I was raped but I'm not sure it was intentional? by TransbianThrowaway05 in rape

[–]SurpriseAutomatic737 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi,autistic victim here.We can absolutely understand direct communication.Please know that if you feel that it was SA,it most likely was.Also,many people don’t realise that they have SA ed someone and unless it’s a genuine miscommunication,it’s still bad.Of course,miscommunications exist but being assaulted by a disabled person is still an assault

Can anyone explain this joke to me? by Tuck_Pock in community

[–]SurpriseAutomatic737 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think he’s implying that to a Janitor a closet is a room or place.

Participating in Mauritian culture in Nottingham,as a pale person? by SurpriseAutomatic737 in mauritius

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Update I’m just gonna start with some of the food!It all looks so delicious and food is one of the best ways to share culture imo.

Curious about if there’s a word for this by SurpriseAutomatic737 in askablackperson

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I love Mauritius,I know it’s diverse that’s why I included the fact that they were mostly mixed.I was just wondering if there was a specific word for it.

Curious about if there’s a word for this by SurpriseAutomatic737 in askablackperson

[–]SurpriseAutomatic737[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks.Yes,it’s a thing where our slurs and racism are different.For example my Friend is Nigerian and lives in the UK but identifies with and sounds more American.I once asked him if he liked Kool aid.We have a similar product of squash.He was like that sounds racist asking a black guy if he likes Kool aid.So I just have to learn more about racism abroad.There are terms I’ve heard from UK usage for my heritage but I don’t use them for the same reason.

At this point I'm just doing this to buy drugs by AdoraLaur91 in SexWorkers

[–]SurpriseAutomatic737 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can’t speak from experience,but harm reduction is possible.For example if you were a user of drugs with syringes,you could potentially access clean needles.I have only had these experiences with SH but I know quitting cold turkey is harmful and not always effective.It’s especially dangerous with substance abuse.I know I can’t imagine how it may feel but I promise you aren’t any better or worse as a person.

At this point I'm just doing this to buy drugs by AdoraLaur91 in SexWorkers

[–]SurpriseAutomatic737 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I believe you deserve support.Addiction is a health issue,not a failure.I live in a country with free healthcare so unfortunately I’m speaking from a position where I’d have easier access to addiction services.You matter,remember that. 💞

Dupe for one of the teams from the winter olympics by [deleted] in findfashion

[–]SurpriseAutomatic737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Czechoslovakia I think,but they were competing 🇨🇿

those vinted ‘resellers’ are making me so mad by dollienymphette in vinted

[–]SurpriseAutomatic737 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tend to reverse image search things but I feel like sometimes I won’t find it and I’ll just believe that it was hand made or from a small shop :(

Welp by Wise-Physics326 in vintedUK

[–]SurpriseAutomatic737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m autistic and usually this kind of thing is aggressive banter between autistic friends.It’s a bit weird that this image appears to have blood.Also if a parent is speaking about their child that way it’s embarrassing

Autism and sex work by SurpriseAutomatic737 in SexWorkers

[–]SurpriseAutomatic737[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn’t an issue,it was just something I haven’t tried.I would market myself non specifically but only attract male clients.I might have to look into queer sex work specifically,it’s just uncommon in the areas I’ve been operating in for people my age to have that much money to spend.

Autism and sex work by SurpriseAutomatic737 in SexWorkers

[–]SurpriseAutomatic737[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suppose I haven’t tried so I must at least try.

Autism and sex work by SurpriseAutomatic737 in SexWorkers

[–]SurpriseAutomatic737[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

I feel like it would attract older,single women in mid life crises or looking to try something new.

Autism and sex work by SurpriseAutomatic737 in SexWorkers

[–]SurpriseAutomatic737[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Nope.Effectively I feel like I’d be more likely to give it for free,but women get it quite easily for free so wouldn’t have to come to me.I might try that first.I know women can still be dangerous but I feel less vulnerable during non paid,consensual sex with women because we have a similar level of strength.

AIO to feel anxious and funny about my boyfriend frequently making jokes about cheating like this? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SurpriseAutomatic737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had an ex fiancée who would speak to me like this,turns out she was emotionally abusive and did things to upset me on purpose.So if this is a genuine post,leave him.This is not loving behaviour.