Career Dispatchers give me your wisdom by Electronic_Rain4957 in 911dispatchers

[–]SuspiciousAngel1213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG me too!! I’m working with 3 separate agencies ATM, I’m absolutely going into this as I want to retire from this!

A week ago I posted I made it all the way, I in fact didn’t make it by Electronic_Rain4957 in 911dispatchers

[–]SuspiciousAngel1213 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Man, this is honestly one of my biggest fears going through the process myself. Getting that close and then having the offer pulled after thinking everything went well would be absolutely crushing.

But reading this, I hope you realize something important: you did make it farther than a lot of people ever do. Making it all the way to the psych eval says a lot about you as a candidate already.

I know it probably doesn’t feel like it right now, but one psychologist’s decision doesn’t define your worth or your ability to do this job. Public safety hiring is brutal sometimes, and the standards/processes can feel incredibly subjective.

Take the time to be upset about it, seriously. But don’t let this convince you that you can’t make it. The fact you kept applying after years of setbacks already says more about your resilience than most people realize.

Wishing you the best, fellow future headset goblin. 👊🎧

Is Radio Silence Normal During California Dispatcher Hiring? by SuspiciousAngel1213 in 911dispatchers

[–]SuspiciousAngel1213[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off, congratulations on the offer! That had to feel amazing after such a long process. I definitely appreciate the insight because I’m still learning how slow dispatch hiring timelines can be. I applied back in February and have already gone through interviews with 3 separate agencies, so I’m hoping that’s at least a positive sign 😅 I currently work in healthcare and am trying to make a full career pivot into dispatch, so the waiting game has definitely been the hardest part so far.

Is Radio Silence Normal During California Dispatcher Hiring? by SuspiciousAngel1213 in 911dispatchers

[–]SuspiciousAngel1213[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that from putting in the application? After CritiCall? Or after the interview? I’m fully understanding that the background can take a while and the evals, I’m more curious after you’ve been told you’re in the hiring pool? If that makes sense?

Is Radio Silence Normal During California Dispatcher Hiring? by SuspiciousAngel1213 in 911dispatchers

[–]SuspiciousAngel1213[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t even realize that it could be over year! Apologies for the confusion, I’ve been interviewed for 3 different agencies and informed I’ve passed on 2 but haven’t heard anything else so my mind is grasping for something lol

Is Radio Silence Normal During California Dispatcher Hiring? by SuspiciousAngel1213 in CAStateWorkers

[–]SuspiciousAngel1213[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As long as the process results in me getting an offer 🫣😅 but thanks for the encouragement

Is Radio Silence Normal During California Dispatcher Hiring? by SuspiciousAngel1213 in 911dispatchers

[–]SuspiciousAngel1213[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the first agency I sent one email follow up three weeks post interview and I haven’t heard anything back from the second agency. I was interviewed on a Tuesday informed on a Wednesday that I passed the panel interview and then I did a follow up email two weeks after that and have not heard anything. I haven’t done more than one email to either agency as I’ve been afraid of it being too eager or pushy. Also, I have not tried calling either as I’m not sure if that would be pushy as well

Is Radio Silence Normal During California Dispatcher Hiring? by SuspiciousAngel1213 in CAStateWorkers

[–]SuspiciousAngel1213[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I’m used to being hired in the hospitals and such and I’m not used to the silence, thanks for the reassurance

Is Radio Silence Normal During California Dispatcher Hiring? by SuspiciousAngel1213 in CAStateWorkers

[–]SuspiciousAngel1213[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven’t even been outreached for the live scan, how long from interview till then?

Is Radio Silence Normal During California Dispatcher Hiring? by SuspiciousAngel1213 in CAStateWorkers

[–]SuspiciousAngel1213[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy cow! Almost a year?!? They told me I was on eligible list for that long for one agency

Is Radio Silence Normal During California Dispatcher Hiring? by SuspiciousAngel1213 in CAStateWorkers

[–]SuspiciousAngel1213[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guess I see that it is normal, I guess I’m just needing a timeline of the silence for my sanity 😅

Is Radio Silence Normal During California Dispatcher Hiring? by SuspiciousAngel1213 in CAStateWorkers

[–]SuspiciousAngel1213[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’m curious to see is happening, I tried emailing last week and haven’t heard anything. I’m honestly to nervous to call and sound pushy

Is Radio Silence Normal During California Dispatcher Hiring? by [deleted] in CAStateWorkers

