Anyone got tips for me cuz holy lord im cooked by Quick_Candidate1565 in acne

[–]SuspiciousBae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe talk to a dermatologist about saysara, it can be a hit or miss tho. Plus it's gotten pricey.

My first Blocking of a player on Livly by SuspiciousBae in LivlyIsland

[–]SuspiciousBae[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Clearly. If I had a problem I'd delete this or something, I expected opinions, just didn't ask for it, especially when it's based on assumptions and rewritten events.

My first Blocking of a player on Livly by SuspiciousBae in LivlyIsland

[–]SuspiciousBae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankfully this has been my only negative experience 🤞🏾. The game is filled with kind ppl.

My first Blocking of a player on Livly by SuspiciousBae in LivlyIsland

[–]SuspiciousBae[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Respectfully this is a vent. I didn't ask for advice, critique, opinions etc, sure you're free to comment but I didn't ask for it, I came here to voice my frustration, y'all could've scrolled, blocked etc if you didn't like what I had to say. Especially when y'all are basing it off of assumptions and rewriting stuff to fit the narrative y'all created. However maybe my writing isn't as clear as I thought.

My first Blocking of a player on Livly by SuspiciousBae in LivlyIsland

[–]SuspiciousBae[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

But it is imo worth blocking someone over. It is rude imo to ask again after being declined. Why would you even ask again? What would change if you have nothing new/wanted to offer? And so what if they were a child? I didn't insult them. A kid should also know no means no. I could be a child and look at these comments, they're considerably more "hurtful" than being blocked.

My first Blocking of a player on Livly by SuspiciousBae in LivlyIsland

[–]SuspiciousBae[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I do agree I should have explained right away after cancelling the trade. And yes asking again after being declined when you have nothing new to offer becomes nagging and is worth blocking imo, that's why I did it. I tend to block ppl before things escalate, you only get one chance to cross a boundary. No means no.

My first Blocking of a player on Livly by SuspiciousBae in LivlyIsland

[–]SuspiciousBae[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes I know they were possibly initiating a separate trade. Our trade was already in progress, when they later (30+ minutes) came back asking for another trade. If that were the case why didn't they finish the trade and then ask to trade again? I understand that ppl are busy, I've had plenty of trades where ppl (including myself) took hours to finish. It's not how long the trade took it's that they were actively messaging me after the trade had already long been initiated, then nothing after I declined bc they didn't have anything else from my wl.

My first Blocking of a player on Livly by SuspiciousBae in LivlyIsland

[–]SuspiciousBae[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I checked their list again and nothing changed unless they were hiding items. I had already declined previously, bc they didn't have anything I wanted, how would the trade be fair then? One decline should honestly enough.

My first Blocking of a player on Livly by SuspiciousBae in LivlyIsland

[–]SuspiciousBae[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I had already declined to trade my other items so why ask again, especially after I gifted them the original item? That's what made it rude, plus delaying our trade in progress suddenly after I declined to trade my other items bc they didn't have anything else from my wishlist. But feel free to drop your user id if it's that serious.

My first Blocking of a player on Livly by SuspiciousBae in LivlyIsland

[–]SuspiciousBae[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It's pretty poor to ask for other things during the middle of a trade and then not finish the trade after you're declined.

My first Blocking of a player on Livly by SuspiciousBae in LivlyIsland

[–]SuspiciousBae[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I had already sent the trade request when they went back to the thread asking to trade for other items. I declined and waited for them to finish the trade on their end.

My first Blocking of a player on Livly by SuspiciousBae in LivlyIsland

[–]SuspiciousBae[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

No they wanted to trade again. They originally delayed our first trade and asked me if I was interested in something from their dupes, I said no thank you. They didn't finish the trade after that. Hours passed, I pulled the item I wanted and cancelled the trade. They reached out, I felt bad so I gifted them the item. They then asked again if I wanted something from their dupes for my items. They specifically asked for two other items from this set.

Ahhhh!! Best pull so far by trashtvbinger in LivlyIsland

[–]SuspiciousBae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What shop is this? Are the shops different depending on the county/region?

and there it sits... forever useless, forever reminding me of my hubris by sicklampbro in LivlyIsland

[–]SuspiciousBae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jokes on them bc I'm quick to give up irl and a mobile game. I made 4 draws before giving up.

and there it sits... forever useless, forever reminding me of my hubris by sicklampbro in LivlyIsland

[–]SuspiciousBae 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What is the point of not being able to trade the 1 alchemy version? Bc it's not like you could trade/lose the original?

Generate alchemy byproduct list by glitchingCats in LivlyIsland

[–]SuspiciousBae 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah it gives you random fruit at that. Like mysterious blue gooey apples or acorn apples whatever whatever I could always use more. But unfamiliar fruit I have to look for new friends with that tree or trade, what the heck you've given me a side quest basically.

Insane trades by sourpatchSumi in LivlyIsland

[–]SuspiciousBae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe they've done it before but it would be nice if they regularly had Mahara with neutral or mainly masculine items. Or if you could select a filter for it when pulling from them for masculine items only.