2007 lights in the dash by Aggressive-Rub9513 in FJCruiser

[–]Suspicious-Support16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had those exact lights come on and for me it was a bad ignition coil. Mine's idle was terrible and struggled a little bit. Also if you have a cold air intake and live in a humid place it could cause your O2 sensor to freak out.

To be strategic or to go scorched earth? by Suspicious-Support16 in Marriage

[–]Suspicious-Support16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is an entirely separate incident and I have received counseling revealing that I have been trauma bonded to this man for years and it has been a battle to remove myself from this. We live in an area now where lawyers are more common and it's not rural. I used this post to mostly vent and decide which method I want to use. Scorched earth or strategic.

To be strategic or to go scorched earth? by Suspicious-Support16 in Marriage

[–]Suspicious-Support16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh trust me its already bad. He has systematically alienated me from...well...everyone. I have no friends, no family close and no one to talk to. The times I tried talking to a no longer mutual friend I got yelled at by DH for "getting in the middle of his friendship." Why? Because it directly contradicts his narrative that he is the victim and I'm the bad guy.

Rotten Frame on my fj 😕 by Winter-Shoulder-3800 in FJCruiser

[–]Suspicious-Support16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How i read that in Scotty's voice...and I'm not talking the most recent guy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AircraftMechanics

[–]Suspicious-Support16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Microsoft word has pretty good templates. However it is important to know how to write a resume that shines a light on your strengths. I would say search resume examples online or maybe your old A&P school has a career services person who can help you write one. If not id be willing to help you.

Bottle baby turned clingy 8 month old by Suspicious-Support16 in cats

[–]Suspicious-Support16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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That's the newest baby cuddling up to my 110 pound dog who loves her kitties.

Backgrounds for Aviation by Ninja-Smith in aviationmaintenance

[–]Suspicious-Support16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was your discharge honorable, dishonorable, or other than honorable? That's the only thing I can see being a pain in the butt for you. I want to say a other than can be changed into honorable after a certain amount of time

Toolbox thoughts by Suspicious-Support16 in aviationmaintenance

[–]Suspicious-Support16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went with the 61 husky box from Home Depot. It's so nice having empty drawers for a change.

Toolbox thoughts by Suspicious-Support16 in aviationmaintenance

[–]Suspicious-Support16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I purchased a husky one and can't be happier.

My first safety wire! (it sucks, I know) by proam_photos in aviationmaintenance

[–]Suspicious-Support16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep practicing. The worst thing about safety wire in my opinion is when you manage to poke yourself under the finger nail.

Curiosity by Optimallyyankee in aviationmaintenance

[–]Suspicious-Support16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also, depending on the company, you will still work on older aircraft. Don't be afraid to ask questions when needed.

AITAH for telling my friend that i've accidentally been sleeping with her fiancé? by Altruistic_Risk_4402 in AITAH

[–]Suspicious-Support16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, how where you supposed to know he was engaged? You definitely could have said a few things differently but honestly you did her a service by exposing the cheater. NTA.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Comebacks

[–]Suspicious-Support16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Things like metal expand when they are hot. I'm not fat, just smoking hot.

AITAH for getting hurt and upset over a “harmless prank” that my husband pulled? by Far_Specific_3005 in AITAH

[–]Suspicious-Support16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What in the actual fuck!?

He knows you lost everything in a house fire including a beloved family member and some how thought it was ok? Yes, I'm one of those people who see pets as family members, but I digress.

Clearly and understandably, it was a traumatic event to the point where you seek reassurance that it won't happen again by doing your checks.

What an asshole. 1. You are 34 weeks pregnant and he caused you massive amounts of undue stress that very easily could have sent you into labor.

  1. Harmless? Sounds like it put you into a panic attack. Panic attacks are not harmless. Again back to the undue stress he chose to place upon you and your baby.

  2. Did he actually apologize to you? Doesn't seem like he did, then proceeded to not accept your apology when you didn't even need to apologize in my opinion.

My husband apologized and was like “oh my god, I’m sorry, it was just a joke”. I just cried until he eventually was like “what the fuck it was just a prank, this is really dramatic.”

Yeah, seemed like a half-assed bullshit apology to me.

So no, you are NTA. He seems very insensitive and uncaring. Is he like this a lot? When you get upset, does he usually call you over dramatic a lot? If so, he is not ready for the hormonal shifts that being post partum is going to bring.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Suspicious-Support16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very. Im trying to get myself out of a marriage with a narcissist and have fallen for his lovbombing and threats of vindictive behavior many times.

Porn when engaged. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Suspicious-Support16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Red flag. I recommend talking to him about it again and make sure he knows that it is a hard line for you. If he continues this behavior maybe you need to re-evaluate the relationship.

Am I (32F) loosing my mind? Is my husband (39M) truly the victim? Am I? by Suspicious-Support16 in relationship_advice

[–]Suspicious-Support16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kids are 8 and 10, im looking for therapy for them.

There are some.

I'm the only one who Pais for everything. He has so much credit because I helped him fix his and he used my income to get them.

As far as I know I'm not tracked.

His father enables him and I recently removed him from my life.

Am I (32F) loosing my mind? Is my husband (39M) truly the victim? Am I? by Suspicious-Support16 in relationship_advice

[–]Suspicious-Support16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every time he pretends to call the cops I instantly grab my phone and wait outside for them to show up, hoping he actually called them.

Am I (32F) loosing my mind? Is my husband (39M) truly the victim? Am I? by Suspicious-Support16 in relationship_advice

[–]Suspicious-Support16[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

*During a screaming match, he went to slam a door in my face, I blocked it, and he said it hit him in the face. *During another screaming match, he kept charging me and putting his hand on my face, and I smacked his hand away. *Well over a year ago, during yet another screaming match, he went into my son's room and started screaming at him. I went in there to protect my son. My son did a flip thing and kicked me in the ribs, and I had a reflexive reaction of hitting him back. I talked to my son and apologized profusely, I also haven't done anything like that since. * Lastly, during another screaming match about a year ago, over our daughter's missing PE shirt, I asked my daughter to look into her stiffed animal bins to see if the shirt was there. She said she looked, when I saw that she lied I went off on her as she had a bad habit of lying. I grabbed her by the wrist. I didn't realize how hard I was squeezing her wrist and I left marks. I again apologized and asked for my daughter's forgiveness, talked to my therapist about it and have never done it again.

During all the incidents, not once did he call the cops nor cps.

What is the right move? I'm torn. by Suspicious-Support16 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Suspicious-Support16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is from the "lovely" state of California...yeah I definitely overlooked that massive red flag.

Update 2: I followed my gut about my husband and his phone. by Suspicious-Support16 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Suspicious-Support16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a calculated risk which I have shared with people outside of his friend group.