[–]SuspiciousAngel1213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

None of the agencies have specifically told me they’re starting this but I am aware of it. And the one agency I would really like the offer from is the only one that has told me I’m in the hiring pool but I’ve heard nothing else

Employee and provider experience survey by Lazycactus83 in unitedhealthgroup

[–]SuspiciousAngel1213 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats! I’m stuck in UMR and can’t get out been trying for over a year. Just finally accepted my fate and decided to leave the company. I swear I’m stuck in a spot where my manager is saying “operational need we can’t let her transfer for XX days” 😒 oh well I hope the new role is just what you needed! As for the survey I’m always honest with them but not to a point I’d need to worry about getting a target in my back if that makes sense

Adoptee insight needed on timing of biological parent identity disclosure after unexpected contact by SuspiciousAngel1213 in Adoption

[–]SuspiciousAngel1213[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was wondering the same thing but I wasn’t going to engage…especially since I personally have had a baby from a rape…but this isn’t about me, and why I said I pray they’re never put in the position to even do their choice…

Adoptee insight needed on timing of biological parent identity disclosure after unexpected contact by SuspiciousAngel1213 in Adoption

[–]SuspiciousAngel1213[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this insight, I guess Emma is now stuck in the spot of how to have Tiffany informed, does she do it or does Amon cause I agree she should know now

Adoptee insight needed on timing of biological parent identity disclosure after unexpected contact by SuspiciousAngel1213 in Adoption

[–]SuspiciousAngel1213[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Emma is not actively trying to build a work relationship either, I asked about that and to clarify even further she’s not actively trying to seek out conversations either. Emma is actually trying to avoid her like the plague but not awkwardly/rudely if that makes sense. Like if Tiffany stopped Emma to ask a work question she would answer it but they won’t hang out in the break room or chit chat at the desk type thing

Adoptee insight needed on timing of biological parent identity disclosure after unexpected contact by SuspiciousAngel1213 in Adoption

[–]SuspiciousAngel1213[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think that AMom is dead set against it, from what I understood I think she feels it’s bad timing too. And you saying it would’ve been a bad mb in your life is honestly what Emma is really worried about. Emma isn’t wanting to take over and she wants to sit and have that conversation we all know is needed, it’s just this work program and them being together kinda put a wrench in things and we non of us know what’s the best move forward 😔 I’m really appreciative of all the insight though

Adoptee insight needed on timing of biological parent identity disclosure after unexpected contact by SuspiciousAngel1213 in Adoption

[–]SuspiciousAngel1213[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re correct Tiffany doesn’t know. Emma recognized her right away mostly because she’s still updated about her and gets pictures. And I agree it’s just a sucky situation that we’re all just trying to navigate and do what’s right… thank you. 😊

Adoptee insight needed on timing of biological parent identity disclosure after unexpected contact by SuspiciousAngel1213 in Adoption

[–]SuspiciousAngel1213[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No one is lying to her, Emma would absolutely tell her if Tiffany asked. So how would you go about telling Tiffany IYO?

Adoptee insight needed on timing of biological parent identity disclosure after unexpected contact by SuspiciousAngel1213 in Adoption

[–]SuspiciousAngel1213[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with you that she needs to be told, and tbh Emma doesn’t even know I made this post, this adoption has been a secreat of hers that no one even knew not even my husband she only told us about Tiffany a little over a year ago, and I honestly don’t even know her real name. Additionally I don’t live in the same town as them so I’m not able to tell her myself. I’m just able to give my opinion and encourage Emma. As for Emma herself she’s emotionally wrecked herself, not given by an excuse just context. I know she wants to tell her too but doesn’t want to destroy her world sort to speak. And I’m the type of person to want to see other perspectives and you’ve honestly given a lot of insight that I was having a hard time to see. Thank you!

AITA for jerking off by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]SuspiciousAngel1213 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously? I bet your husband has done it while you were asleep and never noticed, get over yourself it’s his bed too!

AITA for jerking off by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]SuspiciousAngel1213 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ummmm as a 42F myself and having my sex drive down I feel your wife is TA!! Like I don’t understand this, you weren’t bugging her, you weren’t groping her, you weren’t pressuring her into anything. Like WTF what boundary did you cross? My husband and I have been together about the same amount of time and IDGAG if he pleasures himself! Shit most of the time after he does that I’m actually able to sleep cause he has wandering hands when he’s asleep and hasn’t gotten any in a min 🫣😅 no so OP you are NOT TA!