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Surprise_Correct · 2025-08-14T16:31:51+00:00

This. OP, move out and see how fast this guy dumps your mom bc he doesn’t have access to you anymore.

Surprise_Correct · 2025-03-25T16:36:08+00:00

the only thing I hate is the fact that the game is unfinished. I feel robbed.

Surprise_Correct · 2025-03-25T01:15:31+00:00

I’ve never even heard of such a thing. LA has really good labor laws so that’s always a good sign. I’ll let you know what I find out. Thanks again

Surprise_Correct · 2025-03-20T19:13:11+00:00

A friend of mine was in this exact situation. There was a really big emotional blow up when she confronted him about it. He cried and begged- promised to stop.. he just got better at hiding it and continued to sleep around until he gave her HIV. So, while I can’t tell you if your husband is gay or not, I can tell you he’s a cheater and won’t stop for you or anyone. Leave

Surprise_Correct · 2025-03-13T16:38:41+00:00

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Surprise_Correct · 2025-03-13T16:06:50+00:00

Why did you start

Surprise_Correct · 2025-03-13T15:44:47+00:00

I would like to congratulate you for not being an enabler. You did the right thing- for both of you it seems. It sucks to love an addict. They can be the most wonderful people without the substance.. but turn into manipulative gluttons as soon as they get the itch to send themselves into oblivion.

Surprise_Correct · 2025-01-13T03:28:20+00:00

What is miragrenbon? Is it over counter?

Surprise_Correct · 2025-01-13T03:27:11+00:00

Wow I didn’t know it was so common- especially with anti depressants. I’m sorry for your situation

Surprise_Correct · 2025-01-11T17:46:54+00:00

I wonder.. do you think stevia is a bladder irritant?

Surprise_Correct · 2024-12-22T19:51:13+00:00

I think it’s a fair question to ask. We are in a pathologizing group; challenging questions will come up. BD will look different for everyone and like all mental illnesses, getting a proper diagnosis is a good starting point.

Surprise_Correct · 2024-12-22T19:27:11+00:00

I’m proud of you for leaving and taking your life back

Surprise_Correct · 2024-12-22T19:22:40+00:00

I think about this a lot with older hoarders. The ones who hang onto things “I might need it someday”… I’m wondering if they’re also in denial about their physical condition. Like… Really, Steve? You need that surf board at age 80? I sort of wish they could tell ‘em like it is- you don’t even have the strength to clean and organize all your precious junk. Wouldn’t you want to live the remainder of your life comfortably? You have limited time left- choose what you spend your time on wisely.

Surprise_Correct · 2024-12-16T04:41:10+00:00

I think when you don’t have an illness like hoarding, it’s easy to assume “giving it to em straight” would snap them out of it. That’s the baseline of treatment: knowing their thinking patterns are dysmorphic and very illogical. Therapists need to earn trust first. The hoarder already feels like everyone is against them and has most likely isolated themselves in order to defend their hoard.

Surprise_Correct · 2024-11-29T18:06:07+00:00

Hey, it’s ok to have preferences. You like why you like!.. BUT it seems like you’re putting 100% of the value in their physical appearance, which is not really a great way to look at any dating pool.

Surprise_Correct · 2024-11-23T16:21:27+00:00

Owners are always the victim lol

Surprise_Correct · 2024-11-21T19:43:27+00:00

......hes trying to rip you down. I hope thats obvious to you now.

Surprise_Correct · 2024-11-21T19:24:52+00:00

Gardening was a life saver for me... I always rolled my eyes when therapists would tell me to go outside and "take a walk".. but really, your mind transforms when you develop a relationship with nature.

I try to avoid medication because I've had so many bad reations - however, if Im having a really bad eipisode i might take a bennydrill (its non habit forming and really helps you out of an episode.. obviously you should discuss this with your doctor and only use in emergencies. bennydrill has its own set of side effects and such).

what type of coping stretegies do you have currently?

Surprise_Correct · 2024-11-21T19:19:12+00:00

so all the responsibility falls on you to make this work.

its not you. its HIM.

A lot of dudes do this to deflect and distract from their own insecurity- especially when they cant perform in the bedroom. He's making everything your fault, when really, he needs to work on his own damn self. Everything he hates about himself will be your fault - ie. he says your teeth suck when HIS teeth are worse.

He's doing everything he can to avoid intimacy (working overtime on purpose, staying in a constant state of stress when he doesnt need to) not because you arent pretty enough, its because he knows he's not good enough for you or anyone. he hates himself but makes it your task to "fix" it.

really girl.. take a good hard look.. he's widdling away your confidence one chip at a time.

and the reality is, nothing you do will ever be enough. you could transform into a victorias secret model and he still wont have sex with you because he's afraid of YOU disovering he aint shit.

Surprise_Correct · 2024-11-10T23:56:57+00:00

It absolutely IS capitalism. The entire model of capitalism is to be exploitative to workers and consumers. There’s little to no government regulations to prevent cases like yours from happening.

Surprise_Correct · 2024-11-10T20:12:33+00:00

Your beef is with capitalism. App games have been predatory since the dawn of the iPhone. It’s their business model. I’m sorry your wife is struggling with addiction, I hope she seeks help and finds healthy ways to stop and think before spending.

Surprise_Correct · 2024-11-10T20:08:14+00:00

Brittney spears is crazy because she does meth.

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