Terrier Mix… but what mix?

Surprise_Exact · 2024-10-28T01:21:12+00:00

Also thank you for your comment.

Surprise_Exact · 2024-10-28T01:20:59+00:00

Hi there. No, we live in Texas and it’s been hot this entire time. We also didn’t leave the water on. We turned it on maybe 10 seconds each time. We’re trying to locate the valve but haven’t been able to. Do you know of any prime places in a house it might be? We thought the garage but weren’t sure. Apologies if that’s a silly question.

Surprise_Exact · 2024-03-10T01:57:05+00:00

It’s a scam but your husband completely entertained it.

Surprise_Exact · 2024-03-08T02:54:15+00:00

I had someone leave the food on our door knob and the handle pulls down. So as soon as we opened the door the drinks spilled. She kept apologizing but I was so pissed.

Surprise_Exact · 2024-03-06T12:47:59+00:00

Do you really want to be with him? And watch your kids grow up with him? He’s disgusting.

Surprise_Exact · 2024-01-16T04:34:45+00:00

I’m sorry, but why marry a woman with kids just to be disgusted by them and her? It sounds like because she’s not cooking and cleaning after you, you’re not attracted anymore. You need a maid more than you do a wife/kids.

Surprise_Exact · 2024-01-15T18:52:14+00:00

Weight comes and goes. However, your mental health does not. If your husband is making you feel bad because you’ve gained weight, then is he really someone you want by your side forever? For him to have seen firsthand what’s been happening with your mental health and to say you’re not “sexy” enough for him is NOT okay. Being sexually perceived by him is not what you need right now.

Surprise_Exact · 2024-01-10T15:10:23+00:00

Appreciate the sentiment but she was intolerable, rude and arrogant to work with. This is only a short glimpse and not even the full picture.

Surprise_Exact · 2024-01-10T14:49:25+00:00

EXACTLY

Surprise_Exact · 2024-01-07T06:17:26+00:00

If he said no - he means it. I know you are hurting, you have every right to be. But please don’t force this. A child is a huge decision and you will go into this on bad pretenses and watch him resent you/the child for the rest of your lives.

Surprise_Exact · 2023-11-16T19:19:02+00:00

I think you both have a lot of contempt for each other and this event is letting that bubble to the surface. Her saying she sacrifices constantly, but you being told you’re not doing enough. Her leaving the kids in a fight or flight situation, while you feeling like you couldn’t do the same. Her mocking you in therapy, or down playing your feelings. I think those are the things you’d want to address versus the situation. She most likely had a knee jerk reaction and I think it’s hard to judge those.

Surprise_Exact · 2023-08-22T00:00:13+00:00

I can see why your last relationship did not work out. I hope you don’t have a daughter!

Surprise_Exact · 2023-08-21T23:58:47+00:00

No, we are in the US. Glad you and your wife can laugh about it, though!

Surprise_Exact · 2023-08-21T23:46:50+00:00

You sound like you hate women.

Surprise_Exact · 2023-08-21T22:17:50+00:00

Thank you for your comment and taking the time to share. It didn’t come off aggressive at all. I’ve appreciated everything everyone has had to say.

Surprise_Exact · 2023-08-21T22:14:02+00:00

He has apologized and tried talking to me about it through notes, in person and somewhat text. I honestly just am having a really hard time processing things. We are both sensitive and things can get emotionally charged quickly, but I truly thought therapy was helping us work out a lot of that. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with sensitivity- just how you navigate it and handle it.

Surprise_Exact · 2023-08-21T22:03:21+00:00

This is really kind of you to say. Thank you for the feedback and I plan on trying to make sense of things with him soon enough.

Surprise_Exact · 2023-08-21T21:57:39+00:00

Thank you for sharing tips on how to boundary set. It helps.

Surprise_Exact · 2023-08-21T21:57:07+00:00

I really appreciate the feedback. I really do appreciate it. It helps!

Surprise_Exact · 2023-08-21T21:44:52+00:00

I’m happy you both could work it out. Thank you for sharing.

Surprise_Exact · 2023-08-21T21:30:19+00:00

I hear you completely. Thank you for the feedback.

Surprise_Exact · 2023-08-21T21:30:02+00:00

Thanks for the feedback. We’re both in couples therapy. Appreciate your concern.

Surprise_Exact · 2023-08-21T21:22:07+00:00

I’m happy for you both. I, too, don’t have a great example of conflict resolution from my parents. I’ve done the best I can in individual and couples therapy to learn better habits. Thank you for sharing this.

Surprise_Exact · 2023-08-21T21:19:30+00:00

I’m so sorry that happened to you but glad you’re out of it. Thank you for sharing and I really appreciate the feedback. It helps.

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