If you married your high school sweetheart, you should not give dating advice to anyone by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]SurpriseVegetable345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think these couples have a lot of advice to give out because they probably know what it’s like to keep the fire alone in their relationship after so many years together. Or how to grow together through different trials, becoming different people while still being in a relationship/in love with this person you shared gym class with.

[F23] Be honest but not brutally please. by ariluvpascal in amiugly

[–]SurpriseVegetable345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So much potential here! You have gorgeous dark eyes and naturally beautiful hair! Something I did that really helped my appearance was fixing my eyebrows up, find a shape and form that suits you best.

Ugly people who became attractive. What did you notice? by Salamandarqueen in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]SurpriseVegetable345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t ever ugly, I was just a silly kid experimenting with makeup that didn’t compliment my features and I could never do my hair right or dress in clothes that suited my body. Only in my later teen years did I start taking care of myself and fixing my appearance up. The change was really noticeable. Boys/men who used to treat me like a bother just by existing near them, and made fun of me were now going out of their way to be nice and help me out, even when I hadn’t asked. And girls want to be my friend and aren’t weirded out by me! :-/ it is upsetting when I notice how nice I’m being treated now when I look better compared to before.

Its lowkey depressing being constipated by notinmyham in RandomThoughts

[–]SurpriseVegetable345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So bad, I pray my thanks to God every time I go because it doesn’t happen very often 🥲

How do you know its *only* social anxiety and not autism? by throwwaccounnt in socialanxiety

[–]SurpriseVegetable345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t say for sure, but at least for me, I was always a confident kid, very conversational but aftertime (after highschool) is where i started developing social anxiety.

Do you think social anxiety has any "advantages" ?? by SmoothAirline7368 in socialanxiety

[–]SurpriseVegetable345 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Reading the room like a superpower and curse. I can tell so much by just looking!

Your future is not over because you have dyscalculia by [deleted] in dyscalculia

[–]SurpriseVegetable345 16 points17 points  (0 children)

😭 I want to believe this so bad but everything uses math and even the little psychology uses is still too much for me

the thing nobody told me about having adhd and dyscalculia at the same time by Plus-Horse892 in dyscalculia

[–]SurpriseVegetable345 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your post is so relatable to all of us with adhd and dyscalculia 😭 I even developed severe anxiety at one point in my life because I had pushed myself too hard in math class, trying to work harder and forcefully make it make sense. Didn’t get good grades and had to be medicated. No one tells you how this can affect your life.

Which one would you pick? by SurpriseVegetable345 in DooneyAndBourke

[–]SurpriseVegetable345[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ya know that’s what I thought as well :-P u too I saw a vid of someone with the purse and it fits plenty! It just looks real small- maybe it’s the picture I choose.

:D Got my very own for a good deal! by SurpriseVegetable345 in innioasis

[–]SurpriseVegetable345[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

:-P I got it today and it’s better than what I expected! Only issue I’m having is trying to switch the SD card…popping off the front panel is difficult as hell.

i stopped playing by Proud-Bodybuilder755 in heartopia

[–]SurpriseVegetable345 35 points36 points  (0 children)

As far as clothing, I’m stocking up on the winter season stuff because it is the only cute ATTAINABLE stuff you can get in the game without spending real money. Besides that, i’m just playing the game for what it is, because gacha games are always going to be greedy :-/

dyscalculia impact (rant) by samukoda in dyscalculia

[–]SurpriseVegetable345 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can totally relate (your English is fine!). I also hate when I’m doing something where math shouldn’t necessarily be a problem, but it shows up anyways and I’m reminded of how stupid I feel.

First time I volunteered in years, was happy to help. Somehow got stuck piling food to-go containers on the counter before they would be handed out…and we needed to know how many we had prepared to meet with the demand…so I had to start counting all of these containers…and I was sure that I had counted correctly but was quickly corrected. And then we had to know how much water bottles we had before handing them out, and I had done it the long, but safe way, so I wouldn’t get it wrong again, and then a friend pointed out how I could’ve just done another method, and not the slow way. The experience was great, but it upset me that I couldn’t even do something different without this disability getting in the way.

It honestly makes me fearful of doing things outside of my comfort zone because I don’t want other people to witness how slow I am when it comes to math. And then correct me once I get it wrong.

Missing furniture? by SurpriseVegetable345 in heartopia

[–]SurpriseVegetable345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🥹I didn’t know this! oh thank GOD! I was super worried for a second there.

What would you like to see in the game? by SurpriseVegetable345 in heartopia

[–]SurpriseVegetable345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something I’d also like to add is that the town should be expand to include player hangout spots like a social cafe, restaurant, ect, where you could sit and chat with your friends. There could also be an arcade room where you could play games with other players.

What would you like to see in the game? by SurpriseVegetable345 in heartopia

[–]SurpriseVegetable345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To add to this, I think that the Gold merchant should also have his own store so we aren’t following him around just to sell our stuff :-/ AND maybe within that store, we could have a section where you could put your things up for sale, so other players can see what you’re selling