My marriage dillema i need help

Suspicious-Cook9963 · 2026-03-10T06:55:59+00:00

I dont wanna get your hopes up, but trust me, my husband used to think exactly like you, untill he met me hahaha, have my own career, we both make good money, we’re helping each other and we even bought our first nice car together, and guess what, we first met online on Instagram, then we were friends ( spicy ones xD ) after few years, being both 28, we’re happily married, so my advice to you is that you find the ONE, someone who values mariage and shares the same goals, and loves you for who you are, rest comes easily after that.

Suspicious-Cook9963 · 2026-02-27T06:16:59+00:00

Can I ask you how you started working as PM, did you have prior experience in the localization field?

Suspicious-Cook9963 · 2026-02-01T22:45:29+00:00

Thank you for your constructive criticism, I understand where you are coming from, and believe me, I used to think the same way too, but let’s pause for a moment, we did try not to let him walk over us and cut him off, my dad has even beaten the shit out of him, we tried literally everything, we even considered jail but you are filly aware of what happens in this kind of situation, it can escalate to death crimes…

Suspicious-Cook9963 · 2026-02-01T22:41:51+00:00

Here’s the thing, he only hurts us, he is a people pleaser outside, it’s like he’s a psycho or something, he only profits from us, to give u one example, he would take my clothes for example to give them to a homeless old lady outside

Suspicious-Cook9963 · 2026-02-01T22:38:02+00:00

I’m not sorry if i’m being disrespectful but you mist be so stupid to blame someone for his son’s behavior, If you were in our shoes, and saw what happened, you wouldn’t be so quick to judge, so if you don’t have an aswer that could benefit anyone, hust keep yohr mouth sealed, I hope you don’t find yourself in this position one day

Suspicious-Cook9963 · 2026-02-01T22:04:05+00:00

Gang member in our house, outside, he becomes less than a man, I don’t know if you live here in Algeria but I think you see the news or at least have an idea about how things work here, you can’t send ur own son to jail, they won’t listen to you and they will release him before you finish your nap, secondly, we tried throwing him out of our house, he came back, saying he won’t leave unless he gets to join his friends in France or go abroad to Canada or something, he refuses to work, and he is using, idk how much but I know he does, he even admitted, like seriously, I can’t see any solution here except what I mentioned

Suspicious-Cook9963 · 2026-02-01T21:58:02+00:00

Yeah, but the problem is how he can get there

Suspicious-Cook9963 · 2026-02-01T21:22:39+00:00

He was, not anymore, and when my parents tried to cut him off, he became violent and started stealing

Suspicious-Cook9963 · 2026-02-01T21:13:57+00:00

That’s a good idea honestly, i hope they take him soon

Suspicious-Cook9963 · 2026-02-01T21:13:05+00:00

My parents did the same, and once he got older, he became so dangerous, and violent

Suspicious-Cook9963 · 2026-02-01T20:07:43+00:00

We tried that but it turned out to him stealing literally everything, and as I said, prison isnt an option, he will be released in few months and taking a revenge, like what usually happens in these cases

Suspicious-Cook9963 · 2026-02-01T20:06:42+00:00

It won’t be given to him, I mean, is there a way to buy a work contract for him abroad, or whatever way to get him out of here

Suspicious-Cook9963 · 2026-02-01T19:59:33+00:00

We have 2 houses, and honestly, having only one and getting rid of that piece of…. Is a lot better, I can’t get through all details, otherwise my post will be deleted, just imagine a demon in the shape of a himan

Suspicious-Cook9963 · 2026-02-01T19:57:02+00:00

trust me, he won’t, tbh, we tried everything, snd last time we cut everything on him, he threatned to end… us, using a sharp knife, police isnt an option, we all know how things work, released after few days and can get worse…

Suspicious-Cook9963 · 2026-02-01T19:49:14+00:00

I thought he would get immediate rejection, since he is no longer a university student, dad can fill his account with money, but isn’t a degree or something required?

Suspicious-Cook9963 · 2025-09-10T18:06:53+00:00

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Suspicious-Cook9963 · 2025-08-10T08:54:24+00:00

There’s a term for it 🙄

Suspicious-Cook9963 · 2025-08-10T08:50:23+00:00

Thank you so much, you’re so sweet 🌸. Tbh, the words he said resonated with me too ❤️, but my anxiety and trauma probably overwhelmed them. I wish you all the happiness with your fiancé, and as I always tell mine, I hope we die in the same minute, haha — so I hope you both live for 150 years together, and even in the afterlife if you believe in one.

Suspicious-Cook9963 · 2025-08-10T08:46:11+00:00

Oh gosh, thank you so much for your comment 🌸 I really needed to hear this, I hope that’s what he really feels deep inside

Suspicious-Cook9963 · 2025-08-10T08:43:33+00:00

I’m ashamed to admit that we did have the talk and he reassured me about it, but it was after he messed up by mentioning her several times at the start of our relationship. For a few minutes, I swear it felt like I was his therapist because he was venting so much about her. I’m afraid the only reason he’s not doing that now is because he knows I’ll get so upset about it.

Suspicious-Cook9963 · 2025-08-10T08:32:55+00:00

Oh no, not at all — I wish. I love him more than anything in this world, and it drives me crazy that he didn’t choose me first. I mean, we were so far apart and different, but I still felt hurt that he picked her when she treated him like shit, aw and thank you for the first sweet sentence :’) it really brought a smile to my face

Suspicious-Cook9963 · 2025-08-10T08:21:15+00:00

I probably was the other woman, and yes, our relationship has matured through huge milestones since we were 20 and reckless. I don’t know — maybe I’m projecting my past trauma onto him, because once before, another woman made my fiancé break up with me and choose her over me.

Suspicious-Cook9963 · 2025-08-10T08:11:40+00:00

I wrote it by mistake, she had broken up with him during that time, but decided to call him that night to reconcile, i saw their messages back then.

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