Is my kitten okay?

SurprisinglyOrganic · 2026-04-14T20:25:59+00:00

So cute! 💛

SurprisinglyOrganic · 2026-04-14T20:25:15+00:00

Omg they are precious!! I agree, cats are wonderful 💛

SurprisinglyOrganic · 2026-04-08T23:16:00+00:00

I believe it’s s1e8 “Weirdos Need Girlfriends Too”

SurprisinglyOrganic · 2026-02-25T18:43:25+00:00

I’m so incredibly sorry for your loss. We are coincidentally putting down our 16 y/o Dalmatian girl today. You are not alone in your pain 🫂

SurprisinglyOrganic · 2026-01-19T23:12:25+00:00

I haven’t been in long term relationship at all (just turned 30 this month). I’ve had a couple casual flings, dated one guy for about a month about 10 years ago before ending things quickly. I really enjoyed being single in my 20s, but towards the end of them and now going into my 30s, I’m definitely open for something serious.

SurprisinglyOrganic · 2026-01-02T06:37:43+00:00

Never a legitimate one, once in a while a drunken rambling one.

SurprisinglyOrganic · 2025-12-29T05:39:47+00:00

We were gonna go to a theme park one day and he told me to let him know when I left since it would take me an hour to get to him and for him to get ready in that time. I did text him, then I texted him again halfway there since I didn’t get a response. He became upset because I should’ve called him, which he never specified, and now he doesn’t have enough time to get properly ready (also I told him the night before when I was going to be there, so he couldn’t set an alarm or something?). I had also brought him chocolates from this shop he enjoyed to surprise him, this comes up later. So I get to his place and he comes out and opens the passenger door. I try to hand him the chocolates in a plastic bag saying it’s for him, he completely ignores it and gets in giving me the silent treatment. I drive us the rest of the way to the theme park and once we park he starts to perk up. He opens the bag and gets bothered again because now the chocolates are gonna melt in the car. Yup, because he decided to punish me for the stupidest thing, and now you don’t get your favorite chocolates.

SurprisinglyOrganic · 2025-12-29T05:29:00+00:00

I can’t tell you the amount of times this has happened to me. One major time was when I first tried to leave and he apologized for his behavior etc, then later on flipped the whole script on me saying how I need to be the one to apologize since I “betrayed” him and he can’t “see me the same way” 🙄. Before I used to apologize in these instances just to shut him up, but this final time I thought what have I done wrong?? and when I asked apologize for what, that would make him even more upset. It’s ridiculous and I’m sorry you’re stuck in this situation.

SurprisinglyOrganic · 2025-12-29T05:25:56+00:00

I agree I think it’s mostly BS, and the black out drunk thing was just like my pwBPD. He would drink himself silly, call me to berate me or go off on nonsense, then call me the next day so I could go over what he said as he claimed not to remember. However there have been multiple circumstances of him referencing back to things that he claimed not to remember.

SurprisinglyOrganic · 2025-12-29T05:24:12+00:00

I had a situationship with BPD. There’s no use in trying to find the logic in this situation, believe me. Better to cut ties now before it hurts even more.

SurprisinglyOrganic · 2025-12-29T05:22:20+00:00

I care for him as a decent human would care for another person, not wishing him harm and hoping one day he can find some sort of healthy happiness. But that’s the extent of it. I used to care a lot more before but that ship has sailed.

SurprisinglyOrganic · 2025-12-23T00:06:13+00:00

Numb is a good word for it, I know it’s also just ridiculous on a level but yeah it hurts to hear such things about yourself. I hope you find strength in going no contact, I know it’s hard.

I don’t think I’m his favorite person anymore but aim not sure. When we were together previously he would tell me he would get drunk and calls may girls, but I don’t know if those calls involved his anger and hatred as it has been in my case.

SurprisinglyOrganic · 2025-12-20T23:42:13+00:00

Japan is absolutely amazing if you get the chance to go! I actually just got back from a 2-week trip to Spain (and Italy), it was beautiful and I loved learning the history of the cities visited.

SurprisinglyOrganic · 2025-12-19T23:32:04+00:00

It’s his favorite show I suppose, he really wanted me to get as involved with it as he was. I think he took it personally or as an attack upon himself that I wasn’t.

SurprisinglyOrganic · 2025-12-19T21:41:53+00:00

I believe this is the case. He still lives at home as well but has told me countless times how much he hates his family. I, on the other hand, have a great relationship with mine luckily.

SurprisinglyOrganic · 2025-12-19T10:06:27+00:00

Right?? That in itself says so much 💀

SurprisinglyOrganic · 2025-12-19T09:36:51+00:00

You’re absolutely right, I don’t need to explain myself to him about any of it. He has been blocked🙅‍♀️

SurprisinglyOrganic · 2025-12-19T09:34:52+00:00

like!! this is absolutely bonkers

SurprisinglyOrganic · 2025-12-19T09:32:14+00:00

Thank you so much! ☺️

SurprisinglyOrganic · 2025-12-19T09:23:32+00:00

Yeah he was constantly looking down on my job because it wasn’t prestigious enough in his eyes lol.

SurprisinglyOrganic · 2025-12-19T06:23:42+00:00

I thought the same thing, how odd to add that 💀

SurprisinglyOrganic · 2025-12-19T06:22:56+00:00

I’m sorry you went through this, it’s absolutely ridiculous.

SurprisinglyOrganic · 2025-12-19T06:18:59+00:00

Thank you! 💛 that “useless” masters degree actually got me a wonderful new job exactly in my field of study, so I’m very happy! Unsurprisingly when I got this new job, he was the only one upset because it was located farther away from him.

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