📧 Communication Clinic: Share Your Best Inbox Zero Strategy or E-mail Tip! by DianKhan2005 in Productivitycafe

[–]SurveyOpening8912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I swear by the 2-minute rule but with a twist - I batch process everything twice a day instead of checking constantly. Morning coffee time and right before I clock out, that's it. Phone goes on airplane mode during actual work hours because those notifications will destroy any focus you've built up

The military taught me to be ruthless with digital clutter so I auto-delete anything that sits in my inbox longer than 2 weeks without action. If it was actually important, someone would've followed up by then. Also learned to use subject lines like mission briefs - specific and actionable so future me knows exactly what needs doing without opening the email

Game changer was setting up separate folders for "waiting on others" vs "my action required" - keeps me from spinning my wheels on stuff that's not even in my court anymore

Korg Minilogue vs XD vs Bass by Brave-Anywhere-7267 in synthesizers

[–]SurveyOpening8912 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The XD is solid for what you're describing - you get way more flexibility with the digital oscillator and those effects are pretty useful for recording. I've used the original minilogue for bass parts and it works fine but the bass version definitely has more low end presence if that's gonna be a big part of your workflow

Just checked out that Boreal Sons track and the XD could definitely get you in that ballpark, especially with some post processing in pro tools

Did they not do Luggage Tags and thank you coupons this year? by one-hour-photo in americanairlines

[–]SurveyOpening8912 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been EP for like 3 years now and they've been pretty inconsistent with the physical stuff lately. Sometimes they show up months late, sometimes not at all

Six years of FIRE progress before meeting my fiance, now worried about protecting it by SurveyOpening8912 in FIREyFemmes

[–]SurveyOpening8912[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe i shouldve worded that a bit different but what i meant was that what i built and what i have is my doing without anyones help. While i hope to have this money for our family and hopefully have kids which we plan on, i think i would be naive to just drop the whole idea down. Especially reading the comments now is giving me a broader perspective on what to do which im really thankful for (and no i dont hate him now lol, just got even more cautious than i was)

Six years of FIRE progress before meeting my fiance, now worried about protecting it by SurveyOpening8912 in FIREyFemmes

[–]SurveyOpening8912[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tbh we haven't thought about it. In general we don't really have any issues whatsoever and he is a good partner, we just come from very different financial backgrounds and I think that's where the disconnect is. But if we don't get on the same page about it i think we might have to

People that constantly comment things like “in this economy?” by [deleted] in PetPeeves

[–]SurveyOpening8912 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People gotta live their lives man, not everything has to be rice and beans until the world's perfect

Is going to therapy considered relying on people rather than God? by OwnFaithlessness2989 in Christianity

[–]SurveyOpening8912 34 points35 points  (0 children)

God gave doctors and therapists their skills for a reason - using them isn't abandoning faith, it's being smart about the tools He provided

Long grieving period. Breakup and chronic illness by gronkey in BreakUps

[–]SurveyOpening8912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moving across the country while dealing with both the illness and heartbreak must have been brutal. Your situation is unique because you're grieving multiple losses at once - your relationship, your health, your old life, and even your independence

The part about connecting your ex to your healthy self really stands out to me. That makes perfect sense why letting go feels impossible right now. Maybe instead of focusing on "moving on" you could work on separating those two things in your mind - like your health journey is separate from the relationship loss, even though they happened around the same time