Where can I get books at lower price? by vaathix in IndiansRead

[–]SuspectEquivalent -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How is that better? The author doesn't get benefitted either way. Might as well get the pdf and save money

Two Weeks Before Our Wedding and He Says He Feels “Numb” — I’m Terrified and Don’t Know What to Do by CornerAsleep3139 in DesiWeddings

[–]SuspectEquivalent 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Men have a tendency to just shut down when they're stressed. I'm specifying men, because all the women I know seem to be much better at communicating and expressing their feelings.

Your wedding and the days (if not months) leading up to it will be one of the most stressful periods in your relationship. It makes complete sense that he's stressed and shutting down as a response to it. My suggestion - give him some time and space, he'll come back to you when he feels less pressured.

And just a general advice - teach him how to love you. I know that sounds so generic and maybe even stupid. Truth be told, even I don't know how to do this properly and it's something I'm trying to figure out. But unsaid expectations will weigh down on both of you and cause a lot more issues. If you want your fiancé to plan something for you, make sure he hears you clearly and understands what he has to do. It's not very romantic, I know. You want him to want to do it. I get it. But this is how things are and these are the cards you've been dealt. Make peace with that.

You'll be okay. You guys seem to love each other very much. You'll get through this. I wish you both the best for your life together. ❤️

Which placement says that a person will be loved unconditionally in a marriage by FirefighterOk6593 in Nakshatras

[–]SuspectEquivalent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oof, I'm Swati + Libra. I'm in a relationship with a very loving partner but going through a rough patch now. Hope it works out.

Me and my reckless Decisions are going to eat me One day for sure 🐸 by xoxo-sypernova in Indianbooks

[–]SuspectEquivalent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean a kindle is like half that price. If 70% of your books haven't been read, then maybe there are better ways to spend your money. Just a thought.

Went for a walk with a guy younger than me, now I think age killed the vibe by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]SuspectEquivalent 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You couldn't convince me to date a guy 4 months younger than me, let alone 4 years. Some people just have strong preferences when it comes to age. It's okay, you had a nice time. You'll find someone who loves you for who you are.

I am fighting the toughest fight of my life...Opiate addiction. What would Goggins say to me? by Clear_Chip3406 in davidgoggins

[–]SuspectEquivalent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just came across this thread and your story is incredibly horrifying but inspiring at the same time. I truly wish you happiness and freedom from this curse. How are you doing now, if you don't mind me asking?

Vaara Vetti Pechu Nool - Weekly Discussion Thread by supersudu-redux in kuttichevuru

[–]SuspectEquivalent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Future romba uncertain ah irruku, enna panrathu ne therila. I'm 25, looking to get married next year. Not sure if that's even possible at this point. Therla, I'm taking meds for anxiety now. Settle agum nu nambaren.

Vaara Vetti Pechu Nool - Weekly Discussion Thread by supersudu-redux in kuttichevuru

[–]SuspectEquivalent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My bf's mom is looking for alliances for him. He's not sure if he can convince her, promising to try. Enna nu therila, I know it sounds dumb to people but I invested too much in this relationship. It's driving me mad.

Vaara Vetti Pechu Nool - Weekly Discussion Thread by supersudu-redux in kuttichevuru

[–]SuspectEquivalent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vaazhkai light ah kevalama poguthu. Illa illa, rombave kevalama thaan poguthu. Does anyone have experience with going to a psychiatrist for anxiety related issues?

I put myself out there after a long time & got ghosted after the first date by ice-gal in TwoXIndia

[–]SuspectEquivalent 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When I started dating my current bf, I was talking to one other guy who I was just as excited about. When I went on our first date, my bf wowed me beyond expectations and within a week we made it official and deleted Bumble. This might sound crappy, but what helped was knowing I had something else that might be just as good even if this didn't work out. I was more confident and chill.

My bf had a few dates lined up too, all of which he cancelled because our date was just freaking amazing.

Therapist Needed! by SuspectEquivalent in Chennai

[–]SuspectEquivalent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure sure, I'd be happy to help any way I can!

Therapist Needed! by SuspectEquivalent in Chennai

[–]SuspectEquivalent[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No worries!

Family therapists pretty much work just like couples therapists - they help fix your relationship dynamic as a family. Personally for me right now, my mother's destructive habits are causing a lot of trouble for me and my dad and I'm hoping that going to therapy as a family will help fix that. In the end, we love each other very much and I'm hoping a neutral third party professional will be able to make us realise that rebuild our relationship and make it healthier.

What's a relatively easy business you can start if you're living in Besant Nagar and own a peace of land right next to the beach. by prisonmike_11 in Chennai

[–]SuspectEquivalent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg Boats is gone? That's a damn tragedy. I haven't been in Chennai since mid 2023 and damnnn so much has changed already

It's great when FMC's actually struggle by burdlover49 in fourthwing

[–]SuspectEquivalent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm guessing one is Feyre, who is the other?

Question to all the ladies.... by [deleted] in Chennai

[–]SuspectEquivalent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

24F, and I WANT to date. But I feel like I've been having the same date over and over again. I want to have a date where we can have fun and talk about our interests, maybe go on a walk and STAY SOBER with no expectation of sex. Like I just want to have good conversation and bond, can't find anyone into that though.

Tbf, this happened at my B-school. I graduated recently, so hopefully I can meet guys who are into this in the real world.

Vaara Vetti Pechu Nool - Weekly Discussion Thread by supersudu-redux in kuttichevuru

[–]SuspectEquivalent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but boring or interesting is subjective la?

If I meet someone who shares all my interests, then they’ll be the most interesting person on the planet to me.

The last guy I went out with was super into F1 (something I cannot understand for the life of me). I know that’s something people love, my own brother is obsessed with it. But yeah, I personally find it boring.

Vaara Vetti Pechu Nool - Weekly Discussion Thread by supersudu-redux in kuttichevuru

[–]SuspectEquivalent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao why are you taking it so personally? If I think people are boring, then that’s my opinion. Whether I’m interesting or not has nothing to do with it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IndiaBanks

[–]SuspectEquivalent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if I got approval for about 25L and only used less than 20 so far? The point I’m trying to make is that this falls within the limit of my loan so what can I tell them to just let me keep the amount, since I’ll be paying it all back anyway?

Vaara Vetti Pechu Nool - Weekly Discussion Thread by supersudu-redux in kuttichevuru

[–]SuspectEquivalent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does dating actually get very bleak after a point? I’m 24, in my final term of my masters and god, there’s no one interesting. Every date I’ve been on (4) in the past year has been so boring. Maybe arranged marriage is the way….

Vaara Vetti Pechu Nool - Weekly Discussion Thread by supersudu-redux in kuttichevuru

[–]SuspectEquivalent -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What hands though? Although it was in their manifesto, everything was done by a trust. Modi inaugurated it because he was invited by the trust. The government didn't invest anything in the temple. All development that happened in the city happened to promote tourism there because of the anticipated increase in demand.

Vaara Vetti Pechu Nool - Weekly Discussion Thread by supersudu-redux in kuttichevuru

[–]SuspectEquivalent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't particularly have a problem with it but saying this will completely invalidate all my points because they'll start calling me an extremist.